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Offline denb45

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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #50 on: March 08, 2013, 04:54:33 PM »
I think I got AIDS from frottage so that means I've been infected since 1977, or 36 years.

Yeah right  ::) so that would mean you got teh AIDS when you were 10 or 13 yrs. old  ???

NOT  :o

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Offline mitch777

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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #51 on: March 08, 2013, 05:00:25 PM »
Yeah right  ::) so that would mean you got teh AIDS when you were 10 or 13 yrs. old  ???

NOT  :o

HUGS

DEN  :D
Or......
Did you just catch her lying about her age??? ;)
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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #52 on: March 08, 2013, 05:31:00 PM »
Or......
Did you just catch her lying about her age??? ;)

feel better, now post yours you old troll


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Offline mitch777

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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #53 on: March 08, 2013, 06:29:50 PM »
feel better, now post yours you old troll


i would be most happy to post my licence (limited shot w/dob).
so....
you think you were infected at age 12?
this is LOL or very very sad.

ps- what happened to your hair?
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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #54 on: March 08, 2013, 09:37:50 PM »

ps- what happened to your hair?

The lady at the DMV made me remove my chartreuse wig.
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Offline Dar58

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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #55 on: March 11, 2013, 08:17:38 PM »
My husband and I tested pos in 1990, he was dieing from multiple infections and my system was down pretty far, as far as we could figure we were infected at the latest in 1984 so I'll probably be at 30 yrs in 2014. I've only met one other long term survivor from way back then. Glad to know others made it too :)

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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #56 on: March 11, 2013, 08:26:34 PM »
My husband and I tested pos in 1990, he was dieing from multiple infections and my system was down pretty far, as far as we could figure we were infected at the latest in 1984 so I'll probably be at 30 yrs in 2014. I've only met one other long term survivor from way back then. Glad to know others made it too :)

I'm glad to see YOU made it too!!! :)
Welcome!
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Offline Dar58

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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #57 on: March 11, 2013, 08:29:31 PM »

It just that I never hear people speak with confidence that they have been poz for so long.
I remember the disease hitting me like a club over my head for the first several months. Total fatigue and fevers. And, of coarse thinking that the grim reaper was just around the corner.
The life saving meds became available just in time as my viral load suddenly went through the roof.
Since then, everthing has been just peaches and cream. ha.
So, should I have concern about being turned down for ssdi?
My stats look good.
Viral load undetectable, t-cells have remained in the 600's, still always feel like crap and can no longer focus.
I have not had the physical troubles that many of you have had to face. (yet??)
Sorry about rambling on. (I am originally from Minnesota and part of the Rose Niland in me seems to popping up with more frequency lately.)
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Mitch I have been very lucky too, not many infections or too many side affects from meds, my system has never rebound as high as yours though, highest was cd4 count of 400, but the feeling like crap even with undet viral load is usually the fatigue from the meds, that's what gets me a lot. If this is your first time trying for disability they always turn ya down on the first try, I had to explain to them that the fatigue and other intermittent affects made it impossible to KEEP a job. I wish you luck :) And thanks for the welcome :D

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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #58 on: March 11, 2013, 08:38:57 PM »
ya, i'm trying on that ssdi hurdle.
it gets very tiring and frustating.

i hope we will hear more from you. :)
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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #59 on: March 12, 2013, 12:05:58 PM »
One of my nephews just completed a 4 year stint in the Navy and I was fortunate enough to spend yesterday evening with him.  As I was enjoying the evening, it dawned on me that I was younger than he is now when I was diagnosed.  I am not sure where that internal strength came from to survive so long. 

I think a morbid sense of humor helped a lot.  At 24, I was in the hospital with a beautiful shade of orange as my organs were shutting down.  I was in and out of lucidness and I came to and had some strange person standing over me, speaking a foreign language. 

I ordered him out of my room since I'm not Catholic and wasn't ready for last rites.  I think I survived to prove my point.  :) 
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Offline Dar58

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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #60 on: March 14, 2013, 09:54:34 AM »
lol Wolfter when I had surgery for cancer my docs were surprised I did so well and recooped so fast. One of them said it was because I laughed so much. And yes I have a knack for dark humor as well. I even put a little xmas light under the sheet and lit it when she came in and asked her if she forgot something inside me lol. Humor is great medicine :)

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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #61 on: March 14, 2013, 10:20:17 AM »
lol Wolfter when I had surgery for cancer my docs were surprised I did so well and recooped so fast. One of them said it was because I laughed so much. And yes I have a knack for dark humor as well. I even put a little xmas light under the sheet and lit it when she came in and asked her if she forgot something inside me lol. Humor is great medicine :)
LOL!
Did you "plan" this ahead of time or do you normally bring xmas lights with you to the hospital? ;D
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Offline wolfter

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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #62 on: March 14, 2013, 11:07:13 AM »
My husband and I tested pos in 1990, he was dieing from multiple infections and my system was down pretty far, as far as we could figure we were infected at the latest in 1984 so I'll probably be at 30 yrs in 2014. I've only met one other long term survivor from way back then. Glad to know others made it too :)

I apologize, I missed this being your first post and forgot to give you a proper welcome.

