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Author Topic: Anal frotting  (Read 2300 times)

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Offline tinky01

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Anal frotting
« on: May 07, 2012, 12:51:03 PM »
I was recently with another male. Lots of body contact and some oral.  At one point while I was lying on my back he put his penis between butt cheeks and pushed it against my anus multiple times (20 seconds to a minute).  I don't believe he penetrated (it did not hurt). He did not ejaculate near my butt.  After we were through the area felt moist --sweat? pre-cum?  He told me he was negative both before and after we were done, still I am worried I may have become infected through this encounter.  Thanks in advance for your advice.

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Re: Anal frotting
« Reply #1 on: May 07, 2012, 12:57:20 PM »
As long as there was no penetration without a condom then you were not at risk. Rubbing/frottage is not a risk even if ejaculation takes place outside of your anus. If he had penetrated you, you'd have known it. The sensation is quite different from even forceful rubbing.

The only confirmed risks for the sexual transmission of HIV are unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse. As long as condoms are always used for those activities you will be well protected.
Andy Velez

Offline tinky01

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Re: Anal frotting
« Reply #2 on: May 07, 2012, 01:44:07 PM »
Thank you for your response.  You have really helped my anxiety.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Anal frotting
« Reply #3 on: May 07, 2012, 02:10:15 PM »
You're welcome. Continue on with your life. No HIV problem for you today.

Cheers.
Andy Velez

Offline tinky01

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oral with blood
« Reply #4 on: January 02, 2013, 10:41:55 AM »
I recently just gave a guy a blow job for a short amount of time--less than a minute.  No ejaculation but possible pre-cum.  When he took his dick out of my mouth there appeared to be a small amount of dark liquid on it. I am concerned that it could have been blood but upon examinination of his dick and my mouth we could not find any bleeding. Is this a possible rik of infection that I should be concerned with?  My oral health is good but I cannot rule out the possbility that I could have been bleeding at the time.  Thanks.

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Re: Anal frotting
« Reply #5 on: January 02, 2013, 02:08:40 PM »
You are bothering yourself about what ifs and all to no good purpose. The ONLY confirmed risks for the sexual transmission of HIV are unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse.

Cut out the drama and get on with your life.
Andy Velez

 


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