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Offline emeraldize

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Bangladesh’s invisible minority
« on: February 01, 2012, 10:07:23 AM »
Bangladesh’s invisible minority

http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2012/01/30/comment-bangladeshs-invisible-minority/
by Rainer Ebert
30 January 2012, 1:13pm

Babu and Arif have been friends from childhood. They went to school together, played on the same cricket team and had no secrets – except one, but only until recently. While they were out having phuchkas at a street stand somewhere in Dhaka, Arif suddenly slipped into an awkward silence for a couple of seconds.

“Babu, shon, toke amar kichu bolar ache… Listen, I want to tell you something…”

“What is it, dosto?”

“I haven’t been fully honest with you… Remember when I told you that I really like that girl? That wasn’t quite true. It’s actually her brother I like. I am gay.”

Babu, shocked at the unexpected confession and not quite sure how to respond, got up and walked away. No matter how often Arif tried to call Babu in the following days, there was no response. Six months went by until Arif finally got a call back from Babu. Today, after many evenings of long talks, they are best friends again. Babu realized that Arif being gay does not take away anything from the childhood memories they share and the good times they experienced together. Babu learned to accept Arif for who he is – his closest friend… who happens to be gay.

Lesbian, gay and bisexual (LGB) people are our brothers and sisters, our friends, our neighbors, our teachers and our colleagues. Homosexuality and bisexuality have been part of every society and every culture, at every point in human history, and have also been found in a wide range of non-human animal species. Different surveys around the world have found that between one and ten out of one hundred people are sexually or romantically attracted to members of the same sex.

Using the lower end of this range, we find that a minimum of 15 lakh (1.5m) people in Bangladesh are homosexual or bisexual. Despite this large number – which is roughly equivalent to the entire population of Qatar and could actually be up to ten times as high – LGB people are an invisible minority. Many face discrimination at school, university and their workplace, are denied access to health care and justice and, being torn between fear, confusion and guilt, find little support from family members and friends.

Section 377 of the Bangladesh Penal Code makes same-sex intercourse a crime punishable by imprisonment for life. Consequently, only few are open about their sexual orientation, while most are forced to live a life of secrecy and lies, conformed to bigotry, misguided notions of honor and caricatures of justice and morality. With heterosexual marriage still being considered a woman’s nirvana, the level of tolerance for lesbian women is particularly low – they are doubly marginalized.

In 2002, the Bandhu Social Welfare Society (BSWS), the largest association working with men who have sex with men (MSM) in Bangladesh, surveyed 124 self-identified kothis, feminine homosexual or bisexual men and arguably the most visual part of the local LGB community. One in two respondents stated that he had been the victim of harassment at school or college. Three in four respondents who told their relatives about their sexual orientation stated that “their family had reacted negatively with beatings, forced marriage, disinheritance, throwing [them] […] out of the house, [or] taking them to doctors for curing them of homosexuality […].”

Many had been sexually abused, raped or harassed by law enforcement agents, mastaans (local thugs), friends or family. Twenty-nine of the 80 respondents who reported harassment by law enforcement agents told BSWS that police officers had sexually assaulted or raped them. The others talked about beatings, extortion of money, obstruction of movement, threats and blackmail. Men in “Mymensingh, Dhaka, and Sylhet reported […] [that they had been] rounded up, […] taken either to police barracks or the police post and raped by groups of policemen. Such forced sex was always reported as being unsafe […] and often results in serious physical injury like a ruptured rectum, internal hemorrhage, etc.” A 2003 Human Rights Watch (HRW) report shows that these incidences are not unusual but follow a pattern of violence against LGB people in Bangladesh.

The endemic homophobia in Bangladesh also has a negative impact on the mental health and well-being of LGB people. A recent study of 102 homosexual men conducted by University of Dhaka professor Muhammad Kamruzzaman Mozumder et al. found that 32% of these men had a history of suicide attempt, while 47% reported that they had considered committing suicide at least once.

During a visit to Dhaka in December 2011, I met up with Mamun (not his real name) and Shakhawat. Mamun is a 23-year old student, Shakhawat a 26-year old journalist. Both identify themselves as gay men.

Mamun describes accepting that he is gay as “the hardest thing [he] ever did.” When he first felt physically attracted to other boys at the age of 13, he thought there was something wrong with him and hoped it would change. When it did not change, he thought he would just marry and hide his sexual orientation for the rest of his life. Then he started doing research on homosexuality on the internet and found that it is accepted and considered normal in other parts of the world. It took him another six years to fully accept that he is gay.

