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Offline Miss Philicia

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Wumpy's mother has passed away
« on: June 03, 2012, 09:43:22 PM »
I just received word via text, but after I'd just spoken to him for a brief bit, that his mother passed away tonight. I hope everyone here will keep him in your thoughts in the coming days and weeks.
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Offline forrest

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #1 on: June 03, 2012, 09:57:57 PM »
I'm sorry to hear Wumpy  :(  Hang in there and know many are thinking of you and your family through difficult times. :(
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Offline Matty the Damned

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #2 on: June 03, 2012, 10:02:00 PM »
Condolences Wump.

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #3 on: June 03, 2012, 10:02:14 PM »
My most sincere condolences to you and your family, wump.
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Offline Jeff G

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #4 on: June 03, 2012, 10:17:05 PM »
My condolences Willy , you are in my thoughts .

Offline OneTampa

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #5 on: June 03, 2012, 10:37:34 PM »
Will,

I am so sorry to hear of your Mother's passing.



You remain in my thoughts.
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Offline Lugzsoo

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #6 on: June 03, 2012, 10:53:47 PM »
Sorry to here that



Condolences Wump.

Offline Rev. Moon

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #7 on: June 03, 2012, 11:20:46 PM »
My condolences, Will  :(
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Offline tednlou2

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #8 on: June 03, 2012, 11:57:41 PM »
Sending my condolences to you and your family.  I'm so sorry to hear this and wishing you the best through this difficult time.  It is admirable how you were there for her.  Take care of yourself. 

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #9 on: June 04, 2012, 12:05:57 AM »
Will - my deepest condolences - if there is anything you need, give a call. Thoughts are with you.

-Phil
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Date    CD4    %   VL     Date  CD4  %   VL
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12/10  740    41  <48   
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Offline Solo_LTSurvivor

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #10 on: June 04, 2012, 12:27:58 AM »
W - I'm thinking of you with heartfelt sympathy.  In this time of sorrow my thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #11 on: June 04, 2012, 12:45:06 AM »
Deepest condolences, Wump.

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Offline Growler

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #12 on: June 04, 2012, 12:52:09 AM »
My condolences to you and yours. Take care of yourself mate
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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #13 on: June 04, 2012, 01:49:05 AM »
My condolences, Will.
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Offline J.R.E.

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #14 on: June 04, 2012, 01:59:26 AM »
Will,

My deepest condolences go out to you and your family.


Ray
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Offline BT65

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #15 on: June 04, 2012, 04:52:15 AM »
Condolences Will.  Please take care of yourself.
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Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #16 on: June 04, 2012, 08:13:28 AM »
Dear Willy,

This is very sad news. My condolences to you and to your family.

My best to you,

Andy
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Offline Assurbanipal

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #17 on: June 04, 2012, 08:49:12 AM »
Will

My sincere condolences to you and to your family.

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Offline denb45

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #18 on: June 04, 2012, 09:02:05 AM »

Will

My  condolences to you and to your family members during this great time of need



HUGS

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Offline thunter34

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #19 on: June 04, 2012, 09:25:22 AM »
Sorry to learn this, Will.  Hang in there.


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Offline wolfter

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #20 on: June 04, 2012, 09:41:54 AM »
So sorry Willy.  Stay strong and take care.

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Offline pozniceguy

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #21 on: June 04, 2012, 10:11:00 AM »
sad  news  Will, wish there were something I  could say or  do that would make it  easier

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #22 on: June 04, 2012, 10:12:02 AM »
I am so sorry if you tried to call me Will, I dropped my phone in water yesterday and won't have a replacement for a few days.  I am so sorry to hear about this worse yet in text on the forums.  I will call you as soon as I am able.

Offline Joe K

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #23 on: June 04, 2012, 11:20:56 AM »
Will, my deepest condolences on the loss of your mother.  You and your family will be in my thoughts.  Please remember to take care of yourself.

