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« on: July 20, 2012, 02:43:56 AM »
I had unprotected sex with hiv + woman (she told me later when I started to have symptoms) on 5 feb. and some days later rash on upper leg (small red spots) and very dry cough. I didn’t pay attention but on april high fever (>39) for 2-3 days and since then my lymph nodes are bigger and I have muscle pains on legs,  oral warts and white stripes in my mouth. Tests all negative on 12 weeks antibodies and p24 and then only elisa on 15, 18 and 21 week. I know you can’t make diagnosis only from symptoms and my doctor says that it’s anxiety and need to rest but I ‘m terrified. Before that I was very healthy I take no drugs and I had no phobias. I want to ask if it’s possible to be infected and after so much time the test is negative.

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Re: please help
« Reply #1 on: July 20, 2012, 02:46:03 AM »
You don't have HIV, you have a conclusive negative test result.

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« Reply #2 on: July 20, 2012, 02:53:57 AM »
thank you. until april i was smoking very much marijuana and later very rare.could that affect somehow? i have heard that weakens the immune system.

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« Reply #3 on: July 20, 2012, 03:00:09 AM »
thank you. until april i was smoking very much marijuana and later very rare.could that affect somehow? i have heard that weakens the immune system.

Smoking pot in NO WAY affects the HIV testing process. You are reliably negative.
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« Reply #4 on: July 20, 2012, 03:13:54 AM »
has ever happened to someone in med history after so many tests at that times and later to be found positive?

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« Reply #5 on: July 20, 2012, 07:11:57 AM »
and is possible that lymph nodes getting bigger from anxiety?

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« Reply #6 on: July 20, 2012, 08:15:51 AM »
has ever happened to someone in med history after so many tests at that times and later to be found positive?

No, not without having additional risks after the initial risk for which the person had been tested.

and is possible that lymph nodes getting bigger from anxiety?

No, but touching them all the time to see if they're swollen can irritate them and make them swell.

If you continue to feel unwell, work with your doctor to find out what, if anything, is actually wrong with you. Whatever that may be, you have more than conclusively ruled hiv out of the picture.

YOU DO NOT HAVE HIV!!!

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« Reply #7 on: July 20, 2012, 09:58:38 AM »
"No, not without having additional risks after the initial risk for which the person had been tested."
Sorry but i'm a little confused. if i had unprotected sex after februar with a negative girl make any difference?


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« Reply #8 on: July 20, 2012, 12:11:42 PM »
How on earth are you going to contract HIV from anyone that doesn't have HIV? Now that question didn't make a bit of sense.

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« Reply #9 on: July 20, 2012, 03:14:26 PM »
i didn't mean that. i wondered if a new contact(with -ve woman) can affect the window period. lol. so i'm for sure negative...?

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« Reply #10 on: July 21, 2012, 07:26:54 AM »
No, it would not make any difference  having intercourse with someone else as long as the intercourse was with a condom.

You're HIV negative. Stop with the drama and get on with your life.
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« Reply #11 on: July 21, 2012, 02:59:37 PM »
i think when you have unprotected sex with + woman and after that many symptoms it is a drama. but thank you for giving me courage

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« Reply #12 on: July 29, 2012, 08:13:12 AM »
Dear Andy, in my last blood test i have very low IgG,IgM,IgE in generall, not against specific antigens and only IgA is normal(low too but normal). my doc said i have to do some more examinations and i meet him on tuesday. do you think that these facts could affect my hiv tests? have you heard something. thanx but i cant wait until tuesday. ps to avoid misunderstundings it's not drama to have hiv. it's drama to have symptoms and pains and no diagnosis.

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« Reply #13 on: July 29, 2012, 08:36:30 AM »
Hey, this is more again of you making drama about HIV when you have reliably tested negative.

Whatever maybe going on with you physically has nothing to do with HIV.

Andy Velez

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« Reply #14 on: August 04, 2012, 04:12:02 AM »
a hiv pcr test detects both types of hiv? thank you

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« Reply #15 on: August 04, 2012, 05:46:41 AM »
Special,

Why are you fretting about RNA tests when you are already conclusively hiv negative? You do NOT need RNA testing. It would be a waste of time, money and resources in your situation.

YOU DO NOT HAVE HIV.

Once again (and for the LAST time), if you feel unwell, see a doctor. You might be missing something serious by chasing a virus you have already ruled out of the picture.

YOU DO NOT HAVE HIV!!!!

If you read the Welcome Thread before posting like you're supposed to, you will have read the following posting guideline:

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Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.


Please consider yourself warned!

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« Reply #16 on: August 04, 2012, 06:04:21 AM »
Dear Ann. thanx for not replying. i saw my doctor and he said that i cant produce antibodies. why? he cant tell at the moment. he is still searching. i have no cancer, take no drugs etc. i have taken a pcr already. so my question is very specific. can it detect type 1 and 2??? if you want to answer good. if not let someone that can

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« Reply #17 on: August 04, 2012, 06:30:15 AM »
To Ann: FACTS
Until march healthy 30y male. no meds
in march unprotected sex with + woman
from march until today many hiv related symptoms
blood test extrem low IgG and IgM (according to dr. not able to produce antibodies)
Hiv Duo(with p24) all negatives so i suppose HIV 1 is not
I only ask if pcr can detect HIV 2 virus!
To Rapid: you enjoy not answering. i cant explain otherwise

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« Reply #18 on: August 04, 2012, 06:32:20 AM »
Accept the facts you don't have HIV or seek professional mental help as to why you can't accept the facts.

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« Reply #19 on: August 04, 2012, 06:38:24 AM »
To Rapid: i have already done but leukoplakie and swollen lymph nodes dont go back. any other genious advice? i dont really expect from you to answer to my question. you write something sophisticated

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« Reply #20 on: August 04, 2012, 06:40:21 AM »
Have a wonderful day.

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« Reply #21 on: August 04, 2012, 06:46:34 AM »
you too. it's not bad to say "i dont know". yes it's easy to say seek a prof help

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« Reply #22 on: August 04, 2012, 06:48:03 AM »
Special,

No. There are two different RNA tests for hiv 1 and hiv 2. You most likely had an hiv 1 RNA.

It sounds to me like you need a different doctor. If it were true that you were not producing antibodies, you would be very ill indeed. The body doesn't just stop producing antibodies to one single pathogen - it stops producing all antibodies. Go find a doctor who doesn't share your hiv-myopia.

You tested hiv antibody negative because you do NOT have hiv. It's as simple as that.

I'm giving you that time out you've been warned about. Do not attempt to create a new account to get around your time out because if you do, you will be permanently banned.

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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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