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Author Topic: Condom Slip - please help  (Read 8426 times)

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Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Condom Slip - please help
« Reply #50 on: September 11, 2013, 05:37:10 PM »
Having other STDs only makes you more vulnerable to HIV if you are having unprotected intercourse. It is not a greater risk for HIV when you are having oral sex.

Andy Velez

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Re: Condom Slip - please help
« Reply #51 on: September 11, 2013, 05:45:00 PM »
Ok Andy,

Thanks for you're reply. I had anal sex with him protected and I understand why due to your immune system being weaker from the STD therefore the HIV able to infect you better.

Can I just ask one more thing sorry. This guy I sucked off - he is at risk from gonorrhea. How likely would it be that he catch it off me? I am able to contact him as I feel really really bad and worried I might of infected him with gonorrhea.

Paul.

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Re: Condom Slip - please help
« Reply #52 on: September 11, 2013, 06:37:48 PM »
Ok Andy,

Thanks for you're reply. I had anal sex with him protected and I understand why due to your immune system being weaker from the STD therefore the HIV able to infect you better.

Can I just ask one more thing sorry. This guy I sucked off - he is at risk from gonorrhea. How likely would it be that he catch it off me? I am able to contact him as I feel really really bad and worried I might of infected him with gonorrhea.

Paul.


It is entirely possible to give someone gonnorrhea by sucking them off. It's not as easy to transmit that way (as opposed to, say, anal/vaginal sex) but it is certainly possible and it does indeed happen.

It goes without saying that you can get gonorrnea, syphilis, and chlamydia from sucking someone AND by being sucked by someone.

"Many people, especially in the gay community, turn to oral sex as a safer alternative in the age of AIDS. And with HIV rates rising, people need to remember that oral sex is safer sex. It's a reasonable alternative."

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Offline paulv21981

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Re: Condom Slip - please help
« Reply #53 on: October 16, 2013, 09:01:50 PM »
Ok sorry it's me again but I only come back cos I feel I get the right information from you rather than looking on the Internet. Plus I have been told different things by sec clinics today so I don't know which one to believe.

Here is the situation.

I had a nose bleed and inside the nose was still fresh blood my friend who I'm sure his HIV positive lent over and kiss me on cheek so my nose touched his cheek.
Before I noticed he had red spots - I assume he squeeze them therefore could of been bleeding.
I'm worried that his blood and my blood could of mixed when my nose touched his face - if they touched the spots.

Thanks

Paul.

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Re: Condom Slip - please help
« Reply #54 on: October 16, 2013, 09:43:30 PM »
Ok sorry it's me again but I only come back cos I feel I get the right information from you rather than looking on the Internet. Plus I have been told different things by sec clinics today so I don't know which one to believe.

Here is the situation.

I had a nose bleed and inside the nose was still fresh blood my friend who I'm sure his HIV positive lent over and kiss me on cheek so my nose touched his cheek.
Before I noticed he had red spots - I assume he squeeze them therefore could of been bleeding.
I'm worried that his blood and my blood could of mixed when my nose touched his face - if they touched the spots.

Thanks

Paul.


You can read your thread again if you need information . I'm going to issue you a warning and you need to know if you come back and ask a question that has already been addressed in this thread you will be given a time out .

You have already been advised on the risk factors for HIV so there is nothing more we can do for you .

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Re: Condom Slip - please help
« Reply #55 on: October 17, 2013, 03:51:50 AM »
Sorry but I haven't asked a question like this before? I was just worried as it could be blood on blood contact

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Re: Condom Slip - please help
« Reply #56 on: October 17, 2013, 06:44:40 AM »
Paul,

This absolutely CANNOT be considered an hiv situation. If you'd been paying attention to what we've been telling you for over a year, you'd understand this.

In adults, hiv is transmitted through:

Unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse.

Sharing drug injecting equipment.

And that's IT. Nose to nose touching can't possibly come into it, unless you both happened to cut your noses off before your faces touched. Get real.

We've recommended you seek counselling for your over-the-top hiv phobia. We've told you that we cannot help you with that here.

You have already had two time outs for posting about NO RISK situations.

If you've read the Welcome Thread like you're supposed to, you'd know that there is no third time out - it is a permanent ban.

You are now permanently banned. Don't even bother to attempt to create a new account - it will also be banned.

Ann

 
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