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Author Topic: Is this a risk? please someone give me advice im going crazy.  (Read 889 times)

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Is this a risk? please someone give me advice im going crazy.
« on: November 12, 2013, 08:01:15 PM »
Hi, Almost 2 weeks ago i met a man on craigslist and we performed oral on eachother for about a halfhour. We did not ejaculate but there was deffinatly pre cum. Also when i was giving him the oral, i noticed a lump or some sort of cyst or wart on his shaft. I am going crazy and i need some advice. Is this an exposure and what isthe possibility of me having hiv now? A day later i had red dots in the back of my throat and soar throat. My lymph nodes have been out since then. What he had an open sore or cut on his penis?

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Re: Is this a risk? please someone give me advice im going crazy.
« Reply #1 on: November 12, 2013, 08:19:13 PM »
You didn't have a risk for HIV . There have been no fewer than three separate serodiscordant couples studies (where one person is HIV positive, the other negative.) These couples were tracked for three. five and ten years. The couples used condoms for penetrative vaginal and anal sex, but NO BARRIER at all for oral sex. Any kind of oral sex.

These studies yielded NO infections.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED HIV TESTING AT THIS TIME for this incident , anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

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Re: Is this a risk? please someone give me advice im going crazy.
« Reply #2 on: November 15, 2013, 08:03:23 PM »
Hi everyone, i posted on here a few days ago about a possible infection that happened about 2 weeks ago. I met this guy on craigslist and we met up and performed oral on eachother. While i gave him the oral i felt what felt like a lump that moved on his shaft near the head of his penis. it felt like a cyst. there was some precum also. a week goes by and i have lower adominal pain that is not constant. i also have lower back pain and irritaion on the tip of my penis. i talked to the guy on the phone and he said hes completely clean but i just feel like something isnt right. could this cyst or whatever have been bleeding while i was giving him head? should i get tested. please someone reply i need the advice.

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« Reply #3 on: November 15, 2013, 08:19:35 PM »
Please only post in this one thread no matter how long since visits or subject matter . You can go to your profile and select show own post and it will take you here .

Your questions have been answered already . You did not have a risk . If you are sick go see your doctor and find out why . We don't discuss symptoms because they are not specific to HIV . Please read this thread again for your answers .

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« Reply #4 on: November 17, 2013, 08:17:16 PM »
Hi i dont want to be annoying but im still going crazy. the guy i met revealed to me that he is hiv positive. for the past couple of days i have had severe diarreah about 3 times a day and my lymph nodes have been out and when i touch them it hurts and causes a sore throat. i know you guys say that i didnt have a risk but i forgot to mention that i did deep throat him and did feel some sort of cyat on his shaft. please someone respond

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« Reply #5 on: November 17, 2013, 09:15:52 PM »
You just cant take a list of symptoms and say its HIV because the same symptoms fit many other conditions , this is why we do not discuss symptoms .

The assessment doesn't change even if your partner has HIV , it was not a risk .

If you want to test for peace of mind you can do so at 6 weeks past any possible exposure and again at 3 months to confirm the result . You should expect a negative result since you did not have a risk for HIV .

Try not to stick your fingers in your lymph nodes , it makes them swell and hurt and makes you feel like something is wrong when the real problem is pressing on the lymph nodes . 


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