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Offline paulv21981

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Oral Sex
« on: October 06, 2012, 10:56:24 AM »
I am worried.............
Last night I gave a guy blow job....was only for a couple of minutes. Didn't swallow any cum and no blood (that I know of).

However around 8 hours later I brushed my teeth and noticed a little blood while brushing. Then after no blood in the mouth.

So I don't know if the person was HIV +   -   But if he was could I catch it?

Thanks....

Offline paulv21981

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Bleeding Gums
« Reply #1 on: October 06, 2012, 01:14:41 PM »
I read that if you give someone a blow job and you have bleeding gums. If this person is HIV + then you will catch it.

But.....does the gums have to be bleeding at the time? I don't know if I have bleeding gums. I cleaned my teeth and saw a little blood hours after I gave him a blow job.

But days before I haven't had blood when I cleaned my teeth.

Another question......what is bleeding gums? Is this when your gums bleed for no reason, like without brushing?

For example, could I just of been brushing too hard? and I don't have bleeding gums because they don't bleed for no reason.

Paul.

Offline paulv21981

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PEP
« Reply #2 on: October 06, 2012, 03:45:37 PM »
Hi,

I have been reading about PEP.

I am worried I might be infected - gave a guy a blow job for a couple of minutes and ll hours after I cleaned my teeth and noticed blood.

This happened around 1am on Saturday.....and I can't get to a clinic until Monday morning - leaving it around 60 hours.

If they clinic give me this would it be effective??

Paul.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: PEP
« Reply #3 on: October 06, 2012, 04:59:07 PM »
You don't need PEP. Your saliva has over a dozen elements and proteins which very effectively prevent you from acquiring HIV by giving oral to anyone.

Sexually the only confirmed risks for the sexual transmission of HIV are unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse. As long as you properly use condoms everytime for those activities you will be well protected.

Cut out worrying and get on with your life.
Andy Velez

Offline Ann

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Re: Oral Sex
« Reply #4 on: October 07, 2012, 06:29:58 AM »
Paul,

I've merged your three threads into one thread - where you should post all your additional thoughts or questions. It helps us to help you when you keep everything in one thread. It doesn't matter how long it has been since you last posted in your thread or if the subject matter is different.

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Please also read through the Welcome Thread so you can familiarize yourself with our Forum Posting Guidelines. Thank you for your cooperation.



I agree with Andy. You do NOT need PEP over this non-incident. You haven't had a risk.

Ann
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Offline Ann

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Re: Oral Sex
« Reply #5 on: October 08, 2012, 06:22:18 AM »
Paul,

I have removed your PM privilege. We do not permit people to use PMs as a means of getting around paying a subscription for participation in the Am I Infected forum.

You are not permitted to use PMs to ask questions dealing with hiv transmission and/or testing anyway.

If you read the Welcome Thread before posting like you're supposed to, you will have read the following posting guideline:

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Do NOT use Private Messages to question other members about any transmission, testing or symptom issues. These issues must be discussed in the public forum. Misuse of the PM function in this manner will result in your PM privileges being removed without warning.


Ann
Condoms are a girl's best friend

Condom and Lube Info  



"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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