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Paladin:
I got my results 3 days ago. I think it is hard to even consider telling anyone let alone to actually do it.  I am on here for the same reason, I need to let it out and yet I find that I am holding back here too.  I don't want specifics that could identify me to my partner ( he is on here and pos also). Btw, he knows about me, but I do not want him reading my posts and have him figure out its me.

mecch:

--- Quote from: Paladin on April 25, 2013, 10:42:30 PM --- I don't want specifics that could identify me to my partner ( he is on here and pos also). Btw, he knows about me, but I do not want him reading my posts and have him figure out its me.

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Hmm... OK.   He knows you are HIV+ and yet you don't want to discuss HIV and being HIV+ with your partner, who is also HIV+.  May I ask why not?

jkinatl2:

--- Quote from: mecch on April 26, 2013, 12:47:15 AM ---Hmm... OK.   He knows you are HIV+ and yet you don't want to discuss HIV and being HIV+ with your partner, who is also HIV+.  May I ask why not?

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I can understand, actually. What if there are relationship issues that the OP wouldn't otherwise feel free to discuss? What if the OP wants a sounding board to talk about stuff BEFORE he brings it up to the boyfriend? Sites like this aren't exactly replete on the internet, and that can sometimes be awkward.

*modified to add: I am, however, not exactly sure how sustainable that arrangement is going to turn out. Really depends on the partner's curiosity, the OP's sharing, and the issues discussed. I'm pretty sure I couldn't catfish my boyfriend, at least not for a long time.


mecch:
Oh I can understand a situation like that.  But it might be hard to be incognito on the very same forum as one's partner. 

And as an aside, saying something like "my partner is on here and I don't want him to identify me" - is this strategic for staying incognito...  ???

Paladin:
It's not a bad situation that wants me to stay anonymous , my partner believes he infected me and he is dealing with guilt over this. It is probable that he did unknowingly infect me and I do have some anger issues over that, but I do not blame him, I just wish he had made better choices.  So I don't want him to read something like this and be 100% certain it is me because the only thing he will see is that I blame him and I don't want him to feel that way.

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