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Offline Concernedandworried

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Worried and need experts opinion
« on: September 18, 2015, 11:28:30 AM »
hi and thanks for accepting my membership request.

I had a sexual encounter with a transgender escort at the end of May. The act started from oral (not protected and I was receptive). Then she used condom and we had anal intercourse. I was receptive. Then she pulled out. Condom was removed and I gave her another oral. Then she used a new condom and we had another anal intercourse. After that she pulled out and there was deep fingering. Finally she used a dildo covered with another new condom.

Since I considered everything safe I was not worried the first month after this. But after around 4 weeks I read about high risk of being receptive and also having sex with a trans escort and I freaked out. I also started thinking what if the condoms broke and I did not notice!!

I tested 4th gen antibody/antigen on 6 weeks and also followed by another one at 15 weeks after encounter. Both came negative.

Since I was still worried I just tested for RNA and result pending yet.

Am I at risk? Should I be worried about the result of RNA?

Thanks in advance for your help.

Offline Jeff G

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Re: Worried and need experts opinion
« Reply #1 on: September 18, 2015, 11:51:01 AM »
Not only did you not have a risk for HIV you have tested negative beyond the required window period ... a negative HIV test at 13 weeks past any possible exposure is conclusive that you do NOT have HIV. There are no high risk people for HIV, only high risk sexual practices lead to HIV infections. You had safe sex and you have tested negative. 

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI.Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

Although you did not have a risk and do not need to test for this specific incident , anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

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Re: Worried and need experts opinion
« Reply #2 on: September 18, 2015, 02:22:05 PM »
Thanks Jeff for your accurate response.

As a matter of fact, I just got the result of my RNA and that was undetected which meant negative as well.

Just wanted to thank this forum for providing such support to everyone who is concerned.

Your work and efforts are highly appreciated.
Best of luck to everyone.

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Re: Worried and need experts opinion
« Reply #3 on: September 18, 2015, 04:07:41 PM »
You're Welcome ! 


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