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anxiety about protected sex
« on: September 03, 2013, 11:23:12 PM »
Hi all --
Long time reader, first time poster.

I have anxiety about having sex, and about 5 days ago I had a 4-sum out of blatant character.

I used a condom on the (only male) I had sex with, I received oral from 3 separate men without a condom.

This week, I was diagnosed with a viral infection, cold, fever, diharrea, migraine, vomiting, and the chills.

I know on many of the posts you guys say there is no risk here, because the only guy I had sex with I topped him using a condom... But, I wanted to get some assurance and or more insight as to transmission.

I also had sex about 1 month ago, PROTECTED of course, with a gentleman who I really don't know.

I got tested today and was found NEGATIVE, but I keep thinking that the instance 5 days ago has high risk for transmission..... Help ease my mind and or tell me facts?


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Re: anxiety about protected sex
« Reply #1 on: September 03, 2013, 11:27:20 PM »
You are HIV negative . Continue to use condoms correctly for vaginal and anal sex and you do not have to worry about HIV , its that simple . 

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Re: anxiety about protected sex
« Reply #2 on: September 03, 2013, 11:34:54 PM »
thanks for the speedy response, but do you believe I should go get tested again in 3-4 weeks?

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Re: anxiety about protected sex
« Reply #3 on: September 03, 2013, 11:37:30 PM »
You do not need testing for the incidents you outlined here , you had protected sex and the oral was not a risk . You do not have HIV .   


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