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Ann:

--- Quote from: wolfter on December 26, 2012, 02:23:03 AM ---
As paranoid as you've been, I find it difficult that you suddenly have "someone I care" has HIV.  Skirting the "Am I?" section seems more likely.

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I think this as well and I'm keeping a close eye on you.

You've been repeatedly told - use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

So why do you feel the need to come back and ask again? It's not rocket science.

About the barebacking - this early in the relationship you'd be wise to insist on condoms regardless of what he says about his viral load. Make sure you're using condoms for anal intercourse and you won't have to worry about getting infected.

If it continues to appear that you're only posting in this forum to get around having to pay a subscription in the Am I Infected forum (to ask questions you've already been given detailed answers for) you'll quickly find yourself with a Time Out.

Ann

mafioso86:
TRUST ME...I never thought i would be in this situation.

Living in NYC i've met alot of different people. Like my friend Luis who is my age and is HIV positive. We've become really close and he's helped with me my OCD and dealing with HIV in the gay community.

When i met Joe he was awesome. He's hung out with my friends and we text and talk all the time. Christmas Eve i took him to my friends party and I asked him out then he told me. All we've done was kiss and i've fingered him and thats it...I've talked to Luis about it and he says there are way to have a safe relationship with him, and that i would be stupid and missing out to skip on finding someone you really care about here in New York City...

We've talked about things and he's told me that he's really healthy (he's a personal trainer) He said he's healthier then most guys. He says his viral load is undetectable and he only takes one pill a day and goes to the doctor once a year...

I know that you all may be "iffy" about my post but its true. If i hadn't educated myself and taken your advice seriously i wouldn't have matured enough to be in this situation. I'm not the same person i was when i first started posting on this website. I'm very much aware that as a gay male living in NYC HIV is a big reality here...and yes i am still scared but thats why i asked for advice. i hope this works...we're gunna take things slow and see how things go...

Rockin:

--- Quote from: mafioso86 on December 26, 2012, 12:46:26 PM ---TRUST ME...I never thought i would be in this situation.

Living in NYC i've met alot of different people. Like my friend Luis who is my age and is HIV positive. We've become really close and he's helped with me my OCD and dealing with HIV in the gay community.

When i met Joe he was awesome. He's hung out with my friends and we text and talk all the time. Christmas Eve i took him to my friends party and I asked him out then he told me. All we've done was kiss and i've fingered him and thats it...I've talked to Luis about it and he says there are way to have a safe relationship with him, and that i would be stupid and missing out to skip on finding someone you really care about here in New York City...

We've talked about things and he's told me that he's really healthy (he's a personal trainer) He said he's healthier then most guys. He says his viral load is undetectable and he only takes one pill a day and goes to the doctor once a year...

I know that you all may be "iffy" about my post but its true. If i hadn't educated myself and taken your advice seriously i wouldn't have matured enough to be in this situation. I'm not the same person i was when i first started posting on this website. I'm very much aware that as a gay male living in NYC HIV is a big reality here...and yes i am still scared but thats why i asked for advice. i hope this works...we're gunna take things slow and see how things go...

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All I can say is...don't miss out on something special because you are scared of this thing that will probably NEVER happen.

Airplanes can crash...and I'm fucking terrified of them. And yes, there is no one to assure me that my plane will not crash.

But the odds are pretty slim and I love to travel because it makes me experience amazing things and appreciate life even more, so I'm taking my chances and I think I'll be fine.

mafioso86:
hey.

so we and mike have been doing well, but i bugged out on him when we went to miami pride cause i bottomed for him while we were in pride in miami. we used a condom like always do but i feel scared cause i feel like the chances of being exposed were higher. he broke up with me because he said i made him feel like shit and idk what to do...i know that he takes his meds but i havent bottomed in 3 years and i'm really scared cause this was saturday and i'm still sore...

someone please reply if my chances were any higher

Jeff G:

--- Quote from: mafioso86 on April 19, 2013, 05:34:57 PM ---hey.

so we and mike have been doing well, but i bugged out on him when we went to miami pride cause i bottomed for him while we were in pride in miami. we used a condom like always do but i feel scared cause i feel like the chances of being exposed were higher. he broke up with me because he said i made him feel like shit and idk what to do...i know that he takes his meds but i havent bottomed in 3 years and i'm really scared cause this was saturday and i'm still sore...

someone please reply if my chances were any higher

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You have been warned that if you have questions about possible exposure to HIV to start a thread in Am I Infected so I have no other choice but to lock this thread . You are no longer a dating a person living with HIV so there is no need to keep this thread going .

Do not ask any more HIV transmission questions outside of Am I Infected. This is your last warning .   

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