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Author Topic: Urgent need advice! I had sex with CSW  (Read 1212 times)

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Offline Boy1991

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Urgent need advice! I had sex with CSW
« on: February 12, 2012, 06:27:54 AM »
Hi everybody! I need some advice, i am really worried. two weeks ago i had sex with vietnamese sex worker from hanoi. We had protected 3 sex but i don't know type of condom. And after 2 sex when i pulled out my penis i noticed some cum coming out her vagina , but right after when i saw my penis condom was on and cum was inside at the tip. After 2-3 minutes i washed my private parts.So i guess leakage happened when my penis softened because i kept for around 1 minute my penis inside her vagina after ejaculation. is it possible that some vagina fluid can get inside to top of my penis when my penis softened inside her? how is probability of getting hiv considering i have circumcision and i don't know the type of condom?

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Re: Urgent need advice! I had sex with CSW
« Reply #1 on: February 12, 2012, 06:40:34 AM »
Hi everybody! I need some advice, i am really worried. two weeks ago i had sex with vietnamese sex worker from hanoi. We had protected 3 sex but i don't know type of condom. And after 2 sex when i pulled out my penis i noticed some cum coming out her vagina , but right after when i saw my penis condom was on and cum was inside at the tip. After 2-3 minutes i washed my private parts.So i guess leakage happened when my penis softened because i kept for around 1 minute my penis inside her vagina after ejaculation. is it possible that some vagina fluid can get inside to top of my penis when my penis softened inside her? how is probability of getting hiv considering i have circumcision and i don't know the type of condom?
You never had an exposure. SW would not use any condom that would indanger their health.

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Re: Urgent need advice! I had sex with CSW
« Reply #2 on: February 12, 2012, 07:11:36 AM »
Boy,

You did the right thing and used condoms. You should be using condoms with ANYONE you have anal or vaginal intercourse with, not just sex workers.

Condoms have been proven to prevent hiv infection. There have been three long-term studies of couples where one is positive and one is negative. In the couples who used condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, but no barrier for oral activities, not one of the negative partners became infected with hiv. Not one.

The fluid you saw coming out of her vagina would have been her own fluids, NOT yours. Yes, women's fluids look just like men's.

You did NOT have a risk for hiv infection.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST SPECIFICALLY OVER THIS PROTECTED INTERCOURSE, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

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Re: Urgent need advice! I had sex with CSW
« Reply #3 on: February 12, 2012, 07:30:38 AM »
Thank you RapidRod and Ann! Your words made me relieve! I am worried that that fluid coming out of her vagina was mine because i felt some wet on my base part of penis. or may be it is because my base part was not protected.  Is vagina fluid white? because i saw white fluid coming out her vagina. When such fluids come out in women? So considering all above conditions can i say my sex was protected?

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Re: Urgent need advice! I had sex with CSW
« Reply #4 on: February 12, 2012, 07:43:51 AM »
Boy,

Yes, a woman's fluid can be white and often is white. Sometimes it's clear, sometimes it's white. More often white than clear - it's to do with where a woman is in her monthly menstrual cycle. These fluids appear when a woman is sexually aroused and when a woman has vaginal intercourse. It's completely normal.

It doesn't matter if some of her fluids got on the base of your penis. You can't be infected that way. As long as the head of your penis was covered while you were inside her, you were protected.

And YES, your sex was protected. You did NOT have a risk.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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