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Offline madvmad

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PLEASE HELP ME
« on: June 27, 2016, 11:38:10 AM »
Hi all,
Kindly help me.I am very very scared.Last light I was in a massage parlour.In the session I am totally nude and the girl also.I didnt have any intercourse with her but does fingering twice (in-out and in-out) as she restricted.I had licked her boobs for two to four seconds slowly.Not kissed her mouth to mouth.

I does not have any visible wound or bleeding signs in my hand.
Could I infected.Kindly help me.

I am not very sure that I have touched my open penis in that finger or not.But washed thoroughly just after that.

Could I be infected.Please help me.

 

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Re: PLEASE HELP ME
« Reply #1 on: June 27, 2016, 11:56:48 AM »
Hi

The fingering in this case was not a risk and there simply has never been a documented case of HIV transmission via fingering.  Licking her breasts is also not a risk.

In short nothing you mentioned was a risk for HIV transmission

Continue to practice safer sex, use condoms correctly & consistently and get a full sexual health check-up including STI's & HIV testing at least yearly.   

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:
You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions. As you are sexually active, it is highly recommended that you get a full sexual health check-up / screening at least annually including but not limited to hiv testing.

Remember that some sexual practices which may be described as ‘safe’ in terms of HIV transmission might still pose a risk for transmission of other STI's. So please do get fully tested regularly for all STI's including HIV and more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs. Also note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

Finally use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, to avoid sexually transmitted hiv infection.

Kind regards

Jim

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Re: PLEASE HELP ME
« Reply #2 on: June 27, 2016, 12:12:21 PM »
Thank you so much JimDublin.
I am thankful to you through out my life.I am not sure if i have touched my opened penis in that finger (from which I have done fingering) or not.And there is no visible wound or rashes in my hand/finger as well.

Should I go for PEP for precautionary measure.Is there any check ups that we can do
Kindly suggest.I will be grateful to you sir. :'(

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Re: PLEASE HELP ME
« Reply #3 on: June 27, 2016, 12:19:24 PM »
Hi

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I am not sure if i have touched my opened penis in that finger (from which I have done fingering) or not

This was not a risk for a number of reason, one being that HIV is simply not infectious once exposed to air, it too fragile.   

Why would you take PEP ? If what you have posted is correct you had no exposure, and so no risk or need for PEP.

Jim
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Re: PLEASE HELP ME
« Reply #4 on: June 28, 2016, 01:23:31 AM »
sir,
I am sorry I am asking the same questions again and again.My sincere apologies for the same.It is making me free from anxiety.Kindly confirm is there a way to donate sir.

01.Is there any minimum time in which the HIV can active in the air-conditioned environment?

02.If I had immediately contacted my opened penis in the finger after done the fingering the girl,Is there any chance of getting infected?

03. She has done the Handjob on me,could it be infectious?

04.Could I maintain healthy sexual relation with my wife now,Will it be risk free or should have to wait 3 month to confirm after the test?

05.Should I take doctors advice in the mean time?

It is all due to my anxiety.I am very scared.Kindly respond.

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Re: PLEASE HELP ME
« Reply #5 on: June 28, 2016, 01:32:41 AM »
Hi

Nothing you mentioned was a risk.

Once hiv finds itself exposed outside the body to air, small changes in temperature, pH / moisture levels all quickly damage the virus and render it unable to infect. HIV is transmitted sexually inside the human body.

This incident was not a risk and you need to move on.

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Could I maintain healthy sexual relation with my wife now,Will it be risk free or should have to wait 3 month to confirm after the test?

If your asking if you can have unprotected intercourse I recommend condoms to be honest as your relationship is not monogamous.

Jim



HIV 101 - Basics
HIV 101
You can read more about Transmission and Risks here:
HIV Transmission and Risks
You can read more about Testing here:
HIV Testing
You can read more about Treatment-as-Prevention (TasP) here:
HIV TasP
You can read more about HIV prevention here:
HIV prevention
You can read more about PEP and PrEP here
PEP and PrEP

 


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