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Author Topic: Possable precum on a condom  (Read 1932 times)

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Offline Enilc

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Possable precum on a condom
« on: March 17, 2012, 01:13:49 AM »
I have a habit…transexuals, every 6-8 months I get a covered BJ. The last one I was with about a week ago I decided to try bottoming. We used protection of course, but what kind of concerns me is that when the person I was with was trying to get hard they would stroke themselves vigurously and then quickly slip the condom on and penetrate me, this happened three times as they would kinda loose errection. I was also kind of chafed around my anus too. So I'm just writing to ask what people think? If I could get HIV from this?

Offline Matty the Damned

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Re: Possable precum on a condom
« Reply #1 on: March 17, 2012, 01:30:57 AM »
Provided your sexual partner's penis was covered when she penetrated you then you were not at risk of HIV infection.

It sounds to me like your partner's penis was covered. In my opinion this is not an HIV risk situation.

HIV is a fragile virus, it is transmitted in very particular ways. Those ways are:

Unprotected vaginal and anal sex;
Sharing contaminated injecting equipment such as needles and syringes;
In some cases from HIV positive mother to her unborn or nursing infant.

Please take the time to read our Welcome Thread. It contains links to our lessons on HIV transmission.


Offline Enilc

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Re: Possable precum on a condom
« Reply #2 on: March 17, 2012, 11:25:30 AM »
It was covered, but may have had a small amount of precum on the outside of the condom.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Possable precum on a condom
« Reply #3 on: March 17, 2012, 11:46:27 AM »
HIV is a fragile virus. The possibility of some precum on the outside of the condom would not have been a risk. Once exposed to the air HIV very quickly become non-viable.
Andy Velez

Offline Enilc

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Re: Possable precum on a condom
« Reply #4 on: March 17, 2012, 12:00:03 PM »
Okay thanks for all your replies. I do get tested every so often. I must also say I have been reading other posts and the administrators and members do a very good job, and are very knowledgable, understanding and give courteous quick responses. You do great job putting people's minds at ease with all the support you give.
Thank you.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Possable precum on a condom
« Reply #5 on: March 17, 2012, 02:42:49 PM »
OK. You're welcome. You're good to go and just remember to always without exception use a condom for intercourse, both anal and vaginal.

Andy Velez


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