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Offline iwishthebest

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Half erection - loose condom
« on: December 08, 2013, 02:01:47 PM »
I had sex with a thai woman who possibly was a sex worker in past. I had difficulties to get erection with condom. We tried intercourse twice after I got a bit harder. I got soft again and pulled out. Condom never slipped away though. Sometimes nearly halfway but I pulled it back. On third time I was able to keep erection and do until finish. Quite shortly after finishing I pulled out and condom was still on. So everything ok about that, I think. Between these three try-outs she gave me handjob trying to make me hard.
I worry two things about HIV.
Number 1 is: When I took the condom off after having sex, my penis was wet all the way under condom. Is it possible her fluids got under my condom and could have infected me because of my half erection?
Number 2 is: I am also afraid of her nails when she gave me handjob and she also checked the condom with her fingers if it is ok. So her nail tips touched the condom for sure. Is it possible the condom got some small holes without noticing?
Do I need to go to tests?

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Re: Half erection - loose condom
« Reply #1 on: December 08, 2013, 02:15:47 PM »
The important this is the tip of your penis was covered during sex . If present HIV resides deep in the vagina in a mucosa near the cervix . The fluids you are concerned with in your post are the fluids a woman makes when excited and these fluids are not infectious for HIV . So an intact condom means no HIV . 

Condoms are designed to leave no doubt when they fail so you would have known if it had malfunctioned .

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED HIV TESTING AT THIS TIME for this incident , anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than HIV. Some of the other STDs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid HIV infection. It really is that simple!

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Re: Half erection - loose condom
« Reply #2 on: December 08, 2013, 02:31:35 PM »
Ok, thank you very much for quick reply! Feel a lot better now after these facts.

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Re: Half erection - loose condom
« Reply #3 on: December 08, 2013, 02:32:14 PM »
You are welcome .


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