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Offline Helpnug

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Raw skin on side of penis and possible expos
« on: January 14, 2012, 05:21:24 PM »
Hello I had an encounter a week from today. I masterbate daily earlier that day I noticed some raw skin on the side of my penis. No blood kinda felt like a rug burn. I was at a bar and a transsexual grabbed my penis and stroked it 3 time. I got scared and told to stop. She rubbed over that raw skin and since then my skin has been red and irratated. Is there any way she could have had dry semen or blood that could have entered the raw skin and passed HIV? Or if she had herpes is there anywAy that herpes and HIV could have entered threw that raw skin?

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I have raw skin on side of penis?
« Reply #1 on: January 14, 2012, 06:07:05 PM »
Hello I had an encounter a week from today. I masterbate daily earlier that day I noticed some raw skin on the side of my penis. No blood kinda felt like a rug burn. I was at a bar and a transsexual grabbed my penis and stroked it 3 time. I got scared and told to stop. She rubbed over that raw skin and since then my skin has been red and irratated. Is there any way she could have had dry semen or blood that could have entered the raw skin and passed HIV? Or if she had herpes is there anywAy that herpes and HIV could have entered threw that raw skin?

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Re: I have raw skin on side of penis?
« Reply #2 on: January 14, 2012, 06:11:50 PM »
Of course not.

Please read our rather extensive lessons on HIV transmission.

HIV is transmitted sexually through penetrative anal or vaginal sex.

Under no circumstances whatsoever could you possibly get HIV from being handled, however roughly, no matter what shape your penis is in.

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Offline Helpnug

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Re: I have raw skin on side of penis?
« Reply #3 on: January 14, 2012, 06:40:09 PM »
Thank you for quick reply. I have heard she is a prostitute. If the raw skin was a open wound I really don't know if it was if she had semen or blood from another person who was hiv pos could that have made its way threw?

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Re: Raw skin on side of penis and possible expos
« Reply #4 on: January 14, 2012, 06:51:22 PM »
I've merged your threads here. In the future please follow our rule and keep any entries you want to post in this same thread. Don't start any new threads.

As JK has pointed out to you, you were not at risk for HIV from the masturbation incident you have reported. HIV is a fragile virus and is not transmited in that manner. In fact the only confirmed risks for the sexual transmission of HIV are unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse. As long as you always use condoms for those activities you will be well protected.

If the irritation on your penis doesn't clear up you should discuss it with your doctor. It has nothing to do with HIV.
Andy Velez

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Re: Raw skin on side of penis and possible expos
« Reply #5 on: January 15, 2012, 04:47:05 AM »
Nug,

Hiv is NOT transmitted through being touched and it does not matter what the person doing the touching does for a living and it doesn't matter if your penis is raw. If hiv were as easily transmitted as you seem to think, everyone would be hiv positive by now.

Hiv is transmitted through unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse, mother to child during pregnancy or birth, through breastfeeding and through sharing needles to inject drugs.

The only two means of transmission you, as an adult male, need to worry about is the unprotected intercourse and the needle sharing. Don't do either and you won't be at risk for hiv infection.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST SPECIFICALLY OVER YOUR PENIS BEING TOUCHED, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann
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Re: Raw skin on side of penis and possible expos
« Reply #6 on: January 16, 2012, 11:57:37 AM »
Thank you I have one more question? I went to the doc and he said it could be hsv. If it was this and she was to have HIV can it have passed threw? Or if dried up HIV semen from someone else was on her hand could it have found its way through the hsv?

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Re: Raw skin on side of penis and possible expos
« Reply #7 on: January 16, 2012, 12:52:05 PM »
Help,

You're not listening. Hiv does not remain viable and able to infect once it's outside the host's body. You only would have been at risk if you put your penis INSIDE her anus or vagina without wearing a condom.

You did NOT have a risk for hiv infection!

If you read the Welcome Thread before posting like you're supposed to, you will have read the following posting guideline:

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Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.


Please consider yourself warned!

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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

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Re: Raw skin on side of penis and possible expos
« Reply #8 on: January 17, 2012, 02:55:37 PM »
I am sorry I have read what u have requested. I do understand. I love what u all are doing for people. I have read and my doctor has told me that if u have a herpes sore u are 3-5 times more likely to catch HIV and other std. My doctor said I do have hsv-1 from test before. And from what he sees it looks like a little outbreak. I have also find that the ts that grabbed me is a person with a high risk of HIV. I'm just scared that she may have had some of her fluids or fluids from another man on her hand and from them few strokes I have absorb some HIV threw these sores. I am sorry to bug u about this I am done posting if u can just answer this last questions. Please don't band me from the site I am thankful for what u have done for me

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Re: Raw skin on side of penis and possible expos
« Reply #9 on: January 17, 2012, 03:08:07 PM »

I have read and my doctor has told me that if u have a herpes sore u are 3-5 times more likely to catch HIV and other std.


Yes, this is true - IF YOU HAVE UNPROTECTED ANAL OR VAGINAL INTERCOURSE when you have an outbreak.

If you're having a herpes outbreak you should NOT be having sex of any kind with anyone. Keep your herpes to yourself!

You DID NOT HAVE unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse.

You DID NOT HAVE A RISK FOR HIV INFECTION.

Keep posting about this NO RISK situation and you WILL be given that time out I warned you about.

Please consider yourself warned for the LAST time!

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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