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Author Topic: Condom not break, it moving up&down  (Read 1486 times)

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Condom not break, it moving up&down
« on: July 05, 2013, 01:12:01 PM »
Dear Poz team...

I made this in point form to cut off the drama and make you easier...

-have sex with female with condom
-half way, I lost the erection, so I pulled it and rub it, to get the erection,no lubricate..
-penetrate again. Again, lost the erection and finally just receiving handjob, with condom. No lubricate.
(just realized, rubbing it dry,could tear it. stupid me!)

-during all this process, the condom is moving up and down.
-The ring part, sometime slip up
-The glans sometime move away from condom's tip,yet it still in the condom.
-After handjob,the semen, is not properly filled the tip, because my glans is far from condom's tip, yet it still in the condom.

1-since the condom moving freely on my penis, up and down, even it still cover my penis's glan..........am I exposed to hiv?
2-Is there possiblity that hiv might enter through ring? since it moving freely.

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Re: Condom not break, it moving up&down
« Reply #1 on: July 05, 2013, 01:19:15 PM »
Hi kawan , the important fact is your glans was covered with the condom , you did not have a risk . 

The secretions a women makes when excited isn't infectious for HIV so you do not have to worry that you came into contact with any infectious secretions while the condom was in place .

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED HIV TESTING AT THIS TIME for this incident , anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!   

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Re: Condom not break, it moving up&down
« Reply #2 on: July 05, 2013, 10:39:37 PM »
Oh thank you Jeff G.... ;)

That's was really fast reply! :D
Okay...I ll say (and tell anyone who ask me):
-even condom slip, and the only part it cover is the glans, user still protected from hiv.... (but not other Sti's, I believe)
-and hiv virus wont reach urethra,as long as glans is covered. even it slip, move crazily along the penis, and rest of user's penis (except glans) is wet by vaginal fluid 

I m gonna get full Sti's test soon....
Thank you again Jeff!

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Re: Condom not break, it moving up&down
« Reply #3 on: July 05, 2013, 10:48:29 PM »
You are welcome Kawan , just keep using condoms for vaginal and anal sex you will avoid HIV . When you are having sex and decide to pull out , just reach down and pull the condom snug against you , this will keep you from slipping completely out of the condom .

Check out the condom and lube links at the bottom of my reply here , there is good information there .


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