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Offline sadman2012

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black spots browwn dots
« on: August 13, 2012, 04:20:41 PM »
hey how you all doing im a 25 year old male,no kids been with the same women since i was 18,recently had a death in the family my brother,& broke up with my girl,my life have been terrible this year,i had a female friend that i known for a year,& decide to give her a chance in june 14 well why did i do that,knowing her for a year she was the nicest person & help me get threw these tought day well on june 14 she spent the night over my house,i fell asleep & i woke up to her giving me oral,i fell back to sleep because i had been tired of staying up for a week str8 do to work & taking care of my mother who just had surgey but i awoke to her on top of em,i pushed her off,& as soon as i realized wat she was doing & i say she only had to been on top of me for 5min or less,well of course it was unprotected & she said she was clean,but i kick her out & cussed her because i was afraid of kids & not of this,well a week later i devlope bump on my penis,i went to the client & took a hiv test & a std test on the 21 and was told i had herpes,i confront her & of course she lied about it,but she the only one i slept wit & my girl is clean,well i been upset about herpes,but my girl decide to take me back so thing was starting to look up,till i came across a post that said it take 3month for the antibodies to build to detect hiv,why did i look that up,i been having every symptom
1month no symptom
2month after expose  fever/diarrhea/small rash on hand/didint wanna eat
3month after expose  slighly swell lymph node in neck,& red dot aperar on arm/peely skin on palm
well i went to get a shape up & got a cut on my face,that end up turning into a staph infection & had to get a shot to drain the fuild,
i took another hiv test because im @ the 3month mark & waiting the result,im using this time to get close to god,because if i would have turn to god,& not a female for advice on life this wouldnt have happen,
have any hiv postive people had these symptoms,or could it be cause of herpes,im expecting the worse & going to take legal action agasint her
« Last Edit: August 13, 2012, 04:37:53 PM by sadman2012 »

Offline sadman2012

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Re: thanks for the help
« Reply #1 on: August 13, 2012, 04:26:24 PM »
she also gave me gonorreaha & i herd that increase the risk,

Offline sadman2012

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Re: thanks for the help
« Reply #2 on: August 13, 2012, 04:29:27 PM »
& i also notice black small pen head spot on my finger  & a few brown small on my skin i dont know where these came from but i been observing my body closely after the incident & they just poped up they not raise they are under the skin

Offline sadman2012

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Re: sumbody help me !!!!!! plz im so alone
« Reply #3 on: August 13, 2012, 04:54:31 PM »
sumbody anybody respond if u need more info i will give it to u i need sum advise i feel alone

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Re: sumbody help me !!!!!! plz im so alone
« Reply #4 on: August 13, 2012, 06:06:29 PM »
Since it seems you unexpectedly had unprotected intercourse that was a risk for HIV. However, it was a single incident and apparently fairly brief. Also, HIV if present is much harder to transmit from female to male than the other way around.

All of that means the odds are very much in your favor that you are going to test negative. And a negative at 3 months is conclusive.

For future reference you need to stop using the term "clean" when referring to HIV status. HIV is a virus. And someone is either HIV positive or HIV negative. It's not a matter of clean or dirty and using terms like that are insulting to anyone living with the virus.

Good luck with your test result.
Andy Velez

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Re: sumbody help me !!!!!! plz im so alone
« Reply #5 on: August 13, 2012, 06:45:11 PM »
hey thanks alot & that was the term she told me,but u are right & im sorry if i offend anyone by that

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Re: sumbody help me !!!!!! plz im so alone
« Reply #6 on: August 14, 2012, 01:03:26 PM »
anybody else

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Re: sumbody help me !!!!!! plz im so alone
« Reply #7 on: August 14, 2012, 06:09:39 PM »
You don't need more responses. Since you are more than 6 weeks past the time of your risky incident you can get tested initially anytime now.

Assuming you test negative, which I think is likely, then you will in all likelihood test negative again at 3 months for a conclusive negative result.

Good luck with your test.   
Andy Velez

Offline sadman2012

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black spots browwn dots
« Reply #8 on: August 18, 2012, 02:50:28 PM »
hey i had a high exposure 3month ago & i contracted genital herpes im waiting on my hiv test but it wont be here for another month,i recentley been developing black,brown ppen head dot/spot ll over my body mostly on my finger 5 dots & in my palm 1  & my chest 3 & 2 more on my lower body,i been looking it up & it resemble skin cancer but i never had this b4,i wondering have anybody else had this & tested postive & will they keep poping up,im in fear my  immune symptom is low & they might keep poping up

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Re: black spots browwn dots
« Reply #9 on: August 18, 2012, 03:03:24 PM »
■Please do not start a new thread every time you have another question or thought - regardless if you think your questions are related to each other or not. It helps us to help you when you keep all your thoughts or questions in one thread and it helps other readers to follow the discussion. Additional threads will be merged.

