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Author Topic: should I write this in here... TMI  (Read 819 times)

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Offline idee

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should I write this in here... TMI
« on: June 19, 2013, 10:22:16 PM »
So I was at the store, the Circle K, and these two guys were in there, I guess around twenty or twenty-two. One said something about a Milf and the other asked me if I wanted to make a movie.
I just looked up what Milf means and I am kind of flattered. I obviously said I am happily married and that was it. Without knowing what Milf meant I kind of had an idea.
The woman at the register was very snotty towards me as I purchased my items, She had heard the whole thing.
I cannot tell my husband because I would be ticked if some woman approached him while he has a ring on that finger.
I thought of the whole thing as flattering and I feel good for 36.

Online Jeff G

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Re: should I write this in here... TMI
« Reply #1 on: June 19, 2013, 10:33:42 PM »
Its nice to be noticed , the last time someone told me they wanted to f**k me my question was out of what .  :)

Offline BT65

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Re: should I write this in here... TMI
« Reply #2 on: June 20, 2013, 05:35:06 AM »
Can I be blunt here?  When I was in my first go-round with addiction (heroin) I was in homemade porn movies.  I can tell you the people who shot them cared nothing for me, or anyone else they used for such purpose.  They're predators and you're fortunate they didn't continue after you.
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Online J.R.E.

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Re: should I write this in here... TMI
« Reply #3 on: June 20, 2013, 08:02:53 AM »
  They're predators and you're fortunate they didn't continue after you.

I agree with Betty.  I would have taken it a step further, and if they were driving, taken down their plate number and reported it.

This is how people disappear !

EDITED TO ADD: You also had a witness !

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Offline mecch

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Re: should I write this in here... TMI
« Reply #4 on: June 20, 2013, 08:32:49 AM »
Can I be blunt here?  When I was in my first go-round with addiction (heroin) I was in homemade porn movies.  I can tell you the people who shot them cared nothing for me, or anyone else they used for such purpose.  They're predators and you're fortunate they didn't continue after you.
When I read your post, idee, nobody had yet responded, so I didn't want to be the first to say something like BT65 said.
I am glad you took their attraction as a compliment!  Probably they were harmless enough and that's what they meant. 
But really, its a pretty clumsy and inelegant way to express appreciation to a woman, no?  I mean MILF - Mother I'd Like to ........   And a porno movie.   What is it with this young generation, totally new and often vulgar way of looking at things...   Porno is so thoroughly banal but to them....  Its a pity all the arts of being a gentleman Casanova are lost... 
This has nothing to do with you, idee, its their problem....
But I agree with others, it sucks...

Best!!!
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Offline OneTampa

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Re: should I write this in here... TMI
« Reply #5 on: June 20, 2013, 11:29:38 AM »
Idee,

I read your post and the Board Member responses and agree with the less than noble cinematic intentions of the two guys who approached you.

However, I also have a useful takeaway from that experience. Since you note you were flattered and you and your husband are happily married, why not treat each other to a Strasberg?  That is, role play the scene with each other just for giggles.   ;) :D ;D
« Last Edit: June 20, 2013, 11:33:57 AM by OneTampa »
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Offline idee

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Re: should I write this in here... TMI
« Reply #6 on: June 20, 2013, 04:57:54 PM »
I never thought they could have been dangerous or had bad intentions. I just thought that it has been awhile since I had been talked to as if I am an attractive woman. I am a little overweight so I felt noticed. Plus I felt that I must look healthy not like I am HIV positive.
I guess sometimes I am more preoccupied with my thoughts that I am not paying attention to something I should be.

Offline skeebo1969

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Re: should I write this in here... TMI
« Reply #7 on: June 20, 2013, 05:27:19 PM »


  Idee, There is no "look" to being HIV positive.   I can understand why you must have felt good about them calling you a MILF.  Hell, I take it as a compliment when they card me for cigarettes even though I know they have too.... 

  You've been blessed with good health, and if memory serves me correctly I believe you also have a child(ren) which is a blessing in of itself.  When you post your writing usually has an innocent air to it that I often find refreshing.  I think your more beautiful than you think, and that might be something you should look into as to why.

 
I despise the song Love is in the Air, you should too.

 


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