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mecch:
So many questions, but first things first. 
Do you want to stay with your bf or not?

Whose name is on the lease? 

Is it financially possible for you to get out of this relationship right away and have a place to live and a car to drive?

It sounds like you have had two deadbeat lying cheating bfs in a row.  What can you do do avoid having another? 

It sounds like you are the breadwinner?? (You bought him (?) furniture and a TV? Why? - he sits around the new house on new furniture watching TV and surfing all day - looking for his escorts?  How old is he anyway?  You are 28 right.  And he is how old that he already needs to BUY twinks? Couldn't he just get free sex if his cheating mind wants to betray you?  And with whose money is he doing that?

Your posts are so loaded with multiple stresses and losses and painful relationships - are you seeing a therapist.  If not, is it possible to see one?  You sound completely overloaded. You need some help unpacking all this mess. Do you have some friends helping you at least to understand your situation?

Maybe you should return more often to this forum, at least.

In summary just on the point of the bf, the way you describe him and the relation, its time for radical honesty, and some support, and some ground rules, or its time for someone to "get out of town."

pozbudnc:
Years ago, my boyfriend left me right after I was diagnosed with AIDS.  I am so glad that he left me that I can not describe it.  If I had a partner who became diagnosed with a condition like AIDS,  I would do everything I could to help him through the situation.  I expect the same from my partner.  So be thankful that he showed you early on what kind of person he is.  I would rather know as soon as possible that I was with the wrong person.  You deserve a better partner

thunter34:

--- Quote from: mecch on December 30, 2012, 12:40:58 PM ---  It sounds like you are the breadwinner?? (You bought him (?) furniture and a TV? Why? - he sits around the new house on new furniture watching TV and surfing all day - looking for his escorts?  How old is he anyway?  You are 28 right.  And he is how old that he already needs to BUY twinks? Couldn't he just get free sex if his cheating mind wants to betray you?  And with whose money is he doing that?

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Good God, Nancy Grace!  WTF?

Sometimes your line of questioning leads me to wonder who you're helping out the most - them or you.  Are you typing with one hand?

Oneday/undia:
wait you have KS already? aren't you very recently diagnosed?

That how i find out i was positive. I got something in my arm went to the dermatologist , and the thing got positive for Ks  :-\

emeraldize:

--- Quote from: Ann on December 28, 2012, 12:08:05 PM ---If you read his first post, you'll see that he was very likely hiv positive for a long time before he tested and was diagnosed.

Sidekick, sorry to hear about your recent problems. I don't know what to say other than hang in there. Hopefully 2013 will be better.

Hugs,
Ann
xxx

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