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Offline worrying

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Rough oral
« on: May 31, 2012, 09:41:37 AM »
Hi guys!
First I have to apologize - I started a new membership, because I did not remember my old username and password from five years back (when I had a totyally unfounded hiv scare).
I have read that receiving oral from another man should be risk free, but this rough incident still gives me worries.
It is the first time in about ten years I received oral from a guy (I did not know him). It went on for about 5-10 minutes (and I suppose I stuck it rather deep into his mouth) and I felt sore immediatey afterwards. I came on his chest.
I did not go down on him and he did not come.
I feel stupid for asking but can there be a risk? Should I test? Should I test for other STI's?
How solid is the scientific proof for receiving oral being zero risk?
Best regards and keep up the good work.
"Worrying"

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Re: Rough oral
« Reply #1 on: May 31, 2012, 10:03:40 AM »
It doesn't matter how "rough" it was or what details you throw into the mix about getting a blowjob. It's one of the most common of sexual activities and in the entire history of the epidemic there has never been even one confirmed case of transmission in that manner.

It's safe to say you will not make history by becoming the first guy to get infected from a blowjob.

You are worrying needlessly. There's no need for testing. Get on with your life.
Andy Velez

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Re: Rough oral
« Reply #2 on: May 31, 2012, 10:07:56 AM »
Thank you, Mr Velez, for a quick reply. I will try to put this whole episode behind me, once I've made sure I did not get any other STI.
All the best to you.
W

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Re: Rough oral
« Reply #3 on: May 31, 2012, 10:09:33 AM »
OK. Good.

Other STDs are much easier to acquire than HIV so we do advise anyone who is sexually active to at least annually have a full STD panel done. And more frequently if there are any troubling symptoms.

But as far as HIV is concerned you have no cause for worry.
Andy Velez

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Re: Rough oral
« Reply #4 on: June 06, 2012, 07:44:11 AM »
Hi again!
I just wanted to ask whether a yeast infection on my penis changes anything?

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Re: Rough oral
« Reply #5 on: June 06, 2012, 08:56:07 AM »
Worrying,

Absolutely NOT. Getting a blowjob is simply not a risk for hiv infection, regardless of any details you can think of to add.

Not only is saliva not infectious, but it also contains over a dozen different proteins and enzymes that damage hiv and render it unable to infect. No way are you going to become infected with hiv from a blowjob. No way.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST SPECIFICALLY OVER A BLOWJOB, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann
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Re: Rough oral
« Reply #6 on: June 06, 2012, 09:08:55 AM »
Thank you ever so much for that comforting reply.
I will go and have a check-up for other STI/STD's.
I'm so glad you have this forum - thank you once again.

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Re: Rough oral
« Reply #7 on: June 06, 2012, 09:45:20 AM »
You're welcome. Get on with your life and make sure to use condoms everytime for intercourse. That's what really matters in terms of protecting yourself against the sexual transmission of HIV.
Andy Velez

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Re: Rough oral
« Reply #8 on: June 19, 2012, 03:26:11 AM »
Hi!
My test results at 14 days (gonnorea, clamydia, syphilis and hiv) all came back negative (they insisted on syphilis and hiv tests), but the doctor said I will need to re-do syphilis and hiv testing at 3 months. As I understood you guys the hiv test is unnecessary to begin with, but I guess their guidelines are to make sure (the tests are free so they do not money for it)? Is this common according to yout experience?
I also wanted a hepatitis test, but they said it not an STI/STD, but a blood disease so I would have to go elsewhere for that. Should I test for hep, what does your experience say?
Thank you once again for your attention.

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Re: Rough oral
« Reply #9 on: June 20, 2012, 04:48:45 AM »
Worrying,

You do NOT need hepatitis testing over getting a blowjob. You also do not need hiv testing over getting a blowjob.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

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Re: Rough oral
« Reply #10 on: June 20, 2012, 05:53:25 AM »
OK, thanks Ann, only syph then at 3 months.
And thanks to you all for your efforts, take care.
W

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Re: Rough oral
« Reply #11 on: June 20, 2012, 08:53:42 AM »
You're welcome. Good to go as far as HIV is concerned.
Andy Velez

 


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