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Offline hope_for_a_cure

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Re: girl or guy
« Reply #50 on: January 22, 2012, 01:22:46 PM »

Offline denb45

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Re: girl or guy
« Reply #51 on: January 22, 2012, 01:29:01 PM »
Hmmmmmmmmm...  not quite sure what to say about that!

oh you know you want him  :-*
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Offline RapidRod

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Re: girl or guy
« Reply #52 on: January 22, 2012, 01:31:56 PM »
oh you know you want him  :-*
If he had enlargement implants I hope he didn't stop just there.  ;)

Offline wolfter

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Re: girl or guy
« Reply #53 on: January 22, 2012, 01:32:44 PM »
This is the same guy your friends were trying to get you to meet, and which started this whole thread?  My, you've certainly changed your tune....

Why didn't you accept his invite for a nightcap?  Maybe that depends on what he meant by nightcap (I'm always terribly naive about these things).   Perhaps you could have instead offered him your phone number, and suggested getting together again.  Work it!

Cheers,

Henry

I so wanted to accept his offer for a nightcap but I also didn't want to let my hormones override common sense.  He's coming to the lake again this evening and I am signing him into the post.  Perhaps after a little bit of liquid courage, I'll accept his offer. :o  I've had little experience dating, so I'm trying to handle it all correctly.  Hell, I'm not even sure if it's still acceptable and appreciated to have sex almost immediately.

Wolfie

Did the guy in that video have implants?  That just doesn't look appealing at all.

Complacency is the enemy.  ;)  Challenge yourself daily for maximum  return on investment.

Offline RapidRod

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Re: girl or guy
« Reply #54 on: January 22, 2012, 01:36:16 PM »
I so wanted to accept his offer for a nightcap but I also didn't want to let my hormones override common sense.  He's coming to the lake again this evening and I am signing him into the post.  Perhaps after a little bit of liquid courage, I'll accept his offer. :o  I've had little experience dating, so I'm trying to handle it all correctly.  Hell, I'm not even sure if it's still acceptable and appreciated to have sex almost immediately.

Wolfie

Did the guy in that video have implants?  That just doesn't look appealing at all.
ROFL, I wouldn't think they would, but what the hell, to each his own or her own.  ;)

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Re: girl or guy
« Reply #55 on: January 22, 2012, 01:38:25 PM »
If he had enlargement implants I hope he didn't stop just there.  ;)

 ;D or maybe he into Vac-penis-pumps  ;)
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Offline wolfter

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Re: girl or guy
« Reply #56 on: January 22, 2012, 01:46:10 PM »
Sorry this is off topic, but this video is too cute not to post.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pPomfXaM6dw

Wolfie
Complacency is the enemy.  ;)  Challenge yourself daily for maximum  return on investment.

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Re: girl or guy
« Reply #57 on: January 22, 2012, 01:53:46 PM »
Sorry this is off topic, but this video is too cute not to post.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pPomfXaM6dw

Wolfie

That Child has talent  ;)
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Offline nixsmail

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Re: girl or guy
« Reply #58 on: January 22, 2012, 01:55:00 PM »
toooo cute, add about 10 years and he'd be perfect!!! to young as is but potential is there, ha.
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Offline wolfter

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Re: girl or guy
« Reply #59 on: January 26, 2012, 10:38:57 AM »
Something was discussed last night that smacked me in the face.  My friend explained to me that his coworker was initially "into" me.  But he felt he learned more about Bill than me.  That obviously gave me pause and caused me to reflect.

Just how long are we allowed/supposed to grieve for someone who was such a vital part of ourselves?  Is it abnormal to reflect everyday on someone who brought such love and joy to an otherwise bleak existence? 

As much as the comments hurt, I realize it was a needed dose of reality.  I just wish there was a quick fix on how to let my loved ones  rest in peace.  It's not just Bill, I realize that I continuously reflect on those whom I loved that have left me way too soon.  I once again went through my albums and was comforted by the photos in our happy days.

I'm grateful that I have a survivor's attitude and have discovered an issue that needs resolved.  I'm just grateful I have this place to express these thoughts rather than just internalize them.

