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HIV Risk
« on: January 04, 2014, 09:57:14 AM »
Dear all
I have read some topics here about my issue but I would like to be more sure about my case.

I was with sex worker (she) and I received protected oral sex.

However she licked my anus. I have sometimes cut anus from toilett paper but that day it was ok and paper was without any blood marks. My question is:

If I would have a small cut from paper on my anus and she would have wound in her mounth, is there a risk of hiv transmission?

I used this service because I had to prove something to myself and wasn't prepared for ass licking. Please advise.

Thanks a lot.
Best regards,
Peter

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Re: HIV Risk
« Reply #1 on: January 04, 2014, 10:02:17 AM »
Peter,

Getting a blowjob - with or without a condom - or getting your anus licked are NOT risks for hiv infection. Not one person has ever been infected in either of these two ways and you are not going to be the first.

Not only is saliva not infectious, but it also contains over a dozen different proteins and enzymes that damage hiv and render it unable to infect. This is why things like kissing, blowjobs, anilingus and cunnilingus aren't risks for hiv.

Regarding blood or wounds in the mouth, unless you're in the habit of repeatedly punching a person in the mouth before they kiss, blow or lick you, there could not possibly be enough blood present to cause the slightest hiv concern.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST FOR HIV SPECIFICALLY FOLLOWING BLOWJOBS, KISSING OR ANILINGUS, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann

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Re: HIV Risk
« Reply #2 on: January 04, 2014, 10:32:06 AM »
Many thanks for your reply you made me feel much better.
Does this mean that even wearing a condom when receiving a blowjob is a bit useless? My other question, if I would purposely cut my skin into 0.5 inch deep lets say on a wrist, how many drops of someones HIV positive blood would be neccessary to pass the infection? I don't need very precise answer but just to give me a big picture how infectious is it.
Many thanks and have a great day!
Peter

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Re: HIV Risk
« Reply #3 on: January 04, 2014, 10:52:09 AM »
Peter,

Wearing a condom for blowjobs will protect you from other STIs that unlike hiv, can be transmitted that way.

There is no real answer to your other question - there are too many variables. What I can tell you is that you'd have to have a fresh, deep cut and you'd have to get fresh blood directly from the other person's body into that cut before you'd need to start worrying about hiv.

Hiv is a fragile, difficult to transmit virus that is primarily transmitted INSIDE the human body, as in unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse where the virus never leaves the confines of the two bodies.

Once outside the body, small changes in temperature, and pH and moisture levels all quickly damage the virus and render it unable to infect.

In adults, hiv is transmitted by:

Unprotected anal intercourse.

Unprotected vaginal intercourse.

Sharing drug injecting equipment.

And that's it.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you willl avoid hiv infection. IT REALLY IS THAT SIMPLE!!!

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

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Re: HIV Risk
« Reply #4 on: January 04, 2014, 11:55:14 AM »
Thank you very much Ann, your advises are much appreciated. You make thinks much easier by motivating others to focus on what is real important rather than providing too many confusing details and ending up remembering nothing.
Have a great day!
Best regards,
Peter

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Re: HIV Risk
« Reply #5 on: May 25, 2014, 08:41:30 AM »
I removed you post that you posted outside of this thread . Please only post in this one thread no matter how long between visits or the subject matter . You can find this thread by going to your profile and selecting show own post .

Ann answered your condom question in this thread already .

 


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