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Offline xiaogouwanju

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Menstrual blood
« on: September 15, 2014, 12:59:05 AM »
Dear all,
This is my first time here. I am very nervous now, so please let me know your thoughts. Thanks!

I went to a normal Asian massage yesterday. I was naked, lay down facing the bed. The girl sat on my back while doing the neck massage. The thing is that, while she stood up to do some Thai style massage, I saw some blood on her underpant and she said she was during menstruation.

Therefore, I am wondering, if she dropped some blood on my anus, would I be at a high risk of HIV or other STD?

I am not sure 100% where she sat on my back, but could be closed to or on my bum.
She was wearing the underpant and a dress while doing the massage. Other than her underpant, I did not see any blood on her dress, the massage bed, or towel. I did not sa but still I do not know whether there were blood on my back/anus...

No sex was involved, just the massage.

I am so worried now, please help me out. I indeed appreciate!

Offline Joe K

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Re: Menstrual blood
« Reply #1 on: September 15, 2014, 07:59:35 AM »
Nothing you report was a risk for HIV.

The risk factors for HIV are ...

Sharing IV drug needles immediately after use.
Unprotected anal and vaginal sex.
Mother to child during or shortly after birth.
Very specific health care situations.

Use condoms for vaginal and anal sex consistently and correctly and you will avoid HIV infection, it is that simple.


Offline xiaogouwanju

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Re: Menstrual blood
« Reply #2 on: September 15, 2014, 09:49:03 AM »
Dear Joe,

Thanks a lot for your help!

Offline Jeff G

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Re: Menstrual blood
« Reply #3 on: September 15, 2014, 09:57:56 AM »
Please do not use the report to moderator feature to comment on your thread, use it only if you have problems with the site  ... No need to reply to this or use up your last free post .

Offline xiaogouwanju

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Water splashed
« Reply #4 on: September 19, 2014, 02:59:38 AM »
Dear Jeff,
This may sound a little stupid... but please help me!

I visited my friend yesterday. His sink is clogged, and therefore he puts a big bucket under tap to hold water and then pour the water to toilet. He washed his hands and dishes there. More importantly, he washes hands there after masturbation.
And the thing is that when I helped him to pour one bucket of dirty water, some of the water splashed on my legs and feet.
The water has been there for at least a couple of hours (we were having dinner outside before visited), and his room is rather cold.
Am I at a risk of HIV or STD by the splashed water?
Please help me out, thanks!

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Menstrual blood
« Reply #5 on: September 19, 2014, 08:31:31 AM »
First of all it's a rule on this site for members to use only their same thread for all entries. All of your entries are here together now. Please write only in this same thread. Thanks for your cooperation.

You are worrying totally needlessly about this latest situation of HIV fears. HIV is a fragile virus and is absolutely not possible to transmit in a viable form in the manner you are converned about. The pail could have been filled with your friend's sperm and splashed you about everywhere and wouldn't have been a risk. HIV is not transmittable in a viable form through being on doorknobs, toilets, towels, hand to hand, food and other such everyday activities.

Sexually the only  confirmed risks for the transmission of viable HIV are unprotected  vaginal and anal intercourse. That's it.

Stop scaring yourself and get on with your life. Just be sure to use condoms everytime for intercourse and you will be well protected.
Andy Velez


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