Today, he thinks daily about leaving Bangladesh, pessimistic that attitudes towards LGB people will change within his lifetime.

“I love my country and my family but I want to live a normal and free life. I don’t want to live a life full of lies. I will never live a straight life. I would rather stay single for the rest of my life – I do  not want to destroy the life of a girl.”

And even though he considers his parents to be relatively liberal, he is afraid that the day might come when he has to choose between them and living an authentic and dignified life.

Shakhawat felt romantically attracted towards men for as long as he can remember. Living apart from his family from an early age, he found support in Dhaka’s gay scene. He became a member of Boys of Bangladesh (BoB), a platform for gay men, and learned a great deal about the psychology and politics of sexual orientation. Shakhawat has been in a steady and committed relationship with another man for four years. He wants to stay in Bangladesh to raise awareness for LGB issues.

After returning to the United States, I got in touch with 23-year old BBA student Farheena (not her real name) through a Bangladeshi online forum. She has known that she likes girls from early childhood and identifies herself as a lesbian woman. Fearing that her parents might disown her, she has not come out to them yet and keeps her current relationship with another woman a secret. Unlike Shakhawat, she has not been able to find a platform for people who share her sexual orientation that she could turn to for support. Farheena told me that there is more pressure to get married early on women than there is on men. “If I do get pressurized into marrying a guy, I may just commit suicide. I would rather be dead than being someone I am not.” She thinks about moving out of the country after she graduates, hoping to be able to be who she is elsewhere.

For all of them, the internet has been an invaluable source of support and advice, and played a significant role in their acceptance of who they are. Their advice, in particular to LGB youth, is to use the internet to get as much quality information as possible – great starting points are itgetsbetter.org, tiny.cc/lgb-bd and Wikipedia –, and to connect with other LGB people. Unfortunately, access to the internet is still a class-privilege in Bangladesh and, hence, only available to some.

Sexual orientation is neither, as sometimes mistakenly assumed, “a choice” nor “a disease”, but a normal aspect of human sexuality. Homosexual relationships, just like relationships between men and women, are natural and healthy forms of human bonding. A person’s sexual orientation is part of who that person is, and everybody deserves to be respected for who they are. LGB people, hence, do not demand special rights but the recognition of their human rights. Cultural or religious norms that disfavor homosexuality no more justify discrimination against LGB people than norms of this kind can justify racism or sexism. Bullying and harassment, denying LGB people equal opportunities and respect, or prosecuting citizens for who they are is neither pious nor cultured but immoral.

Sex between consenting adults is an inherently private matter and should not be regulated by the government of a society that values tolerance and respect, yet Section 377 does exactly that. Section 377 contradicts the fundamental principles of dignity and equality, and violates international human rights law. It reinforces social stigma, encourages wrongful discrimination, undermines public health efforts and is based on nothing more than prejudice. A report published by the Bangladesh Ministry of Law, Justice and Parliamentary Affairs states that Section 377 “violates [the] constitutionally protected right to privacy under the expanded definition of right to life and personal liberty […].” Supreme Court Advocate Sara Hossain further sees Section 377 in conflict with the anti-discrimination clause and the right to equality before the law guaranteed by the Constitution of Bangladesh.

Even though Section 377 has rarely been used, it is for the LGB community what the sword was for Damocles and we should not wait until the bigoted and the intolerant discover it as a tool of repression against an unpopular minority.

Repealing Section 377 is an integral step in the development of Bangladesh as a free and democratic nation. A repeal would make it possible for LGB people who are victims of rape to make a complaint without putting themselves at risk of prosecution, and seize a weapon from police that is systematically used to harass, abuse and blackmail sexual minorities. Even though Shakhawat is not afraid of being prosecuted, he is still a criminal in the eyes of the state – “and it doesn’t feel nice.”

As an LGB rights advocate, he believes that a repeal of Section 377 “would give the LGBT community better visibility by making it easier for people to come out.”

Farheena, Mamun, Shakhawat and other LGB people deserve our attention and support. While the LGB community must form part of the leadership in the struggle against bigotry and injustice, it is the moral responsibility of all of us to add our voices and embrace tolerance and respect for the equal worth of all people.

