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« on: August 15, 2013, 09:47:57 AM »
I had sex with a prostitute 2 weeks ago

Condom was always on for both the blowjob and vaginal sex. It didn't break, however I realized after the act that the condom was 1/4 rolled up exposing the lower part of my penis (head and middle was still covered). Am I at risk?

When I was removing the condom, a little tiny bit of her vaginal fluid may have been transferred from the condom to my penis/fingers.

I'm feeling slightly feverish and fatigue yesterday and today. Is this seroconversion?

Am I at risk, was there anyone contracting HIV from similar incident? What's the statistics of someone contracting HIV from protected condom sex? 1 in 1,000,000?

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Re: My situation
« Reply #1 on: August 15, 2013, 09:59:34 AM »
The important thing is the head of your penis was covered and that is sufficient enough to make it a no risk situation . Exposing the shaft of your penis to vaginal fluid is not a risk .

HIV resides deeper in the vagina near the cervix and part of your penis that went near that area was covered and protected , so it was not a risk .

Many people make the mistake of thinking the secretions a woman makes is infectious where in fact it is not and poses absolutely no risk for HIV .

Here is what you need to know to avoid HIV and remain sexually healthy .

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

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Re: My situation
« Reply #2 on: August 15, 2013, 10:06:18 AM »
Thank you for the reply.

I'm in an country whereby testing positive for HIV will lead to my work pass getting canceled and I get sent back. As such, I'm too scared to get tested.

Here's what I really want to know. Assuming condom doesn't break, is it a 100% no-risk or is it a 90-99%?

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Re: My situation
« Reply #3 on: August 15, 2013, 10:14:26 AM »
Thank you for the reply.

I'm in an country whereby testing positive for HIV will lead to my work pass getting canceled and I get sent back. As such, I'm too scared to get tested.

Here's what I really want to know. Assuming condom doesn't break, is it a 100% no-risk or is it a 90-99%?

If you use condoms correctly and consistently you will not become infected with HIV . Here are the risk factors for HIV ....

Sharing IV drug needles immediately after use.
Unprotected anal and vaginal sex.
Mother to child during or shortly after birth
Very specific healthcare situations.

Dont share drug injection rigs with people , avoid being born again to a HIV positive mother and use those condoms for vaginal and anal sex and you are good to go buddy .   


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