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Offline Melana

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Exposed to menstrual blood and chapped lips
« on: August 20, 2013, 04:31:44 PM »
I am a man age 31.
Here is my sad story. Yesterday I was having protected sex with a girl I met 2 days ago. At first she gave me oral sex. I noticed she had chapped lips, however I did not pay much attention to it. Later I put on a condom and we started our protected sex. After 4 minutes I noticed that something was not right. I pull out and I see a lot of blood on the base of my penis which was not covered by the condom as well as on my belly. I freaked out and I went to the toilet to clean. I asked if she had done the tests and she said she did hiv test 5 months ago and was negative, however she had protected sex one month ago but at some point the condom got lost so she was exposed to this guy's liquids.
We run to the HIV center and she did the fast test from her finger which came negative. I know 3 months have to passed for this test to become effective. Assuming that she is positive:

1. What are the odds of me getting something from her chapped lips while she was giving me oral?
2. What are the odds of me getting something from her menstrual blood on my penis base and belly?

Thank you

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Re: Exposed to menstrual blood and chapped lips
« Reply #1 on: August 20, 2013, 04:43:40 PM »
1. What are the odds of me getting something from her chapped lips while she was giving me oral?

Zero ... Getting a bj is not a risk . Saliva isnt infectious and in fact damages HIV rendering it unable to infect . Chapped lips is not a risk factor .   

2. What are the odds of me getting something from her menstrual blood on my penis base and belly?

HIV is fragile and instantly damaged and unable to infect when exposed to oxygen . You had protected sex during penetration and that's what counts .

You have nothing to worry about in all your concerns laid out here and there is no reason to test over this specific incident .

Anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!
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