Wolfie
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Re: girl or guy
« Reply #60 on: January 26, 2012, 10:59:34 AM »

Just how long are we allowed/supposed to grieve for someone who was such a vital part of ourselves?  Is it abnormal to reflect everyday on someone who brought such love and joy to an otherwise bleak existence? 

Wolfie

Bill will always be in your heart & your good memory of him, it never go's away, I grieve every yr. Bob doesn't even ask me why, he already knows why I cry my eyes out @ least twice a yr. he just gives me a b BIG HUG  ;)
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Offline wolfter

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« Reply #61 on: January 26, 2012, 11:55:48 AM »
Bill will always be in your heart & your good memory of him, it never go's away, I grieve every yr. Bob doesn't even ask me why, he already knows why I cry my eyes out @ least twice a yr. he just gives me a b BIG HUG  ;)

You cry?  That's so queer!    lol    Thanks for the kind words. 

Wolfie
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« Reply #62 on: January 26, 2012, 12:05:39 PM »
You cry?  That's so queer!    lol    Thanks for the kind words. 

Wolfie

Yep, I do  ;)
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Offline RapidRod

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Re: girl or guy
« Reply #63 on: January 26, 2012, 06:27:36 PM »
Yep, I do  ;)
Dennis did you cry when you watched Lassie too?  ;)

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« Reply #64 on: January 26, 2012, 06:40:13 PM »
Dennis did you cry when you watched Lassie too?  ;)

Only when my dad turned off the TV so I couldn't watch  ;)
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Offline Since2005

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Re: girl or guy
« Reply #65 on: February 01, 2012, 10:12:36 PM »
This thread is very interesting. This guy or girl thing confuses the hell out of me. So, I try to act more "gay" like wearing more gayish clothes but the problem is that's just not me but acting more gay works better for me and that way I do get right kinda guys ;). I do think 50/50 works better!


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« Reply #66 on: February 01, 2012, 10:17:23 PM »
This thread is very interesting. This guy or girl thing confuses the hell out of me. So, I try to act more "gay" like wearing more gayish clothes but the problem is that's just not me but acting more gay works better for me and that way I do get right kinda guys ;). I do think 50/50 works better!

There has always been the belief from a lot of straight folks, that gays couples play roles.  They expect that one of the men will be the "woman".  I've always taken it to mean; who pokes who without right out asking. 

Wolfie
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Offline denb45

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« Reply #67 on: February 01, 2012, 10:22:00 PM »
There has always been the belief from a lot of straight folks, that gays couples play roles.  They expect that one of the men will be the "woman".  I've always taken it to mean; who pokes who without right out asking. 

Wolfie

But what if your like me & bob, we both poke each other.....lol   were the pokee & the pokete ;D
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Offline wolfter

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« Reply #68 on: February 01, 2012, 10:25:26 PM »
But what if your like me & bob, we both poke each other.....lol   were the pokee & the pokete ;D

It's that "top" "bottom" thingy.  I could never last in that type of relationship.  Like, WTF?  The same thing everytime?  Sometimes you wanta be the pole, sometimes you wanta be the hole.   ;D   

Wolfie
Complacency is the enemy.  ;)  Challenge yourself daily for maximum  return on investment.

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« Reply #69 on: February 01, 2012, 10:32:01 PM »
It's that "top" "bottom" thingy.  I could never last in that type of relationship.  Like, WTF?  The same thing everytime?  Sometimes you wanta be the pole, sometimes you wanta be the hole.   ;D   

Wolfie

Sometimes we wanna be the Boy, and sometimes we wanna be the Daddy, this works out well for us, we wouldn't have it any other way, hey were both Men right, so we might as well have sex like 2 men do, your missing out Greg, nothing wrong with that type relationship  ;D
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« Reply #70 on: February 01, 2012, 10:45:36 PM »
You missed what I said Den, I absolutely insist in being versatile.  I would never be just the top or bottom. 

Wolfie
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« Reply #71 on: February 01, 2012, 10:55:01 PM »
You missed what I said Den, I absolutely insist in being versatile.  I would never be just the top or bottom. 

Wolfie

Oh I gotcha Greg, if you got a dick & and ass and your a gay man might as well use what you got, Bagged me a husband  like that 18 yrs. ago  ;)
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