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Offline GSOgymrat

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Why do gay men do porn?
« on: March 18, 2012, 06:21:10 PM »
I was reading a discussion on another site about the evils of prostitution and pornography and some of the arguments regarding the power inequities between men and women didn't ring true for me regarding gay men. Certainly there is coercion in some same-sex situations, e.g. poor young men who are doing porn or prostituting for money or drugs, but I don't get the sense that guys who work for major porn companies are being coerced. I've only known one guy who was in porn and he said he did it because he wanted to have sex with other hot guys and get into that social circle-- he didn't need the money and he wasn't, to my knowledge, addicted to anything. Obviously there are guys who just want the attention, as evidenced by the couples on Xtube who put it out there for free. So I ask the worldly people of this forum, why do gay men do porn or prostitute? Does it matter whether men or women are the participants?

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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #1 on: March 18, 2012, 06:43:04 PM »
It could have something to do with the fact that men are very visual creatures. It might be acting out some sort of fantasy. I know a lot of gay guys who are exhibitionists and would have no issue shooting a porn. :P
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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #2 on: March 18, 2012, 06:56:17 PM »
It could have something to do with the fact that men are very visual creatures. It might be acting out some sort of fantasy. I know a lot of gay guys who are exhibitionists and would have no issue shooting a porn. :P

Talking about yourself, eh Drew  ;)
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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #3 on: March 18, 2012, 07:00:25 PM »
Well, I enjoy the whole visual aspects of watching porn, but @ my age, I wouldn't never try to do or emulate any of it myself  ::)

hell I'm lucky I'm still healthy enough to even have sex, and some of the things I've seen in gay porn is way too risky for my taste or my hubby's to even attempt... ;D

 I think the important thing is you have to separate fantasy from reality, @ least we try to, fantasy role play can be FUN, with a willing partner, but we have found many
that say they are into it, but have found out they really weren't or had no idea how to play along  ;)
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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #4 on: March 18, 2012, 07:08:08 PM »
...but we have found many
that say they are into it, but have found out they really weren't or had no idea how to play along  ;)

LOL, that reminds me of xxxx years ago when I was a wee lad and I saw these two men dressed from head to toe in leather ---  what some would've considered to be real "Daddy" types.  Of course I died laughing when I moved in a bit closer to listen to them only to discover they were exchanging Betty Crocker recipes.

Sorry for the de-rail, Ford.  Thanks for the journey back in time, Dennis  :o

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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #5 on: March 18, 2012, 07:16:36 PM »
So I ask the worldly people of this forum, why do gay men do porn or prostitute? Does it matter whether men or women are the participants?

Why do Christians like the bible, God & Jebus  ;D some people are just sluts and nympho's whores, and cannot help themselves? why do str8 men like porn? it's all visual isn't it  ;D
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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #6 on: March 18, 2012, 08:36:34 PM »


  It's a job !

  It is fun ............

  Some people do it for fun !   

   I know I love PORN !

    Not the skanky old stuff of the 60's  , But the good stuff with really hot

    guys that look like  the biker next door   :o

    Won't say you wouldn't finf a picture or two of me if you looked  .... :-X

     Those were a long time ago ,  This is best answered by  Young  studs !

     I know  We have a bunch of  Hot men on the forums  :)

                                                             Weasel  :-*

 P.S.  off to bed with my wonderful husband of 32 years , That don't like porn  :(
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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #7 on: March 18, 2012, 08:52:31 PM »
because someone has to do it  ;)


Won't say you wouldn't finf a picture or two of me if you looked  .... :-X
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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #8 on: March 18, 2012, 08:58:11 PM »
Talking about yourself, eh Drew  ;)

I have some movies out there LOL!  ;)
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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #9 on: March 18, 2012, 10:19:19 PM »
It's not about gay men, it's men in general. Do you think straight men are any different? They just have less opportunities, that's it.

I have some movies out there LOL!  ;)

Oh really?? Well, show us then!  :P

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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #10 on: March 19, 2012, 10:30:52 AM »
I think some men do it for the 'attentiion'/fame of it.  Not everyone does it, so its sort of setting you apart from the normal Joe.  Some guys are just horny as hell all the time so its a good way to feed the need.  Thankfully there are folks out there like that to provide such great entertainment...lol  I like the amateur porn myself versus the professional.  I like porn to be somewhat 'real' instead of the fake situations where guys are out in the desert and all of a sudden a condom pops up from out of the blue.
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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #11 on: March 19, 2012, 11:16:51 AM »
I think some men do it for the 'attentiion'/fame of it.  Not everyone does it, so its sort of setting you apart from the normal Joe.  Some guys are just horny as hell all the time so its a good way to feed the need.

Mikey, do you think the motivation for gay men to act in porn is different than the motivation for women?