welcome!!!! ;D 

Wolfie
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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #63 on: March 19, 2013, 07:44:14 PM »
I been HIV POZ since February 1983, passed into AIDS in 2001 and 30 years later, I am still alive because of the faith I have in GOD, numerous drug trials, to many pills to count.  Today, I am suffering from Cardiac issues from a stroke, shingles outbreak, wasting (107lbs) and very little support mechanisms in place to fully recover, but still strive to out to live as long as possible.
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Offline mitch777

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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #64 on: March 19, 2013, 08:38:40 PM »
I been HIV POZ since February 1983, passed into AIDS in 2001 and 30 years later, I am still alive because of the faith I have in GOD, numerous drug trials, to many pills to count.  Today, I am suffering from Cardiac issues from a stroke, shingles outbreak, wasting (107lbs) and very little support mechanisms in place to fully recover, but still strive to out to live as long as possible.
hi atx,
sorry to hear you have been having such a rough time.
i hope your doctors are on top of things.
how long ago was your stroke?
shingles and 107 lbs. to boot.
ugh!
my heart goes out to you.
keep up the positive attitude and i hope to hear more from you for a long time to come! :)
30 years hiv+ (oct. 2012) with a curtsy.

Offline jm1953

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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #65 on: March 29, 2013, 10:34:28 PM »
I'm around 27 years poz.  Congrats on your 30 year mark.  Seems you are still doing well and having a fairly normal life.  I went on disability in 1999 and it's been kind of a steady decline since then.  But still hanging in there, but for some of us, it gets to a point whether or not just going to the doctor, having procedures performed, and dealing with constant pain is worth it.  But in contrast, I do gain alot of hope from friends of mine with cancer who are so amazingly brave and positive.

Congrats again.  And remember, this is a very individual disease so one experience does not dictate that for another.

Take care
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Current drug regimen, Isentress, , Emtriva, Sustiva Wellbutrin, Klonipin, Allegra, Ambien, Testosterone, Nandrolone, Vicodin, Benedryl, Aspirin, lots of vitamin supplements.

Offline fscerra

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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #66 on: April 14, 2013, 04:52:40 PM »
I tested positive in 1989 ...... 24 years ....... health has been good but now is starting to deteriorate

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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #67 on: April 14, 2013, 05:14:34 PM »
welcome fscerra!
wow, 2 first time posters of LTS in the same day! :)
hope to get to know you better as well!
m.
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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #68 on: April 14, 2013, 05:28:16 PM »
Thanks Mitch777 ....... great to hear from you ...... spring is coming to New England .......but Autumn is my favorite season ..... so glad to be a LTS .......

Offline Habersham

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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #69 on: May 05, 2013, 10:09:53 AM »
I consider myself to positive for 29 years.

My partner was hospitalized for Viral Pneumonia in 1984 and tested poz at that time.

No one knew at that time what unsafe sex was. We had been practicing it unaware for a year before that and for a year afterwords. He died about two years later.

I first tested HIV+ in 1987 but believe I had been positive long before.

I estimate my infection to 1984 or before. Right now I am 53 and estimate I have been positive for at least years right now.

There are more of us around than you would think.

On more than one occasion when filling out forms at a Drs office they think I have messed up my dates and I have to laugh.   :)


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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #70 on: June 05, 2013, 11:32:54 PM »
OH,my god......30 years!!!!!! I am from China, MY doctors told me I will die 10 years later :(
I need help

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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #71 on: June 06, 2013, 09:05:15 AM »
OH,my god......30 years!!!!!! I am from China, MY doctors told me I will die 10 years later :(

Maxsa, I understand that you meant well, but as someone recently diagnosed you are NOT permitted to post in the Long Term Survivors forum. This forum is ONLY for people diagnosed before 1996.

Please do not post in this section of the forums again. You may read the threads here, but do not post. Thank you for your cooperation.

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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #72 on: June 06, 2013, 07:41:31 PM »
I seroconverted in 1983 so that make 2013 thirty years. I only figured it out in hindsight. I was dating a hunky 6' 4" guy with whom I swapped bodily fluids who suddenly lost 30 pounds in two months then died. (I didn't know what from then. He just said he has "picked up some thing while traveling.) It was while I was dating him that was sick with the symptoms of seroconverstion. I had fevers, enlarged nodes, exhaustion, headaches, etc. It is very clear to me that that was when I seroconverted. I tested in 1986. So I've been H.I.V.-positive for thirty years now. Have AIDS since 1993. But I'm alive!! (And I'm 54-years-old now.)

 

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Re: hiv+ for 30 years or more?
« Reply #73 on: June 06, 2013, 08:39:47 PM »
I seroconverted in 1983 so that make 2013 thirty years. I only figured it out in hindsight. I was dating a hunky 6' 4" guy with whom I swapped bodily fluids who suddenly lost 30 pounds in two months then died. (I didn't know what from then. He just said he has "picked up some thing while traveling.) It was while I was dating him that was sick with the symptoms of seroconverstion. I had fevers, enlarged nodes, exhaustion, headaches, etc. It is very clear to me that that was when I seroconverted. I tested in 1986. So I've been H.I.V.-positive for thirty years now. Have AIDS since 1993. But I'm alive!! (And I'm 54-years-old now.)

 

Wow.
Thank you for joining us!
Curious how long ago you figured this out.
(I am nosey so please forgive my question.)
How are you doing now?
(again... nosey. ::).)
And welcome. :)
m.
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