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Offline arply1187

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Fingering and oral
« on: September 19, 2013, 02:15:30 PM »
Hello all,
I recently had two encounters with strippers:
1) I did some oral and rimming on a stripper (not a lot), french kissed her and sucked on her tits
2) I fingered a stripper with a tiny bit of peeled of skin on my finger (there was a very very small sign of my blood, really tiny probably dry though I am not sure), french kissed her and licked her tits.

I currently am in a stable relationship where I have unprotected sex, as we both tested ourselves before stopping with the condom.

Can I still have sex with my girlfriend without using a condom, or do I have to tell her and be abstinent/use a condom?

I have a mad fear of infecting her with HIV.

P.S (I know this is the HIV forum but do the abovementioned activities carry potential risks for other STDS?)

Thanks guys,

Cheers

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Re: Fingering and oral
« Reply #1 on: September 19, 2013, 02:26:15 PM »
The risk factors for HIV are ...

Sharing IV drug needles immediately after use.
Unprotected anal and vaginal sex.
Mother to child during or shortly after birth
Very specific healthcare situations.

I read your concerns carefully and completely and you did not have a risk for HIV in any of your concerns and do not need to test for this specific incident  , however anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!
 

As for other STD's , syphilis , HPV , Herpes are easily transmitted from skin to skin contact and can be present without symptoms .

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Re: Fingering and oral
« Reply #2 on: September 19, 2013, 02:28:56 PM »
Thanks Jeff, really appreciate it.

Have a good day

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Re: Fingering and oral
« Reply #3 on: December 10, 2013, 04:38:37 PM »
Hi all,
is testing 89 days after possible exposure considered conclusive? Or should I wait the full 91 days?
For other STD's is 89 days after exposure long enough also?
My exposure risk was very low.

Thank you in advance for your help

Have a good day

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Re: Fingering and oral
« Reply #4 on: December 10, 2013, 05:01:58 PM »
Hi all,
is testing 89 days after possible exposure considered conclusive? Or should I wait the full 91 days?
For other STD's is 89 days after exposure long enough also?
My exposure risk was very low.

Thank you in advance for your help

Have a good day
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Re: Fingering and oral
« Reply #5 on: December 10, 2013, 07:45:04 PM »
You did not have an HIV exposure so you can test at anytime you like . You can test for STD's at anytime now as well .

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Re: Fingering and oral
« Reply #6 on: December 11, 2013, 08:37:09 AM »
Hi all,
is testing 89 days after possible exposure considered conclusive? Or should I wait the full 91 days?
For other STD's is 89 days after exposure long enough also?
My exposure risk was very low.

Thank you in advance for your help

Have a good day

When there has been a true risk (YOU DID NOT HAVE A RISK), a conclusive test result can be had any time after 84 days (7 X 12 = 84).

Ann
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