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« on: February 06, 2015, 09:32:40 AM »
My story would be too long for me to spell out the details and everything that has happened and symptoms so I will spare you the reading and try to make this brief as possible.

I had protected oral and sex with a female prostitute.  As she was giving oral it felt like I could feel her tongue on my penis with no barrier but I looked down and did not see a break or hole but it was a glance.  With the same condom I did maybe what is considered dipping (stuck it in her in and out maybe 8-10 times) and then ended the sex.  I guess my fear is the condom broke and with poor lighting maybe I did not see the tear. 

I have not tested as this is really the only sexual encounter I have had in a year and fear with all the opportunistic infections I have had I was infected and I feel like I might have swollen nodes.  I have not had sex of any sort since this and it has been like 10 months.  I dont get my physical until March and I do plan on testing as I do every year then but I dont want any surprises either.

Should I be concerned?

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« Reply #1 on: February 06, 2015, 09:42:53 AM »
You did not have a risk for HIV . Getting a blow job is not a risk condom or not and no one has ever been infected with HIV from getting their dick sucked . Condoms are designed as to leave no doubt when they fail so you would have known if it had you are just being paranoid and did not have a risk, but all sexually active people should test now and then whether you think you had a risk or not, if you do test do so for peace of mind as I am confident it will be negative if this is you're only concern .

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI.Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

Although you did not have a risk and do not need to test for this specific incident , anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

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« Reply #2 on: February 06, 2015, 11:29:55 AM »
I remember her having a tongue piercing and I wonder if that would have maybe created a hole or would it still be the condom would tear completely?   

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« Reply #3 on: February 06, 2015, 11:34:59 AM »
I remember her having a tongue piercing and I wonder if that would have maybe created a hole or would it still be the condom would tear completely?   

No you would have known if the condom had broke, condoms do not get micro holes, it would be noticeable . The important part is the tip of your penis is covered anyway .

You really can move on from the HIV fear you did not have risk of HIV .


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