■If you cannot find your thread, click on the "Show own posts" link in the left-hand column of any forum page, under your name.



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Re: black spots browwn dots
« Reply #10 on: August 18, 2012, 03:08:39 PM »
ok sorry

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Re: black spots browwn dots
« Reply #11 on: August 20, 2012, 09:19:16 AM »
Sad,

I've merged your new thread into your original thread - where you should post all your additional thoughts or questions. It helps us to help you when you keep everything in one thread. It doesn't matter how long it has been since you last posted in your thread or if the subject matter is different.

If you need help finding your thread when you come here, click on the "Show own posts" link under your name in the left-hand column of any forum page.

Please also read through the Welcome Thread so you can familiarize yourself with our Forum Posting Guidelines. Thank you for your cooperation.




Show your spots to a doctor. Nobody can diagnose you over the internet. Whatever is going on has nothing to do with hiv - hiv does not cause spots like you describe.

You are highly unlikely to end up hiv positive over this insertive one-off, brief incident.

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Offline sadman2012

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blac spots on penis
« Reply #12 on: August 20, 2012, 07:59:19 PM »
i just notice 20 black/brown spot  pen marker spots on my penis,anyone no waaat caN BE I recently got genital herpes & 3month mark ,my hiv test reult come back thrusday,should i waste my money on another doctor apointment or is black/brown spot normaly , sorry if u feel like im asking to many ?,but this the only place i know that care,& im broke

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im a popular guy on face book & twitter
« Reply #13 on: August 20, 2012, 08:03:03 PM »
& im going to spread the word about this website to my young follower because if i would haave seen some of these storries a year ago,i would never put my self @ any type of risk,awareness is the key thanks  u all for all of your help

Offline sadman2012

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Re: black spots browwn dots
« Reply #14 on: August 22, 2012, 11:58:32 PM »
unprotected sex while having gonorrhea with a hiv positve women while she having a herpes out break, can sumbody plz tell me the risk is high or low?

Offline sadman2012

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Re: black spots browwn dots
« Reply #15 on: August 23, 2012, 12:04:56 AM »
my result having came back yet i read ir  high risk when you have gonorreha

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« Reply #16 on: August 23, 2012, 05:36:03 AM »
Sad,

Just because someone has herpes and/or gonorrhea doesn't mean they automatically have hiv as well.

You had a risk, now you're just going to have to wait for your test result. We don't have crystal balls here or any other means of seeing into the future.

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Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline sadman2012

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negative result thanks
« Reply #17 on: August 23, 2012, 05:28:09 PM »
had unprotected sex  high risk exposure june 14 with a confirm hiv  postive girl (she just told me)

got tested on the 21  antibodies negative
got tested on august 8  not sure wat kind when to the doctor they took blood
the result are negative

should i get test @ 6month or is this enuff im ready to have kids dont wanna infected my wife

thank you all for helping me i know i ask alot of ? & im soo sorry i been worried alot lately,im a young black male in ga & aids is not really discuss alot even tho it should,i will cont to spread awareness because ima very known person in the music scene & if i every become rich i will donate money to this site & to hiv cure,
i have told many of my friends 5,000 about this site so hopefully that will help keep it up,i will miss u guys,but i will be returning back but not to post about me i learned my lesson


Offline sadman2012

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symptoms dont mean nothing
« Reply #18 on: August 23, 2012, 05:30:57 PM »
you all were right symptom do not mean nothing i had every symptom in the book,i swear rashes everything, i realize that the mind play tricks on you & everytime i look up hiv symptom i would get it the next day,Now i see why yall have that rule about symptom it only make people feel worst best thing to do is get tested & dont think about it,i wasted 3month of my life not doing nothing but looking up symptoms

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« Reply #19 on: August 24, 2012, 07:07:27 AM »
sad,

You tested negative at one day shy of eight weeks and while that result is highly unlikely to change, you need to confirm it at the three month point, not six months.

You should test again for your conclusive result on or after September sixth. I fully expect you to get another negative result.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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