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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #12 on: March 19, 2012, 11:40:07 AM »
I think money is more of a motivation for women, although there are some very sexual women out there from what i hear.  Men are just more sexual beings and would probably do it for the sex and attention
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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #13 on: March 19, 2012, 11:47:39 AM »
Mikey, do you think the motivation for gay men to act in porn is different than the motivation for women?

While I don't know what motivates women to do porn, for some gay men I think it is either a way of getting attention, or an affirmation of their sexuality and/or just sex itself.  Gay men grow up getting a lot of messages (some covert, some overt) that homosexuality is bad, or therefore hide or repress anything that has to do with their interest in sex with men.  Porn is one way for them to take a more empowering approach to sex with men, and get positive (no pun intended) reinforcement.

For women, I suspect the desire for attention and affirmation are probably the same, but for different reasons.  I'm sure Dr. Drew could answer this. 



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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #14 on: March 19, 2012, 12:18:20 PM »
People do porn due to a host of factors. I don't see why gays should be  any more or any less "deviant" than their straight counterparts in this respect. 
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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #15 on: March 20, 2012, 09:21:19 PM »
About 20 something years ago, I lived, worked and played on Oahu.  Shared a penthouse apartment with a friend who managed a store in the Kahala Mall.  I worked for some radio stations in Waipahu.

One evening he mentioned, he was wondering what it was like to be paid for sex.  We were very competitive on things like who got the hottest men the previous night.  I replied with something about neither of us, in our current jobs, could afford to live like we do it's fair to assume we both already know what it was like to be paid for sex.

He really wanted to try to be a hooker so, there was Island Boy Escorts operating out of a gym on the Ali Wai Canal.  The service owner came over to fuck him, discuss what to do if arrested and I insisted paid tricks would not be sent to our house.  So, he had a day job and a night job.

Island Boy was hired to provide talent for a low budget film in a high end house.  My friend came home every day with excitement over the shoot.  A construction crew was putting a new roof on the house next door and the straight guys had a problem with the Gay dick at the pool.  My friend made about $800 bucks and his scene... "nice young college boy on a chaise lounge, fantasizing about the hot surfer at the beach"  Suddenly, he get up from his lounge chair, slides out of his spandex and squats down on a huge dildo, goes at for awhile, jacks off.

In L.A., I had worked for a short time doing extras work.  I drove to the studio, costume and did whatever the extras were to do.  I made a lot more money standing around in a crowd scene than my friend made with the dildo and the construction crew.  I'm sorry Ford, I don't know why gay men do porn  8)  Have the best day
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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #16 on: March 20, 2012, 09:37:06 PM »
Michael, if you ever publish your memoirs I shall be first in line for an autographed copy. May I suggest a title: "Michael has the Best Day."  :)

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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #17 on: March 21, 2012, 01:27:27 AM »
I've known 2 guys from here in Louisville who've done porn.  One did it for Bacchus--think that's the name.  It is not an A-list porn producer.  I found his movies and all his scenes were bareback.  I think they do mostly bareback films.  The other guy did porn for Falcon.  They both said they love to have sex, so why not get paid for doing what you like.  They weren't stars, because they had regular jobs here. 

   

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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #18 on: March 21, 2012, 02:22:30 AM »
I've had sex with several porn stars. Impressed?

And I never once thought to ask them why they did porn -- I mean what kind of retarded question is that?
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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #19 on: March 21, 2012, 02:43:33 AM »
Michael, if you ever publish your memoirs I shall be first in line for an autographed copy. May I suggest a title: "Michael has the Best Day."  :)

Yeah I know... I'm working on a documentary project featuring pioneer family descendants and I was going to tell everyone about it but that may not Google well and  ;D  Have the best day
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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #20 on: March 21, 2012, 03:29:48 PM »
I've had sex with several porn stars. Impressed?

And I never once thought to ask them why they did porn -- I mean what kind of retarded question is that?

Names?  And where can we find their films?


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« Reply #21 on: March 21, 2012, 05:00:25 PM »
I was reading a discussion on another site about the evils of prostitution and pornography and some of the arguments regarding the power inequities between men and women didn't ring true for me regarding gay men. Certainly there is coercion in some same-sex situations, e.g. poor young men who are doing porn or prostituting for money or drugs, but I don't get the sense that guys who work for major porn companies are being coerced. I've only known one guy who was in porn and he said he did it because he wanted to have sex with other hot guys and get into that social circle-- he didn't need the money and he wasn't, to my knowledge, addicted to anything. Obviously there are guys who just want the attention, as evidenced by the couples on Xtube who put it out there for free. So I ask the worldly people of this forum, why do gay men do porn or prostitute? Does it matter whether men or women are the participants?

Gee I think you summed it up nicely.  Surely every type of motivation, including power/wealth inequities, are possible for gay guys.