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Offline emeraldize

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #24 on: June 04, 2012, 11:25:16 AM »
I offer my sympathy to you and your family, Will.

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Offline bmancanfly

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #25 on: June 04, 2012, 12:42:00 PM »
Peace to you and your mom.
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Offline weasel

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #26 on: June 04, 2012, 09:35:48 PM »


     I'm very sorry Willy .

     I know you loved your Mom a lot !

     The loss will be deep . 

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Offline bocker3

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #27 on: June 04, 2012, 09:59:58 PM »
Will,

so very sorry to hear this news.  I am sure that you have been a great comfort to her -- you will be in my thoughts.

Hugs!

Mike
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Offline northernguy

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #28 on: June 04, 2012, 10:27:20 PM »
I'm very sorry to hear this Will, it is so hard to lose a parent.  Take care.
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Offline phildinftlaudy

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #29 on: June 04, 2012, 10:28:59 PM »
Hi All:

I just got off the phone with Will. He is very appreciative of all of the support and kind words. He will be checking in soon, but is handling things related to his mother's passing.

He is handling things as best as can be expected right now - and definitely can use the continued support and positive thoughts and words of the members of the forums.

It definitely goes a long way to know that others have us in mind when we go through challenges.

-Phil
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Date    CD4    %   VL     Date  CD4  %   VL
10/08  636    35  510   9/09 473  38 2900  12/4/09 Atripla
12/09  540    30    60   
12/10  740    41  <48   
8/11    667    36  <20  
03/12  1,041  42  <20
05/12  1,241  47  <20
08/12   780    37  <20
11/12   549    35  <20
02/12  1,102  42  <20
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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #30 on: June 04, 2012, 11:39:06 PM »
Hi All:

I just got off the phone with Will. He is very appreciative of all of the support and kind words. He will be checking in soon, but is handling things related to his mother's passing.

He is handling things as best as can be expected right now - and definitely can use the continued support and positive thoughts and words of the members of the forums.

It definitely goes a long way to know that others have us in mind when we go through challenges.

-Phil

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #31 on: June 05, 2012, 12:10:27 AM »
Will,

I'm so sorry to hear about your mother passing. 

Hugs,

Henry
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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #32 on: June 05, 2012, 07:45:26 AM »
So sorry to hear this Will. You have my sincere condolences.

Please remember to take care of yourself during this sad time. My thoughts are with you and I'm sending you plenty of love.

Hugs,
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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #33 on: June 05, 2012, 01:25:55 PM »
I've just seen this, and am holding you in my thoughts at this time, Will.

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #34 on: June 05, 2012, 09:15:33 PM »
Very sorry to hear this, Will. Santi and I send our condolences to you and your family.

Hugs,
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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #35 on: June 05, 2012, 11:00:16 PM »
I'm sorry for your loss Wumpy. Stay strong.

Offline WillyWump

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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #36 on: June 07, 2012, 09:30:40 PM »
Thank you to everyone, especially Missp, Trey, Phil, RAB and Betty for helping me through this. I am having a rough go of it but I'm sure time will heal.

The lady from the Funeral home called me today and said moms remains were ready for me to pick up (she was cremated) and of course that sent me back into grief and the bed. The people came and picked up the hospital bed from my house and that was unusually difficult. I keep trying to unpack her bag from the nursing home but cant seem to do it. I'm ahving to spearhead a memorial and I really dont feel like doing it, and haven't. My son and wife and grandbaby were in for a couple days and kept my mind busy but have gone back home so it sucks again now.

But through all this I know she is in a better place and out of pain.

 I appreciate everyones kind words, they are truly comforting.

Much love,
Will
« Last Edit: June 07, 2012, 09:32:39 PM by WillyWump »
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Re: Wumpy's mother has passed away
« Reply #37 on: June 08, 2012, 09:12:14 AM »
Ohh Will man  :'(  listen you take care of yourself now OK  ;)
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