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Offline Boz

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should I have concerns
« on: July 23, 2015, 07:54:18 AM »
about 7.5 months ago I had sex with a CSW that has me scared to death.  She offered sex with or without condom but the condomless sex was about $50 more.  The risk involved was a condom covered BJ and then I chose protected sex but used the same condom as BJ and after about 12 seconds of vaginal sex the condom broke and I pulled out immediately and then finished with my hand.  So I had a risk just not sure how high. 

I have tested but I have taken the easy approach and used the in-home Oraquick oral swab.  I have gotten negative results at 6 weeks, 12 weeks, 18 weeks, and 7.5 months.

I have read so much stuff and not sure what to believe or trust anymore about using the test I have chosen to utilize.  Should I be able to have complete faith in the test I have taken along with the timeline and have no what if's or but's?

I appreciate your time in helping me with this concern.

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Re: should I have concerns
« Reply #1 on: July 23, 2015, 07:59:41 AM »
Boz, the risk from condom breakage is a low one, especially for the insertive partner.

You have more than reliably tested negative for HIV and you don't have to be further concerned about this incident.

Stop worrying and get on with your life.
Andy Velez

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Re: should I have concerns
« Reply #2 on: July 24, 2015, 07:49:51 AM »
I assume that I have over read or researched what other stated about this test and I have sympoms that I related to being HIV infected.  I guess I wonder if I dont produce or have high enough qualnties of the antibody in the oral fluids.

So at 7.5 months is there any chance that this would be a false negative? 

Offline Jeff G

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Re: should I have concerns
« Reply #3 on: July 24, 2015, 07:52:59 AM »
A 3 month negative test is conclusive, so you do not have have HIV and can move on. Every person who comes here has symptoms until the day they test negative or accept that they are negative. If you are sick go see a doctor, its not HIV making you sick.

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Re: should I have concerns
« Reply #4 on: July 24, 2015, 08:29:32 AM »
Thanks so can you tell if the accuracy goes up with waiting a longer time beyond the 90 period? 

I again have read so much info in the lest few weeks that has made me doubt the test.  But when I called our local testing center they use the same test basically.  I just want to be able to say I had a risk and tested and without a doubt I am negatie and not have this thought pop in my head everytime a illness for a small rash pops up. 

Sorry to beat a dead horse.

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« Reply #5 on: July 24, 2015, 08:35:10 AM »
There is nothing more accurate than a conclusive test at 3 months. I promise you the answer will not change if you ask the question a different way, if you had HIV you would have tested positive by 6 weeks and certainly by 3 months. You do not have HIV.


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