I might differ in thinking it is mostly for the money, and less often for the good sex or contact with other hot porno studs. There are plenty of opportunities for a hottie to find other hotties, and nothing to do with being a porn star.

Note also there really are gay porn actors who self-define as "gay for pay" so they would say they are doing it for the money. Who are we to disagree with their explanation.

Also, same thing goes for prostitution.  There are so many young gay guys on the cruise sites here who will sell it for 200-400 bucks a pop. I am sure that is far far far above the hourly salary many of them would get in the everyday job market.
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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #22 on: March 21, 2012, 05:04:53 PM »
One time in the early 1990's in NY a friend of mine told me a story. One evening in the East Village he was strolling along and ogling 2 glossy gym bunnies.  He heard one say to the other "I got my contract Falcon!"

This became a buzz word joke in our circle. "Contract Falcon"

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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #23 on: March 21, 2012, 07:41:25 PM »

Note also there really are gay porn actors who self-define as "gay for pay" so they would say they are doing it for the money. Who are we to disagree with their explanation.


Now you should know that gay for pay means straight boys who do queer porn strictly for the coins.
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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #24 on: March 21, 2012, 08:22:38 PM »
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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #25 on: March 21, 2012, 10:37:53 PM »
lolwat

It brought me to where I am today

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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #26 on: March 21, 2012, 11:02:34 PM »
I was exhausted, frustrated and felt suffocated. Everything in my whole life up until that point had been about my brain and studying and making money.


Okay, not the reasons I anticipated.

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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #27 on: March 21, 2012, 11:20:50 PM »
You're such a sheltered homo, Ford
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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #28 on: March 22, 2012, 10:00:39 AM »
Gee those gay for pay dudes are everywhere....  I guess in the age of the metrosexual this is all very ho hum.

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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #30 on: March 22, 2012, 02:54:22 PM »
Actually I have no issue with the gay-for-pay concept. I was straight-for-pay a few times in college. And no, I wasn't even trying to be bisexual as an identity. I was gay and fucking a girl because it got me a lot of cocaine.

Also, cocks
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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #31 on: March 23, 2012, 07:47:23 AM »
I was gay and fucking a girl ............

WOW.....  it's like I woke up and entered an alternate universe........................   my money is on the possibility that I am still asleep.
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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #32 on: March 23, 2012, 01:13:39 PM »
WOW.....  it's like I woke up and entered an alternate universe........................   my money is on the possibility that I am still asleep.

I also used to fuck her up the ass -- did you used to have anal sex with your ex-wife, sweetie darling?
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« Reply #33 on: March 23, 2012, 04:52:50 PM »
I also used to fuck her up the ass -- did you used to have anal sex with your ex-wife, sweetie darling?

Well, I never had a wife -- but, no, I never had anal sex with a woman.  I was a "good" catholic back then and only fornicated in the missionary position with women........   ;)

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« Reply #34 on: March 23, 2012, 05:30:00 PM »
Well, I never had a wife -- but, no, I never had anal sex with a woman.  I was a "good" catholic back then and only fornicated in the missionary position with women........   ;)

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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #35 on: March 23, 2012, 11:45:47 PM »
I thought you had several spawn, Mike -- are you telling me that they were all out of wedlock? That's just so trashy.

I have ONE and only ONE daughter.  She, however, has given me 5 grandchildren.

Yes, she was born out of wedlock.  I was 14 at her conception and 15 when she was born.  I was "seduced" by an older woman (of 16).  Obviously, safer sex was not part of the equation.......

My daughter did learn from her dad -- her first was born 11 months following her wedding.  Unfortunately, I missed the wedding, as the eloped to Vegas while he was on leave from the Navy.  I was told a week later.  Sigh -- never got to walk her down the aisle.

Anyway -- sorry for the hijack Ford -- we no return to our regularly scheduled porn...............

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Offline Miss Philicia

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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #36 on: March 24, 2012, 03:55:27 AM »
Sigh -- never got to walk her down the aisle.

You can walk me down the aisle when Wumpy and I get married. Feel better?
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Re: Why do gay men do porn?
« Reply #37 on: March 24, 2012, 11:39:52 PM »
From conversations with my old roomie that was a prostitute, money was basically the reason.  GSO you don't seem to have any idea how much $$$ there is if you're a hot looking 18 - 30 yr old gay man with a great face, pumped body, with a personality of a chameleon.  My roomie's minimum was $150/hr.  He said most tricks were over in 30 minutes.  Some guys wanted overtime... that was $200/hr... and this was over twenty years ago.  I wonder what the top $$$ guys can command now!

He didn't need to work like the rest of us.  If you get into it when you're young and you're smart (unlike most), you can quit in ten years with enough $$$ to last for the rest of your life.  Remember these $$$'s are TAX-FREE baby!

 


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