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Offline sam579

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please help repenting everyday
« on: August 13, 2012, 02:42:06 AM »
Here is my story for which i am repenting everyday. Last week i went to a massage parlor where i got a handjob from the lady there. First i started fingering her and i felt her vagina is dry and asked her for lubricant. She had baby oil in her hand and then i dipped my fingers in the oil and continued fingering her. She then used the same oil from her hand to perform handjob on me. Now i am freaked out is there a possibility that virus transmitted from vagina->tomyfingers->to oil in her hand-> to my penis.

I continued fingering until she cum. I washed my finger as soon as its done. While fingering she made me bit her breast and nipples so hard. I am not sure if she had cleaned her breasts. I didnt notice any blood or milk near her nipples.  Now i am concerned about this what if someone before me had already licked her breasts or ejaculated on her breasts. Do any traces of those virus might have infected me?

one more thing we had body rubs together. I rubbed my penis on her buttocks. Didnt touch anywhere near anus. I rubbed my lips on her vagina and bit her vagina. I  didn't use my tongue . She sat on my face(10 sec).  I remember she went to pee before i did this. Is there a possiblity that i am infected with any STD or any virus might have transmitted to my mouth from traces of her urine? Does body rubs pose any risk for STD?

After she gave me the handjob. She used a wet clothe to clean my penis. I am not sure if its new one. What if she had used the clothe for other customers too b4 cleaning mine? Will i be infected?

Forgot to mention i didnot use condom

After this incident, the next day i masturbated and i noticed my semen is very watery. Now its 4days. today i feel mild pain in my testes.

Do you think i am infected with hiv or any other STD?

Do i need to be tested for HIV and STD?
« Last Edit: August 13, 2012, 02:47:07 AM by sam579 »

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Re: please help repenting everyday
« Reply #1 on: August 13, 2012, 03:06:35 AM »
There are absolutely NO circumstances that would make this an HIV risk.

"Many people, especially in the gay community, turn to oral sex as a safer alternative in the age of AIDS. And with HIV rates rising, people need to remember that oral sex is safer sex. It's a reasonable alternative."

-Kimberly Page-Shafer, PhD, MPH

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Offline sam579

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Re: please help repenting everyday
« Reply #2 on: August 14, 2012, 01:09:16 AM »
thanks for the reply. But i am concerned about my symptoms watery semen and testicle pain. Do u think i might have got STD? Online i see lot of STDs chlamydia, gonorrhea have symptoms of testicle main. But i dont have any other symptoms of those STDs

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Re: please help repenting everyday
« Reply #3 on: August 14, 2012, 02:52:54 AM »

If you're worried about other STIs, go see a doctor and get tested for them. Some can be present with no symptoms.

We only focus on hiv here and you have NOT had a risk for hiv infection.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO SPECIFICALLY TEST FOR HIV OVER ANY OF THE ACTIVITIES YOU ARE WORRIED ABOUT, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

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