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Offline PleasehelpMe268

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Please help me, confused
« on: March 29, 2013, 10:23:02 PM »
Hi so I'm 18 and I'm a straight male. I found myself sleeping in a bed with a 17 year old gay male who is my friend. He ended up blowing me and I know that is no risk but then flipped me over and started to frottage with my ass. I had underwear on and he had his bare penis out. Now that I'm not gay I'm not sure if he could of entered me with my underwear on. I didn't feel any pain really and I kept my cheeks closed tight while laying down so he couldn't go in me. I panicked and he didnt go in me he said but I don't know if I can trust him. I'm just concerned if I I would know if he entered me.

Also he had a drunk unprotected sex 8.5 weeks ago as the receptive partner and that's raises the chances he has HIV god forbid but he got tested with Oraquick and it was negative. Am I at any risk? In just wondering if I did have one and if I would know for sure if he entered me even with my underwear on because he tried taking my underwear off once and I refused. Thank you

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Re: Please help me, confused
« Reply #1 on: March 29, 2013, 10:38:17 PM »
I can assure you that you were not entered by your friend , trust me you would know if he was inside of you .

There is nothing in the situation you described that as a risk for HIV so you can relax .
You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions and you will avoid exposure to the HIV virus .

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED FURTHER HIV TESTING AT THIS TIME, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to HIV testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine checkups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine HIV tests to return with negative results.


 


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