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Offline flower007

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Hand Job and HIV
« on: January 01, 2012, 12:58:00 AM »
Dear Doctor

Two days ago i received a handjob from a Call Girl without using condom. At first she massaged  and then rubbed mi penis with her hand at that moment some fluids did come out and then later i told her to stop and did the masturbation miself .During this encounter we didnt indulge in any kissing or hugging .My worry is what if she is HIV + and she has got some cuts in her hand which i didnt check.Also mi penis is having a little burning sensation on the tip.

Iam really worried whether i will be infected or do i have to get miself tested .

Pls reply .


Rgrds
 

Offline MiniPozToyota

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Re: Hand Job and HIV
« Reply #1 on: January 01, 2012, 01:08:24 AM »
Dude your 100% fine, no risk at all unless you had unprotected sex with her.
April 2010- tested neg.
Oct-Dec 2010- Came in contact time frame
March 29 2011- tested positive
April 1 2011 -  CD4 346 VL 46856 22% (Hometown hospital)
April 10 2011-  First Actual Appointment
April 11 2011-  CD4 576 VL 11898  44% (Out of state hospital)
May 09 2011- Genotype test no resistance
Jun  02 - CD4 363 VL 22,850  (Hometown hospital)
July 11 2011 - CD4 372 @25% 41,000 (Out of state hospital)
July 27 2011- Started Atripla
Sept 1 2011- CD4 485 VL 73
Oct 17 2011- CD4 389 VL UD @ 25%
Nov 21 2011- CD4 424 VL UD @ 31%
Mar 12 2012- CD4 504 VL UD @ 35%
May 14 2012- CD4 630 VL UD @ 43%
Aug 17 2012- CD4 689 VL UD @ 45%
Nov  6 2012 - CD4 659 VL UD @ 42%
Dec 17 2012 - CD4 859 VL UD @ 48% (out of state hospital)
Mar 18 2013 - CD$ 867 VL UD @ 44%

Offline flower007

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Re: Hand Job and HIV
« Reply #2 on: January 01, 2012, 01:36:15 AM »
Hi

Thanks .So dont have to go for any tests .But mi only worry is what if she had some cuts in her hand .


Rgrds

Offline RapidRod

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Re: Hand Job and HIV
« Reply #3 on: January 01, 2012, 01:51:29 AM »
HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.

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Re: Hand Job and HIV
« Reply #4 on: January 01, 2012, 03:08:04 AM »
Flower,

It doesn't matter if she had cuts. Hiv is NOT transmitted through skin to skin contact. Not one person has ever been infected through a handjob and you certainly won't be the first.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST SPECIFICALLY OVER THIS HANDJOB, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann
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Offline flower007

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Re: Hand Job and HIV
« Reply #5 on: January 01, 2012, 03:28:09 AM »
Hi Ann

Thanks iam much relieved as i was freaking out a lot and was unable to sleep beacuse of this .No we didnt had any intercourse at all it was stricly hand job. Only that  now theres a little burning sensation at the tip of penis .


Rgrds

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Re: Hand Job and HIV
« Reply #6 on: January 01, 2012, 03:52:51 AM »
Flower,

Hiv does not cause a burning penis. However, other, more easily transmitted STIs can. Although it would be unusual, one can conceivably be infected with a bacterial infection from a handjob.

If you continue to experience the burning, see a doctor about a full panel of STI testing.

As I said above, a sexually active adult should be having a full panel of testing at least once a year anyway. It's what responsible adults do. Think of it like having a yearly dental check up. You might not have a toothache, but you get the check up anyway.

Once again, you have NOT had a risk for hiv infection.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline flower007

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Re: Hand Job and HIV
« Reply #7 on: January 01, 2012, 09:32:04 AM »
Hi Ann

Thanks once again .  Since this was the first time i had a handjob from a call girl i was really in a lot of stress and also very upset thinking that i may be infected with HIV as i had heard that infection is also caused if there are cuts and vaginal fluids entering your body .

Lot of thanks for the wonderful work you are doing and your contribution to the society . Surely i will do test once in six months /One year . So as u said i do not need to worry at all really very relieved .


Kind Rgrds
 

Offline flower007

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Re: Hand Job and HIV
« Reply #8 on: January 03, 2012, 01:36:07 AM »
Hi Ann

Theres still one more thing which is disturbing me .Suppose if she has got a cut in her hand and may be some blood may have entered through the urethral opening .Then its a real risk Isnt it ? .


Rgrds

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Re: Hand Job and HIV
« Reply #9 on: January 03, 2012, 05:52:46 AM »
Flower,

If she cut one of her fingers off just before she gave you a wank and repeatedly shoved the bloody stump into the opening of your urethra, then you might need to worry. Even then you'd be unlikely to have been infected.

You did NOT have a risk for hiv infection. Not one person has ever been infected through a handjob and you certainly will NOT be the first.

If you read the Welcome Thread before posting like you're supposed to, you will have read the following posting guideline:

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Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.


Please consider yourself warned!

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline flower007

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Re: Hand Job and HIV
« Reply #10 on: January 03, 2012, 06:26:39 AM »
Hi Ann

Thanks for the reply .Srry for posting again and again even though its a no risk situation .Its only that i was really nervous and worried . Again pls accept mi apologies.


Rgrds

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Re: Hand Job and HIV
« Reply #11 on: January 03, 2012, 09:20:36 AM »
Fortunately fears and doubts are not facts. They may continue from time to time but they do not change the facts of your situation which equal no risk for HIV.

It's time to get on with your life.
Andy Velez

Offline flower007

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Re: Hand Job and HIV
« Reply #12 on: January 03, 2012, 10:23:28 AM »
Hi Andy

Thanks a lot.Now no more doubts and will get on with life as usual .


Rgrds

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Hand Job and HIV
« Reply #13 on: January 03, 2012, 03:03:33 PM »
OK, good.
Andy Velez

Offline flower007

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Re: Hand Job and HIV
« Reply #14 on: January 08, 2012, 02:13:43 AM »
Hi Andy / Ann ,

Srry for posting once again.I have been having muscle aches in thighs for the past two days dont know whether this has anything to do with HIV .May be because of guilt and stress .

Still in mi mind there are many" WHAT IFs" but the only comfort are your replies .The whole matter is that iam going to get married in Feb and really very stressed out because of this .As you both have told that i dont have to test as theres not risk but then also I wish to test after 22 days just for mi peace of mind . Which test to do u suggest ? .


Thanks and Rgrds

Rgrds

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Re: Hand Job and HIV
« Reply #15 on: January 08, 2012, 05:08:08 AM »
Flower,

Any hiv antibody test would be just fine. We do not recommend any specific brands - just use whatever your local clinic uses. Do NOT order a test online - there are no approved home test kits available in your country, despite their availability on the internet. Go to a clinic.

You and your wife-to-be should both have a FULL sexual health check up before you stop using condoms. This has already been explained to you in great detail.

Remember, you have NOT had a risk for hiv infection when you got that handjob.

I'm giving you that time out you have been warned about. Do not attempt to create a new account to get around your time out because if you do, you will be permanently banned.

Ann

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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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