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Offline Kikirics

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HoW risky?
« on: January 05, 2014, 09:04:56 AM »
Hi sorry my english is not really good.Forgive me the gramatic errors.
 Im living in Hungary I started to met with my ex couple of weeks ago. First we break off 4 years ago.  26th of december, I slept with him. We used condom int he main time. When we started he put on the condom and we started sex. After i gave him blow job, without condom. He didnt ejaculated in my mouth, it was only took few minutes. After, he started rubbing his penis close to my vagina entrance. I told him to stop and put on other condom. He went to look for it, this take few minutes. He came back, he put on the condom, and we start to sex. My first question, Is it a chance a precum went inside me anf infectad me?
When he finished he was ont he top, he didnt take his penis out straighaway, When he took it out. The condom was still there, but his penis become little bit soft. Condom was not licking.
Yesrterday we went on he party he was little bit drunk and he told me he seeing other wimen, and he had sex many women . He not always used condom. I told him to go test but he said he sure his fine I break off with him.  In hungary the HIV is not that bad liek the USA They only diagnostic 2500 hiv positive people, but in my country people not really going testing.
So what do you think am Im in risk to infected?
Thanks

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Re: HoW risky?
« Reply #1 on: January 05, 2014, 09:11:38 AM »
Kikirics,

You have NOT had a risk for hiv infection. It doesn't matter if he has had unprotected sex with other people, he wore a condom when he had vaginal intercourse with you. That's all that matters.

Giving a blowjob is not a risk for hiv infection.

Condoms have been proven to prevent hiv infection. There have been three long-term studies of couples where one is positive and one is negative. In the couples who used condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, but no barrier for oral activities, not one of the negative partners became infected with hiv. Not one.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST FOR HIV SPECIFICALLY FOLLOWING PROTECTED INTERCOURSE OR BLOWJOBS, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

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Re: HoW risky?
« Reply #2 on: January 05, 2014, 09:41:48 AM »
Ok thanks. But is a risk when he rubbed his penis in my entrance if he ha precum, and after it is went inside me. When he finished and stayd ibside me I felt something is fluid out from ma I think it was my own fluid. Because the condom is stayed on him. This is a risk?

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Re: HoW risky?
« Reply #3 on: January 05, 2014, 09:49:13 AM »
Kikirics,

The sexual rubbing of body parts together without penetration (called frottage) is what you're describing and frottage is NOT a risk for hiv infection, even if cum or pre-cum is present.

Hiv is a fragile, difficult to transmit virus that is primarily transmitted INSIDE the human body, as in unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse where the virus never leaves the confines of the two bodies.

Once outside the body, small changes in temperature, and pH and moisture levels all quickly damage the virus and render it unable to infect. For this reason, frottage or any other activity that results in cum on the outside of the body - even if it ends up inside the body afterwards - is NOT a risk for hiv infection.

Nothing you have described was a risk for hiv infection. You only need to test if you're not already testing regularly.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!!!

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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