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Offline teehee93

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Can I get infected this way?
« on: August 17, 2013, 10:18:12 AM »
Hi all, thanks in advance..

So a few hrs ago I visited a massage parlor, the lady massaged me for about 15mins with body oil before massaging my anus and penis, she also massaged my penis tip, the urethra opening and gave me a handjob, again massaging the opening of urethra

I ejaculated on her hand and that's all.

However just 2 mins before she massaged me, she gave a hand job to another guy. What if the guy is infected and his semen was left on her hands?

Could his infected semen be passed on to me as she did touched my anus and urethra opening. What is she is infected and her hands/fingers has a cut.?

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Re: Can I get infected this way?
« Reply #1 on: August 17, 2013, 10:32:00 AM »
teehee,

You have NOT had a risk for hiv infection.

Hiv is a fragile, difficult to transmit virus that is primarily transmitted INSIDE the human body, as in unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse where the virus never leaves the confines of the two bodies.

Once outside the body, small changes in temperature, and pH and moisture levels all quickly damage the virus and render it unable to infect. For this reason, her hands could have been dripping in someone else's cum and it would not be an hiv risk to you.

In adults, hiv is transmitted by:

Unprotected anal intercourse.

Unprotected vaginal intercourse.

Sharing drug injecting equipment.

And that's IT.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST FOR HIV FOLLOWING A MASSAGE, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann
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Re: Can I get infected this way?
« Reply #2 on: August 17, 2013, 10:35:01 AM »
teehee,

You have NOT had a risk for hiv infection.

Hiv is a fragile, difficult to transmit virus that is primarily transmitted INSIDE the human body, as in unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse where the virus never leaves the confines of the two bodies.

Once outside the body, small changes in temperature, and pH and moisture levels all quickly damage the virus and render it unable to infect. For this reason, her hands could have been dripping in someone else's cum and it would not be an hiv risk to you.

In adults, hiv is transmitted by:

Unprotected anal intercourse.

Unprotected vaginal intercourse.

Sharing drug injecting equipment.

And that's IT.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST FOR HIV FOLLOWING A MASSAGE, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann


Thanks for the quick reply. However it was only after a few mins, I would say not more than 3 that she began massaging me..wouldn't the infected semen still be contagious?  She massaged the opening of my urethra a lot..could virus have went in from there and from my anus too since she also massaged there

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Re: Can I get infected this way?
« Reply #3 on: August 17, 2013, 10:56:50 AM »

Thanks for the quick reply. However it was only after a few mins, I would say not more than 3 that she began massaging me..wouldn't the infected semen still be contagious?  She massaged the opening of my urethra a lot..could virus have went in from there and from my anus too since she also massaged there

Ann answered your question quite completely when she replied ...

Hiv is a fragile, difficult to transmit virus that is primarily transmitted INSIDE the human body, as in unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse where the virus never leaves the confines of the two bodies.

Once outside the body, small changes in temperature, and pH and moisture levels all quickly damage the virus and render it unable to infect. For this reason, her hands could have been dripping in someone else's cum and it would not be an hiv risk to you.


You did not have a risk . No one has ever been infected with HIV in the manner you are concern over and you will not be the first . Best of luck .

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Re: Can I get infected this way?
« Reply #4 on: August 17, 2013, 11:00:10 AM »
Thanks to those who answered..I am very concerned as this was my first time doing such stuff and I am not a very sexually active person..I will not be doing this again. Thank you

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Re: Can I get infected this way?
« Reply #5 on: August 17, 2013, 11:06:13 AM »
Thanks to those who answered..I am very concerned as this was my first time doing such stuff and I am not a very sexually active person..I will not be doing this again. Thank you

One of life's simple pleasures is enjoying a healthy sex life and there is absolutely no reason you cant enjoy and explore that part of yourself and not expose yourself to HIV .

Use condoms correctly for vaginal and anal sex and you will avoid HIV . No need to reply , just offering a bit of reassurance that you can be a sexual person and HIV negative at the same time .

 


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