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Author Topic: My mind is like a Hell : worry so Much : unprotected oral sex  (Read 5182 times)

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as i am exposed to a unprotected oral sex (I was the Insertive Partner) as well he rimmed me.
i felt uncomfprtable,I got Sour(Without pain &sour is still there) under my tounge after 6 days of this insident,still i feel my anus is burning or sonething ,

 and went for ELISA test by day 11 and found Negative (this happend on March 04th and i have done HIV antibody test on 15)..do i need further testing...

Please help ne guys by advising me

thanx
God Bless You

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Re: My mind is like a Hell : worry so Much : unprotected oral sex
« Reply #1 on: March 21, 2012, 11:52:29 AM »
Nothing you report is in any way considered a risk for HIV. No one has ever been documented as having gotten HIV from receiving oral sex, and you will not be the first.

Saliva contains over a dozen elements that neutralize the virus and make it incapable of infection - in addition, infectious HIV is not found in saliva, sweat or tears.

Neither getting your penis sucked nor getting rimmed puts you in any danger for HIV.
"Many people, especially in the gay community, turn to oral sex as a safer alternative in the age of AIDS. And with HIV rates rising, people need to remember that oral sex is safer sex. It's a reasonable alternative."

-Kimberly Page-Shafer, PhD, MPH

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Re: My mind is like a Hell : worry so Much : unprotected oral sex
« Reply #2 on: March 22, 2012, 11:23:46 AM »
thanks for your reply..lsn't there possiblity blood transfer in to my body through the Top whole of the penis..it nakes me worry..i have no idea about  his oral health..

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Re: My mind is like a Hell : worry so Much : unprotected oral sex
« Reply #3 on: March 22, 2012, 11:41:23 AM »
No risk for transmission in the manner about which you are concerned. Getting sucked is one of the most common of sexual activities. In the entire history of the epidemic there has never been a single confirmed case of transmission to a guy in that manner. You are not going to make history by becoming the first. You are worrying needlessly.

Other STDs are easier to acquire. So we do advise that anyone who is sexually active ought to at least annually have a full STD panel done. And more frequently if there are symptoms such as dripping from the penis.

But as far as HIV is concerned you do not need to test nor be concerned at this time.

 
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Re: My mind is like a Hell : worry so Much : unprotected oral sex
« Reply #4 on: March 22, 2012, 11:49:38 AM »
Thanx andy

i have done VDRL after 6 days aswell as again after 10 days + Elisa..all found negative...

i have some pain on my anus when i shit..he rimmed me ...do you think it may get another STD from him

do i need another VDRL ...or any other test...

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Re: My mind is like a Hell : worry so Much : unprotected oral sex
« Reply #5 on: March 22, 2012, 01:23:22 PM »
You certainly don't need any other HIV testing.

As for the anal discomfort, that's something to discuss with your doctor. We can't diagnose anything in this setting.

For sure HIV is not your problem.
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Re: My mind is like a Hell : worry so Much : unprotected oral sex
« Reply #6 on: March 23, 2012, 09:52:34 AM »
today i got tiny swallowing lymph node under my left armfit and i have a pain backside(cervical vertebrae ) of my neck and it making me a headache..is this put a HIV risk,,i am worry advise me guys....

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Re: My mind is like a Hell : worry so Much : unprotected oral sex
« Reply #7 on: March 23, 2012, 10:06:09 AM »
You certainly don't need any other HIV testing.

As for the anal discomfort, that's something to discuss with your doctor. We can't diagnose anything in this setting.

For sure HIV is not your problem.

You don't seem to be listening to what is said to you. Even though you continue to watch for and misinterpret everything that happens with your body, you have not had a risk for HIV period.

And before anymore of these symptomatic reports continue I am going to warn you that you are very quickly going to find yourself getting a Time Out from the site. HIV is not your problem. Period.

If you have troubling symptoms you should discuss them with your doctor. This is absolutely not an HIV situation. Period. 
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Re: My mind is like a Hell : worry so Much : unprotected oral sex
« Reply #8 on: April 02, 2012, 09:31:19 AM »
Sam,

You sent me the following PM - despite the fact that using PMs in this way is against our rules, which you would have known if you bothered to read the Welcome Thread before posting like you're supposed to. I have removed your PM privilege as a result.

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as i am exposed to a unprotected oral sex (I was the Insertive Partner) as well he rimmed me.
i felt uncomfprtable,I got Sour(Without pain &sour is still there) under my tounge after 6 days of this insident,still i feel my anus is burning or sonething ,

 and went for ELISA test by day 11 and found Negative (this happend on March 04th and i have done HIV antibody test on 15)..do i need further testing...

Please help me by advising me

even today i can see the non painful sour in my mouth recovering very slowly and three days ago to till now i feel pain,itching,and burning sensation on my anus..

is this happen due to HIV ... do you think..

ANDY is over and over tell me this is not hiv .

please reply me

Andy has told you, correctly, that this is not hiv - BECAUSE IT'S NOT HIV!!!

You have been repeatedly told that neither getting a blowjob nor being rimmed are risks for hiv infection. You got your dick sucked and your asshole licked. Get over it.

You do not need further hiv testing. You did not have a risk and therefore your hiv test results are conclusive and they not going to change.

You are conclusively hiv negative. You do not have hiv!!!

If you feel unwell or are worried about the weird taste in your mouth or your burning anus, see a doctor. It has absolutely NOTHING to do with hiv.

You did not have a risk for hiv and you do not have hiv.

Again, if you read the Welcome Thread before posting like you're supposed to, you will have read the following posting guideline:

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Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.


Please consider yourself warned!

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Re: My mind is like a Hell : worry so Much : unprotected oral sex
« Reply #9 on: April 02, 2012, 11:49:56 AM »
Thanks Andy ..Thanks Ann for your valuable advises..i am done here..ya i have nothing to worry and i am worried over nothing

thanks for your encouragement.
God Bless you & love u guys

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Re: My mind is like a Hell : worry so Much : unprotected oral sex
« Reply #10 on: April 02, 2012, 01:45:34 PM »
OK. Get on with your life.
Andy Velez

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Re: My mind is like a Hell : worry so Much : unprotected oral sex
« Reply #11 on: April 06, 2012, 11:19:26 PM »
Dear Andy,Ann and all,

i need more advises from u guys, i know this may not be the ARS ... still i ma having mouth sours and burning sensations when i breath ,,burning sensation on my throat..as you know guys i tested for VDRL by the 10 th day ...

is this symptoms can be due to other STD... do i need another VDRL or any other test venereal related...

thanks guys
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Re: My mind is like a Hell : worry so Much : unprotected oral sex
« Reply #12 on: April 07, 2012, 05:15:03 AM »
and guys one more last thing for my knowledge...lets say Insertive partner is uncut and   Insertive partners foreskin is damaged by catching teeth of the person who is sucking while he is performing..and lets think sucker has some blood in his mouth...Is there any chance to transmit HIV to Insertive partner through fresh little wound OR still Saliva can change the everything,,,

thanks

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Re: My mind is like a Hell : worry so Much : unprotected oral sex
« Reply #13 on: April 07, 2012, 07:41:07 AM »
Sam,

Knock it off. We've already told you that you had no risk and your latest details or whatiffs or whatever they are make no difference.

If your mouth bothers you, see a doctor or dentist. It's nothing to do with hiv.

I'm giving you that time out you've been warned about. Do not attempt to create a new account to get around your time out because if you do, you will be permanently banned.

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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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