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Offline ger12

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Mutual masturbation and risk
« on: June 27, 2012, 07:51:37 AM »
Good Day to you.. I would like to thank you in advance in answering my question.
2 months ago, It was my first time in this massage place where in a masseur was assigned to me. what happened was he used an oil to massage my back and my legs and in the end he offered to give my a handjob which I accepted. He removed his clothes and he masturbated me while I masturbated him. No oral sex nor anal sex happened. I eventually came but he didn't, I cleaned up using their towel.
Feeling worried and anxious because of the event plus the fact that the place was known to give such services. I got to have my HIV antigen ELISA test done 3 weeks after and done 7 weeks after that event which tested negative for both.
My questions are, do I have a risk for acquiring HIV infection through my action, what are the safe sex practices that I can do?
Do I need to have another HIV antigen test?
I just keeping thinking about this because I read in the forums that it needed 3 months after the incident to know if the test is conclusive.

Thanks a lot and more power to you, sir and ma'am

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Re: Mutual masturbation and risk
« Reply #1 on: June 27, 2012, 08:31:36 AM »
ger,

You tested negative - and will continue to test negative - because you didn't have a risk. Mutual masturbation is NOT a risk for hiv infection.

You are conclusively hiv negative and you do not need further testing at this time.

You do NOT have hiv!!!

Sexually speaking, the only confirmed risks for hiv infection are unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse. And that's it.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED FURTHER TESTING AT THIS TIME, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann
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Offline ger12

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Re: Mutual masturbation and risk
« Reply #2 on: June 27, 2012, 10:34:52 AM »
Thanks Ann for answering my query.. At least i know what will I do now, maybe it is just the guilt that making me anxious right now..
More power

Offline ger12

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Re: Mutual masturbation and risk
« Reply #3 on: June 27, 2012, 11:12:38 AM »
Just a follow up question, how many weeks after exposure does one have to have an HIV test thanks

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Re: Mutual masturbation and risk
« Reply #4 on: June 27, 2012, 11:31:15 AM »
ger,

The vast majority of people who have actually been infected will seroconvert and test positive by six weeks, with the average time to seroconversion being only 22 days. A six week (or more) negative is highly unlikely to change, but must be confirmed at the three month point. Only a three month negative is conclusive for hiv - when there has been a risk. You did NOT have a risk!

You are not in an hiv testing window period.

You did not have a risk for hiv infection.

You are conclusively hiv negative.

YOU DO NOT HAVE HIV!!!

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline ger12

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Re: Mutual masturbation and risk
« Reply #5 on: June 27, 2012, 11:41:01 AM »
Thanks again Ann
More Power!

 


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