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Author Topic: The whole "oral sex" thing  (Read 8733 times)

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Offline SANJUANDUDE

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Re: The whole "oral sex" thing
« Reply #50 on: December 12, 2011, 12:26:42 PM »
I just don't mess with it.  This way disclsing status nevder comes up.
10/2011-CD-4-598-Undetectable
01/2012-CD-4-758-Undetectable
04/2012-CD$-780-70 Viral Load
08-2012-CD4-846--20 viral load
02/2013-CD$ 865----20 Undetectable Viral Load
08/2013- CD4-898----<20 undetectable viral load

Offline Rockin

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Re: The whole "oral sex" thing
« Reply #51 on: December 12, 2011, 10:19:38 PM »
I just don't mess with it.  This way disclsing status nevder comes up.

But what if your entering "serious relationship" mode and the guy really wants to suck you? It's very hard to keep this a secret in a relationship for a long time.

Offline spacebarsux

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Re: The whole "oral sex" thing
« Reply #52 on: December 13, 2011, 02:14:33 AM »
But what if your entering "serious relationship" mode and the guy really wants to suck you? It's very hard to keep this a secret in a relationship for a long time.

If you enter into a 'serious relationship', presumably it would be serious enough for you to not conceal your status, correct ?

Not telling a hot stranger about your status prior to getting a BJ in the sauna is a 'little different' to hiding it from your partner in a 'serious relationship', is it not ?

Edited to add:- It's not transmission risk as much as 'disclosure/trust issues' that seems to be your primary concern.
« Last Edit: December 13, 2011, 02:18:50 AM by spacebarsux »
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Offline SANJUANDUDE

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Re: The whole "oral sex" thing
« Reply #53 on: December 13, 2011, 08:33:06 AM »
 :)  I just don't like telling a perfect stranger, "oh by the way I am........."  I am into a serious realtionship and have been for nearly 12 years. 

Years, many years ago, we used to do the gay bathhouse thing, but I viewed that differently.  In our opinnion, if someone was entering a gay, essentially, sex club, then they are well-aware of the risks.  I never have and never would put anyone at risk, but I witnessed lots of unprotected sex going on.
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04/2012-CD$-780-70 Viral Load
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02/2013-CD$ 865----20 Undetectable Viral Load
08/2013- CD4-898----<20 undetectable viral load

Offline Miss Philicia

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Re: The whole "oral sex" thing
« Reply #54 on: December 13, 2011, 09:22:04 AM »
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"Iíve slept with enough men to know that Iím not gay"

Offline wolfter

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Complacency is the enemy.  ;)  Challenge yourself daily for maximum  return on investment.

Offline SANJUANDUDE

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Re: The whole "oral sex" thing
« Reply #56 on: December 13, 2011, 12:52:44 PM »
 :)  what am I supposed to say....  LOL!!!!!  If people are going to hang out in that type of environment, they must be well aware of the risks before they ever walk in the front door. :-*

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01/2012-CD-4-758-Undetectable
04/2012-CD$-780-70 Viral Load
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02/2013-CD$ 865----20 Undetectable Viral Load
08/2013- CD4-898----<20 undetectable viral load

 


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