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Author Topic: i'am i at risk  (Read 1625 times)

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Offline the_unborn

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i'am i at risk
« on: March 11, 2012, 03:44:39 PM »
hello
today i was with a gay male
we kissed, he licked all my body , my balls , and my anus,
and for few seconds he sucked my penis,i frotted my penis on his anus,and i touched his semen liquid then i dray it quickly but i don' know if his semen liquid contacted the head of my penis
but i did not pentreated him, the problem is when we were playing(not in the frottement act), i was on his body and i think that may be my penis entred to his anus and gets outside for one second or less ! is it possible ?
i really don't know how this idea comes to me? is it possible that penetration  could happens his way?
i'am i at risk ?
i'm very worried , did i need to test ?
thank you

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Re: i'am i at risk
« Reply #1 on: March 11, 2012, 03:49:58 PM »
You were not at risk and you do not need to test.

Nothing you are reporting put you at risk for HIV.

The only confirmed risks for the sexual transmission of HIV are unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse. That's it. As long as you always use condoms for those activities you will be effectively protected.

There is no cause for further concern about HIV over this incident.
Andy Velez

Offline the_unborn

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Re: i'am i at risk
« Reply #2 on: March 11, 2012, 04:08:03 PM »
thanks a lot andy for this fast answer
but as i have said : do you think that when we were playing my penis entred his anus and gets out in second?do you think it's possible ?that's what i'm really worring about

Offline RapidRod

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Re: i'am i at risk
« Reply #3 on: March 11, 2012, 05:26:26 PM »
Had you penetrated him you would have known.

Offline the_unborn

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Re: i'am i at risk
« Reply #4 on: March 11, 2012, 05:35:40 PM »
no rapid i did not
but as i have said,may be while playing my penis entred in his anus i don't know if it's really possible but i'm affraid (i was not drunk)

Offline RapidRod

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Re: i'am i at risk
« Reply #5 on: March 11, 2012, 05:37:23 PM »
If you were that drunk not to remember you wouldn't have been able to maintain an erection.

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Re: i'am i at risk
« Reply #6 on: March 11, 2012, 05:49:26 PM »
Listen, we've told you what we think. If you are genuinely worried that maybe you had unprotected intercourse then there is a simple solution.

Get tested.

We're not going to continue with this gee, I wonder if kind of stuff with you.

Get tested and collect what I certainly expect will be a negative result. And in the meantime while waiting to test just get busy with other things in your life. 
Andy Velez

Offline the_unborn

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Re: i'am i at risk
« Reply #7 on: March 11, 2012, 05:55:18 PM »
rapid i said i was not drunk , not drunk

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Re: i'am i at risk
« Reply #8 on: March 11, 2012, 05:56:30 PM »
Duly noted. That's clarified.

Get on with your life.
Andy Velez

Offline the_unborn

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Re: i'am i at risk
« Reply #9 on: March 11, 2012, 05:58:47 PM »
last question andy pls
do you think that it's easy that my penis enter into his anus while playing ?

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Re: i'am i at risk
« Reply #10 on: March 11, 2012, 06:05:19 PM »
No, not without your being well aware that it has happened/is happening.

The feeling in your penis would definitely be noticeable.

Now you really need to move along, no kidding.
Andy Velez

Offline the_unborn

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Re: i'am i at risk
« Reply #11 on: March 11, 2012, 06:13:24 PM »
thanks a lot andy really
so no need to test ?

Offline RapidRod

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Re: i'am i at risk
« Reply #12 on: March 11, 2012, 06:50:11 PM »
HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug abusers
Mother to child

As you can see you never had an exposure.

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Re: i'am i at risk
« Reply #13 on: March 11, 2012, 07:28:00 PM »
I don't see any need for testing. And if you come back here yet again about this non-risk incident,you are very quickly going to find yourself getting a Time Out from the site.

HIV is not your problem. Get on with your life. Really.
Andy Velez

Offline the_unborn

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Re: i'am i at risk
« Reply #14 on: May 02, 2012, 10:14:02 PM »
hi andy
after 6 weeks i did a rapid test (it last less than 20 min to get the result
wich was negative
is this kind of test a true test?
i have much less fear now
i want to live my sexual life but i'm always at fear
may i recive bj without any risk ?
thank you very much

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Re: i'am i at risk
« Reply #15 on: May 02, 2012, 10:20:18 PM »
■Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result,  or no-risk situation will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.

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Re: i'am i at risk
« Reply #16 on: May 03, 2012, 06:04:40 AM »
unborn,

It's no surprise you tested negative - you didn't have a risk to begin with.

You do not have hiv. You are hiv negative.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED FURTHER TESTING AT THIS TIME, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann
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