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Author Topic: protected sex but nipple lick  (Read 2180 times)

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Offline WorriedX

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protected sex but nipple lick
« on: January 12, 2012, 11:16:54 AM »
Hi,
sorry for my bad English, i'm from Indonesia and very sacred,
i'm heterosexual married man and i'm not sexually active,
i had protected intercourse with a girl but I have no idea of her status
i just lick her nipples for about one minute for foreplay and than made protected vaginal intercourse , i was wearing a latex condom for it,
but the question :

1. can the nipple lick make an HIV infection
2. i know all the protected intercourse are safe but  I've read from this site, a person infected  with hiv, although he claimed he always wears a condom in every intercourse : http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=36877.0

Please i'm very scared

« Last Edit: January 12, 2012, 12:25:39 PM by WorriedX »

Offline RapidRod

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Re: protected sex but nipple lick
« Reply #1 on: January 12, 2012, 12:42:10 PM »
Hi,
sorry for my bad English, i'm from Indonesia and very sacred,
i'm heterosexual married man and i'm not sexually active,
i had protected intercourse with a girl but I have no idea of her status
i just lick her nipples for about one minute for foreplay and than made protected vaginal intercourse , i was wearing a latex condom for it,
but the question :

1. can the nipple lick make an HIV infection
2. i know all the protected intercourse are safe but  I've read from this site, a person infected  with hiv, although he claimed he always wears a condom in every intercourse : http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=36877.0

Please i'm very scared

1. No
2.No one got infected by using a condom correctly and consistently.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: protected sex but nipple lick
« Reply #2 on: January 12, 2012, 12:58:12 PM »
You are worrying needlessly.

The only risk for sucking the nipples of an HIV+ woman is to an infant under 6 months of age. That is because an infant's immune system has not kicked in at that early age.

But for an adult there is no risk whatsoever to sucking a woman's nipple including if she is lactating (leaking milk).

Condoms provide very effective protection against HIV transmission.

You have no cause for concern nor is there any need for HIV testing in relation to this incident.
Andy Velez

Offline WorriedX

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Re: protected sex but nipple lick
« Reply #3 on: January 27, 2012, 02:48:24 AM »
Thanks Andy and RapidRod, but do i need testing, i'm very scarred because I  was having a fever and exposed to canker sores,

for my detail incident, i just licks her nipples not suck it, and after intercourse, i release off condom with a tissue and filling it with water, and no  leaks there


please i'm very scared

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Re: protected sex but nipple lick
« Reply #4 on: January 27, 2012, 02:52:05 AM »
Under no circumstances is this incident an HIV risk.

"Many people, especially in the gay community, turn to oral sex as a safer alternative in the age of AIDS. And with HIV rates rising, people need to remember that oral sex is safer sex. It's a reasonable alternative."

-Kimberly Page-Shafer, PhD, MPH

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Offline WorriedX

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Re: protected sex but nipple lick
« Reply #5 on: March 29, 2012, 11:39:06 PM »
RapidRod & Andy & jkinatl2, sorry for my reply after past 60 days , but I 'm having diarrhea, and my body feels weak, what i have to do, please give me the advise

Offline WorriedX

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Re: protected sex but nipple lick
« Reply #6 on: March 30, 2012, 12:01:36 AM »
 i share about my fear until this day,
I have done 16 anti hiv test with 3 different methods more than 2 years ago after i have made protected intercourse but unprotected oral sex, all the results are negative, but the shadow of fear still following me, until I repeated it again to make protected intercourse 3 months ago and feel stress until now,
today I will repeat my hiv test activity  as I have done two years ago, but who knows how long :(, please Andy Rapid jkinatl2

Offline Ann

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Re: protected sex but nipple lick
« Reply #7 on: March 30, 2012, 04:53:04 AM »
Worried,

If you feel unwell, see a doctor. It has nothing to do with hiv.

You have NOT had a risk for hiv infection.

If you read the Welcome Thread before posting like you're supposed to, you will have read the following posting guideline:

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Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.


Please consider yourself warned!

Ann
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