Rainer Ebert is a philosophy student at Rice University in Houston, Texas. He can be reached at www.rainerebert.com. A version of this article first appeared on bdnews24.com.


Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Bangladesh’s invisible minority
« Reply #1 on: February 01, 2012, 01:05:53 PM »
Thanks for posting this. It's painful but very worthwhile reading.

It was good to read very recently that Ban-ki Moon, Secretary General of the United Nations, has called for all members of the UN to repeal anti-gay legislation  in their countries.

There is great resistance of course to doing that, but still it's a step in the right direction.
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Re: Bangladesh’s invisible minority
« Reply #2 on: February 02, 2012, 05:22:15 AM »
Section 377 of the Bangladesh Penal Code mirrors Section 377 of the Indian Penal Code which reads as follows:

Indian Penal Code (IPC)
 
Section 377. Unnatural offences
 
Whoever voluntarily has carnal intercourse against the order of nature with any man, woman or animal, shall be punished with 1[imprisonment for life], or with imprisonment of either description for term which may extend to ten years, and shall also be liable to fine.
 
Explanation
 
Penetration is sufficient to constitute the carnal intercourse necessary to the offence described in this section.

CLASSIFICATION OF OFFENCE
 
Punishment—Imprisonment for life, or imprisonment for 10 years and fine—Cognizable—Non-Bailable—Triable by Magistrate of the first class—Non-compoundable.


The absurd and sick mentality behind this law speaks for itself. Though the law was drafted by the British Colonialists over a century ago, it is the guardians of Victorian prudery (or do they think themselves to be the preservers of Indian cultural heritage?  ::))- i.e. successive Indian Governments- that have taken it upon themselves to defend Indian sensibilities from the onslaught of Western depravity.

Anyway, thankfully, it seems some level of Western immorality crept into the minds of select few judges of the Delhi High Court who ‘read down’ the above-stated legal provision as it runs contrary to the fundamental principles of Right To Equality and Right To Freedom of Expression that are enshrined in the Constitution of India. Although a technicality, it is noteworthy that this law has  only been ‘interpreted down’ by the courts and is yet to be officially repealed by the Indian parliament.

Moreover, all of the rightwingers (i.e. the saffron clad puritanical Hindus, the bearded Muslims as well as the very crossed Catholics- who are usually at each others’ throats have joined hands for this noble National cause) have appealed to the Supreme Court of India agianst the Delhi High Court decision. The good news is that the matter hasn’t come up for hearing in the last 4 years, nor has it been spoken much about in the media, thus one can come to the logical inference that the Indian Govt has reached some sort of tacit understanding with the judiciary to let the matter lie dormant for the time being. Hence, the Delhi High Court decision stands as de facto law of the land for the time being and the LGBT community is at peace with that.

There has been a not just discernible but overly bold rise in gay issues in this country and I don’t see it backing down. Gay Marches have been taking place in full spirit and fervor on the streets of Delhi, Mumbai, Bangalore, Calcutta and Chennai for nearly a decade now and the crowd swells a bit with every passing year. Not to mention the rising presence of gay characters in Indian movies and soaps- which are watched all over South Asia and the Middle East.

I imagine once the laws (and majority attitudes) start to reflect the altered reality somewhat closely in this country, the neighbouring countries would follow suit. Although, in the case of Islamic Bangladesh and Pakistan the march to freedom would likely be on a much steeper, thorny path.

PS- The Law is so crazily drafted that 'carnal intercourse against the order of nature' (it sounds so pompus that I can't help chuckle) likely includes oral sex, and anal sex between heteros as well. it also explains why they don't have sex toy shops here hahahahahaha ;D
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Re: Bangladesh’s invisible minority
« Reply #3 on: February 02, 2012, 06:15:00 AM »
Just an FYI- Even prior to Section 377 being officially rendered unconstitutional by the Delhi High Court, the law (in India) wasn't ever used to punish anyone. However, it was used by the police as leverage to harass/blackmail the disenfranchised and poorer sections of the LGBT community, particularly in smaller towns and rural areas where there is more pressure to conform to 'time-tested strictures'

 
« Last Edit: February 02, 2012, 06:21:41 AM by spacebarsux »
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Offline emeraldize

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Re: Bangladesh’s invisible minority
« Reply #4 on: February 02, 2012, 09:23:18 AM »
Thanks Andy. And thanks Space for adding the legal text and up-close insight. The article moved me when I read it and I had to share it.

 


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