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Author Topic: Bob's Niece is near death ! 5 days to live .  (Read 1634 times)

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Offline weasel

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Bob's Niece is near death ! 5 days to live .
« on: November 23, 2012, 08:53:56 PM »

     I feel bad  , She is a nice girl    . Just turned  37  a few weeks ago .

    She has   ovarian cancer that has spread   thru  her body  .

   I never knew her well , but she lead me to believe she was gay .

   Now the family is saying she will never go to heaven because she is evil !

    This really sits badly  with me !   Bob's sisters  did not tell Bob this , They told me !

   Sort of a heads up to me ! ,  You are going to HELL  :o

 I did not tell Bob because he thinks I hate his  horrid sisters , ALL THREE OF THEM !

   I do not understand how being GAY  over~rides   the fact the girl is about to die ! 

    No where to turn ,  Her sister  feels really bad . But  I can not  visit cause  of my gay status ?   

 Just babbling .................. If life means so little that being gay causes a young
girl to go to hell , Then there is no  hope for me or Bob   ,  Not that I buy into
the Bible crap   , I don't !   

 Anyway , I will say a prayer and hope her trip to heaven will be a fun one  :'(

                                                                 Weasel
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Offline WillyWump

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Re: Bob's Niece is near death ! 5 days to live .
« Reply #1 on: November 23, 2012, 09:53:18 PM »
So sorry this is happening to you buddy, Sending up Prayers for your niece, and you and Bob.

-Will

Ps- Just ignore those stupid people, dont give them no mind.
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Offline tednlou2

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Re: Bob's Niece is near death ! 5 days to live .
« Reply #2 on: November 24, 2012, 01:59:17 AM »
I am sorry to hear about this.  Cancer is awful, and this just makes it more difficult.  We had a family friend who died from cervical cancer earlier this year.  She had just turned 35, I believe.  She missed one pap, and didn't have a family history.  She gave a great fight, but it had spread. 

Sending positive energy her way, and to you guys as well.

Take care!

Offline Anqueetas

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Re: Bob's Niece is near death ! 5 days to live .
« Reply #3 on: November 24, 2012, 04:07:47 AM »
God bless her, hope she isn't in pain.
ARS, hospitalized for very high fever-July 2011
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Offline J.R.E.

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Re: Bob's Niece is near death ! 5 days to live .
« Reply #4 on: November 24, 2012, 06:44:44 AM »
Carl,

You are all in my thoughts.

Ray
Current Meds ; Viramune, Epzicom, 40mg of simvastatin, 12.5mg of Hydrochlorothiazide.
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 In October of 2003, My t-cell count was 16, Viral load was over 500,000, Percentage at that time was 5%. I started my first  HAART regimen  on October 24th,03.

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Offline weasel

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Re: Bob's Niece is near death ! 5 days to live .
« Reply #5 on: November 24, 2012, 09:56:18 AM »


  Thank you all .

    They have her  medicated , But it is still very sad .

   I'm sorry you lost a friend tednlou2  ,  I send my condolences  .


                                                                    Carl 
   
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Offline Jeff G

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Re: Bob's Niece is near death ! 5 days to live .
« Reply #6 on: November 24, 2012, 10:12:20 AM »
Hi Carl , so sad to hear . My thoughts are with you and your family . 

Offline skeebo1969

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Re: Bob's Niece is near death ! 5 days to live .
« Reply #7 on: November 24, 2012, 11:15:47 AM »


  Hi Carl, my thoughts are with you and your family.  I hope she feels no pain.
I despise the song Love is in the Air, you should too.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Bob's Niece is near death ! 5 days to live .
« Reply #8 on: November 24, 2012, 12:33:39 PM »
This is sad stuff. Condolences to all. Stand close together.
Andy Velez

Offline GSOgymrat

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Re: Bob's Niece is near death ! 5 days to live .
« Reply #9 on: November 24, 2012, 03:04:02 PM »
How terrible. My condolences to you and your family.

Offline Jody

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Re: Bob's Niece is near death ! 5 days to live .
« Reply #10 on: November 24, 2012, 06:21:25 PM »
Bob and Carl, you and your niece are in my thoughts .

Jody
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 "Try to discover that you are the song that the morning brings."

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Offline wolfter

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Re: Bob's Niece is near death ! 5 days to live .
« Reply #11 on: November 24, 2012, 09:30:06 PM »
So sorry buddy, I can't believe these types of situations are still being played out in 2012.  Take of yourself and Bob.

Luvs

Wolfie
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Offline red_Dragon888

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Re: Bob's Niece is near death ! 5 days to live .
« Reply #12 on: November 25, 2012, 07:36:40 AM »
My Condolences.
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Offline OneTampa

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Re: Bob's Niece is near death ! 5 days to live .
« Reply #13 on: November 27, 2012, 10:39:48 PM »
Sending my best.
"He is my oldest child. The shy and retiring one over there with the Haitian headdress serving pescaíto frito."

 


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