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« on: June 26, 2013, 12:39:47 PM »
Hi Ann & Andy,
Hope you could assist me by providing your valuable advises.

I had for the first time in my life had an intercourse with an Prostitute. Their was no hugging nor kissing. We started with she giving me unprotected blowjob. We stopped before I could cum. Then we had protected vaginal sex.

Things started after 6 weeks of the encounter when I got flu like symptoms with light headaches and dizziness. I also had sore throat and running nose for 3-4 days. I also had my lips dried and broken with a ulcer like in my mouth.

All these are still their in my 8 week also with slight diarrhea. I will be grateful if you could as advise my exposure level as I am very much concerned. Will I need to test for HIV or not. Also please advise the tests I should undergo for testing HIV and my sexual health.

Thanks for your advise and consultation.

A worried man

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« Reply #1 on: June 26, 2013, 12:49:34 PM »
Hi A007 , oral sex isn't a risk for HIV and the vaginal sex you had was protected so you did not have a risk .

The symptoms you are having are not specific to HIV , so we never discuss symptoms . If you are feeling unwell go see your doctor and find out why because the symptoms are not caused by HIV from the incident you are concerned about .

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED HIV TESTING AT THIS TIME for this incident anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

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« Reply #2 on: June 26, 2013, 01:01:28 PM »
Thanks Jeff for your detailed advise. Will surely do an health checkup after I complete my antibiotics course which I just started today for the flu & fever.

Hope that these symptoms go away or else will again advise you ;D

Many thanks and keep up the great work you guys are doing for the community.

God bless you...

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« Reply #3 on: April 28, 2014, 09:46:53 AM »
Just had an really bad nearmiss while having intercourse with an escort. We were having intercourse with an condom on and I maybe after 3-4 minutes noticed blood on the condom.

Immediately stopped and asked her if all was ok to which she replied that she had just completed her minor period yesterday. I went directly and had a bath to have myself cleaned.

Now I am really scarred to death on my exposure. I did had blood on my condom and also on my penis base. But no condom breakage.

Pls advise as I am really very very concerned on my exposure. Do I need to do any test etc.

Awaiting your reply anxiously.


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« Reply #4 on: April 28, 2014, 09:55:12 AM »
Please only post in this one thread no matter how long between visits or subject matter . You can find this thread by going to your profile and selecting show own post and it will take you here . Thanks .

You have not had a risk for HIV . You used a condom and had protected sex and the glans of your penis was fully covered so the blood is of no concern  . HIV is fragile and is not infectious once outside the human body so you need not worry about being infected from removing the condom either .


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