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Author Topic: HELP!Tired of thinking was dipping/simply a touched  (Read 2539 times)

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Offline jjkkll

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HELP!Tired of thinking was dipping/simply a touched
« on: August 13, 2012, 03:58:30 AM »
For the past 1 week, i have been thinking whether the prostitute (though the place is known for massage but i got to know she is a prostitute when offer sex to me), when she was trying to move backward to sit on my thigh (between penis and knee), did she accidentally put her vaginal on my Penis (dip), or just my penis touched her lower body/vaginal. All these happened to quick that i believe only less than 1 second (the movement to sit down).

I went to meet the lady today for further clarification. She could recognize me and claimed that there was penetration, despite language barrier(translated by another person). The owner of the shop also claimed that they just have a test last month  and make sure they have no HIV .

My concern is my penis accidentally dipped for less than 1 second and she is HIV positive. Then, i will be at the risk of HIV. I have no intention to have sex with the girl at all as i firmly rejected her offer but this thing still happened when she was moving as she initial sat on thigh to put on condom put i told her to stop, so she move up (knee next to my legs) and try to convince me to have sex with me but i rejected but she accidentally dipped or touched my Penis.

I didn't feel of penetration but i am not 100% as it happened to quick. I also not sure whether it happened when she is moving forward or backward because i have been into extremely high pressure over the entire week that make my memory very confusing.

I posted question at Medhelp as well but i wish to receive more experts' opinions because it is too short for me to conduct reliable test.

Please help me

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Re: HELP!Tired of thinking was dipping/simply a touched
« Reply #1 on: August 13, 2012, 05:47:16 AM »
You already know that you never had an exposure.

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Re: HELP!Tired of thinking was dipping/simply a touched
« Reply #2 on: August 13, 2012, 10:16:09 AM »
This is all in the domain of nervous what ifs and nothing based in actual fact.

You are worrying needlessly. There is no need for testing. Stop making drama when there is no problem. Get on with your life.

Andy Velez

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Re: HELP!Tired of thinking was dipping/simply a touched
« Reply #3 on: August 13, 2012, 10:39:26 PM »
Hi Andy,
   That's potential dipping(less than 1 second) and why you think that is purely drama. Let's say that is really a dipping for such a short period, am i at risk?

   I am concern because the lady is sick when i met her yesterday and she may at ARS. i am having heavy and coughing now.

   My deepest apology to Teak for making such a trouble. I am a person who has no gut and always worrying.

Offline RapidRod

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Re: HELP!Tired of thinking was dipping/simply a touched
« Reply #4 on: August 13, 2012, 10:44:23 PM »
You didn't have an exposure and our answers are not going to change.

Offline jjkkll

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Re: HELP!Tired of thinking was dipping/simply a touched
« Reply #5 on: August 23, 2012, 05:34:23 AM »
body ache, sore throat since last week until today and rashes on my body put me at high anxiety and concern on the possible infection. I really wish there is incident really has no risk for HIV and everything just due to my high anxiety. I need to wait for another 4 weeks for the reliable (6th weeks) result to put me at ease while waiting for the another test at 12 weeks.

The girl sitting position like this but at the back of my penis for about 4 or 5 inches to her vaginal (No penetration as my penis is facing upward and slight facing me). So, she moved forward to talk to me(body moved not the leg) and my concern is when she wanted to sit down back to the original position, dipping possible happened during she was sitting down. This is not my imagination or simply what if position. I am talking about possible actual fact. I really feel the touch but not 100% sure as it may lead to dipping when she was sitting back on my thigh and this is my greatest concern.

I got this picture from google as example - a decent picture

Ann, Can i have your opinion?

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Re: HELP!Tired of thinking was dipping/simply a touched
« Reply #6 on: August 23, 2012, 05:59:50 AM »

Do you think we're so stupid that we needed a picture to understand what you're talking about? Give me a break.

You didn't have a risk. Her genital area briefly touched your penis and you are simply NOT going to end up with hiv over this situation. You've been repeatedly told this and as Rodney pointed out, our answers are NOT going to change.

Now cut the drama and quit posting pictures and describing an event that we understood the first time you told us about it.

You did NOT have a risk for hiv infection!

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Re: HELP!Tired of thinking was dipping/simply a touched
« Reply #7 on: August 23, 2012, 08:24:20 AM »
Dear Ann,

   I never think anyone of you are less smarter than me. English is not my first language and my English level is poor as it has been pointed out and complained by many people. My concern is my poor language confuse all of your.

   My deepest apology to all of you. Sorry!

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Re: HELP!Tired of thinking was dipping/simply a touched
« Reply #8 on: August 23, 2012, 09:06:17 AM »
OK.  HIV is not your problem.

Just get on with your life.
Andy Velez


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