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Offline Celldweller1988

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Pre cum - The risks for men
« on: November 21, 2013, 02:09:13 PM »
Hi Everyone,

I have searched the internet looking for the answer to this question but can't seem to find a clear enough answer. Before I start, I have a slight health anxiety and noticed recently I question a lot of things without any symptoms so I tend to think the worst.

Anyway, back in July/August time I started a new job and ended up sleeping with a girl from work. I was a little drunk so being able to remember what happened slightly clouds my memory. From what I remember and I am not 100% we may have attempted to have sex but I don't remember penetrating her but on the off chance that I did it may have just been pre-ejaculation as I don't remember that particular feeling guys have when they do ejaculate.

Then we met up again a few weeks later she stayed around my place and we started kissing and so on she was drunk but I was still sober. She still wanted me to have unprotected sex with her, for a brief moment of madness I did penetrate her but immediately pulled out after 2 or 3 thrusts inside her, again there may have been a possibility of pre-ejaculation but definitely no full on ejaculation.

I do very much so intend on getting tests done, but for now I would like some information on what the risks are for a man to contract HIV through pre-cum in a girl. From what I remember there were no cuts of abrasions on my penis either.

Kind regards,

CD.
« Last Edit: November 21, 2013, 02:24:22 PM by Celldweller1988 »

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Re: Pre cum - The risks for men
« Reply #1 on: November 21, 2013, 05:37:08 PM »
You did have a risk and you will need to test . The brief insertion your describe is low risk for the insertive partner ( you ) but low risk does not mean no risk so you must test and can do so 6 weeks past any possible exposure and again at 3 months to confirm the results .

You also seem to be under the impression that if you do not ejaculate the risk isn't the same as if you did ejaculate , this is a myth and has no bearing one way or the other in the transmission of all stds HIV included .

Get tested and use condoms for vaginal or anal sex and you will avoid HIV .

I have edited this thread for clarity .
« Last Edit: November 22, 2013, 12:07:27 AM by Jeff G »

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Re: Pre cum - The risks for men
« Reply #2 on: December 05, 2013, 08:43:19 AM »
Thank you for the reply.

One other question, if a guy fingers a girl before unprotected sex, does this increase the risk of HIV transmission?

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Re: Pre cum - The risks for men
« Reply #3 on: December 05, 2013, 08:47:16 AM »
Cell,

Fingering is NOT a risk for hiv infection. The only risk you had was the brief unprotected intercourse and you are unlikely to end up hiv positive from it - although you do need to test to be certain.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

Anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

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Re: Pre cum - The risks for men
« Reply #4 on: December 05, 2013, 08:51:02 AM »
Thank you for the reply Ann.

I know that Fingering is not risky...or very minimal risk, but just wondering if the girl was fingered before insertion (as mucous membranes could have been broken) and the insertion took place, would you consider that as an increased possibility?

On a side note, the clinic refused to let me make an appointment in Belfast so now I have to wait till I go back to England.

Kind Regards,

Paul.

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Re: Pre cum - The risks for men
« Reply #5 on: December 05, 2013, 08:52:58 AM »
Thank you for the reply Ann.

I know that Fingering is not risky...or very minimal risk, but just wondering if the girl was fingered before insertion (as mucous membranes could have been broken) and the insertion took place, would you consider that as an increased possibility?

On a side note, the clinic refused to let me make an appointment in Belfast so now I have to wait till I go back to England.

Kind Regards,

Paul.

HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.

HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug users
Mother to child

 


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