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Author Topic: Very Disappointed  (Read 1392 times)

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Offline Bob_cool

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Very Disappointed
« on: October 07, 2013, 01:11:09 PM »
Hi,
You guys are doing a good job and thank you from my heart for doing this forum.

I mad a big mistake on 22nd September 2013 of having both Oral and vaginal sex with a sex worker, and it was a protected sex with a condom and i also rubbed her vagina for few time and there was no cuts on my fingers (but she did not allow fingering). Then i sucked her nipples for few times (no milk was coming). I am feeling guilty of having sex other than my wife. I really want live a happy life with her. Am i infected with HIV and is there a possibility of me getting infected with HIV. please reply to this at the earliest. i am unable to sleep. :'(

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Very Disappointed
« Reply #1 on: October 07, 2013, 01:38:43 PM »
Bob, you are worrying needlessly about HIV. The only confirmed risks for the sexual transmission of HIV are unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse. You used a condom. Excellent. You were well protected.

There is no need for further concern on your part nor any need for HIV testing.

Let it go and just get on with your life. Really.
Andy Velez

Offline Bob_cool

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Re: Very Disappointed
« Reply #2 on: October 08, 2013, 04:09:05 AM »
Thank you Andy, But just a follow up question,

She used a lot of Lube and the insertion did not last even for 2-3 minutes (very gentle and easy flowing) and i was done. she herself pulled of the condom and my only concern is whether there are any possibilities of the condom tear or condom failing.

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Re: Very Disappointed
« Reply #3 on: October 08, 2013, 09:10:22 AM »
Condoms are designed in such a way that when they fail there is no doubt . If the condom failed you would have known it .

As Andy advised , you didn't have a risk .   

Offline Bob_cool

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Re: Very Disappointed
« Reply #4 on: December 01, 2013, 06:49:00 AM »
Hi,
It has been 3 months now and i have not had any symptoms of HIV and do i have to still do check up?. :-\

And one of my friend got a blow job from a sex worker by using a condom and there was not vaginal/anal sex performed by him. but he is very afraid that he sucked here nipples and fingered her pussy and ass hole. He used the same hands to touch his penis after he removed the condom. what are the possibilities of HIV infection? :'(

Offline RapidRod

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Re: Very Disappointed
« Reply #5 on: December 01, 2013, 07:29:31 AM »
Hi,
It has been 3 months now and i have not had any symptoms of HIV and do i have to still do check up?. :-\

And one of my friend got a blow job from a sex worker by using a condom and there was not vaginal/anal sex performed by him. but he is very afraid that he sucked here nipples and fingered her pussy and ass hole. He used the same hands to touch his penis after he removed the condom. what are the possibilities of HIV infection? :'(
HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug users
Mother to child

 


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