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Author Topic: Protected intercourse but fingered with cut finger  (Read 1118 times)

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Offline Itsmejjh

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Protected intercourse but fingered with cut finger
« on: November 02, 2013, 10:55:34 AM »
About two and half weeks ago I had protected intercourse with a prostitute in Las Vegas. I did finger her and noticed the next day I had a small cut on my knuckle.
This past week I started see a rash on my legs. Small red/pinkish spots on shin knee and calf. They don't itch. I do not have any other symptoms.
I am very concerned I have contracted HIV.

Could I have caught HIV through cut on finger?
Does rash sound like ARS rash?

I wanted to also not I workout at the gym daily and hoping the rash was something I picked up there.

I am a married man and obviously very fearful and guilty.

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Re: Protected intercourse but fingered with cut finger
« Reply #1 on: November 02, 2013, 11:05:47 AM »
About two and half weeks ago I had protected intercourse with a prostitute in Las Vegas. I did finger her and noticed the next day I had a small cut on my knuckle.
This past week I started see a rash on my legs. Small red/pinkish spots on shin knee and calf. They don't itch. I do not have any other symptoms.
I am very concerned I have contracted HIV.

Could I have caught HIV through cut on finger?
Does rash sound like ARS rash?

I wanted to also not I workout at the gym daily and hoping the rash was something I picked up there.

I am a married man and obviously very fearful and guilty.

You did not have a risk . The fluids a woman produces when excited isn't infectious for HIV . If present HIV resides deep in the vagina near the cervix , this is why fingering , cunnilingus and frottage isn't a risk for HIV . There is also the fact that the skin cells on your finger are not the kind of skin cells HIV can readily latch onto .

The risk factors for HIV are ...

Sharing IV drug needles immediately after use.
Unprotected anal and vaginal sex.
Mother to child during or shortly after birth
Very specific healthcare situations.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED HIV TESTING AT THIS TIME for this incident , anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple! 

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Re: Protected intercourse but fingered with cut finger
« Reply #2 on: November 02, 2013, 11:30:22 AM »
Thank you so much for the quick response...
God Bless

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Re: Protected intercourse but fingered with cut finger
« Reply #3 on: November 02, 2013, 11:53:39 AM »
You are welcome ! .

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Re: Protected intercourse but fingered with cut finger
« Reply #4 on: November 05, 2013, 09:12:05 AM »
Last post I promise. Just trying to get my head straight. You all been so helpful.

Again used condom for vaginal inter course. No breakage.
No oral either way. Matter of fact the girl was very adament that no kissing no oral no saliva exchange.
And again I fingered her with cut on knuckle

Am I at risk?

What is scaring me is the multiple raise red spots on my legs that I had for a week. And it came two weeks after this encounter.

Would rash come without fever?

I apologize guys just need some feedback. Again last post
God Bless

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Re: Protected intercourse but fingered with cut finger
« Reply #5 on: November 05, 2013, 09:20:55 AM »
Its,

FINGERING IS NOT A RISK FOR HIV INFECTION!!!

You've already been told this.

The rash that sometimes (not always) accompanies hiv seroconversion is NOT raised or itchy. If you're concerned about the rash on your legs, show a doctor. Whatever is causing it has NOTHING to do with hiv. Why would it when you haven't even had a risk?

Ann
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