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Offline m.s.temprory

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am i infected
« on: September 19, 2011, 07:40:32 AM »
Hi

About 2 week ago I had 2 sex with different prostitutes, what make me worried now is :  during this two ,they put off my condom  and did hand job for me and in continue use another condom and finally put off the condom and with their hand job it finished .

Now I am concern about two things:

1-      Changing condom during sex may cause infection– it did not slip off; I changed it without any reason.

2-      The hand job in middle of sex without condom with child oil may cause infection – emphasizing no oral sex just hand job.

3-      Now after two weeks I have there throat and feel tiered, and I heard these are some symptoms.

Offline RapidRod

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Re: am i infected
« Reply #1 on: September 19, 2011, 07:48:27 AM »
You never had an exposure in the situations you've provided.

Offline m.s.temprory

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Re: am i infected
« Reply #2 on: September 19, 2011, 07:56:28 AM »
what is your reason about the sore throat after 2 week and the tiredness ?

Offline RapidRod

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Re: am i infected
« Reply #3 on: September 19, 2011, 08:03:15 AM »
If you are concerned about having a sore throat and feeling tired you need to see your doctor. It has nothing to do with HIV.

Offline m.s.temprory

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Re: am i infected
« Reply #4 on: September 19, 2011, 08:10:07 AM »
hey guy have you any idea about the safest way having sex with strangers.I read a lot about the condom and ... but they did not satisfy me.

Offline RapidRod

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Re: am i infected
« Reply #5 on: September 19, 2011, 08:13:10 AM »
If you want to have penetrative anal or vaginal sex with others then you need to use condoms.

Offline m.s.temprory

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« Reply #6 on: September 19, 2011, 08:27:58 AM »
you know rod the fact is that i am rally scared and now it is about several days that I cant do anything special.
having a hiv test right now is impossible for me.
could u please say what cause u to speak such confidence.

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Re: am i infected
« Reply #7 on: September 19, 2011, 08:31:53 AM »
Education.

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Re: am i infected
« Reply #8 on: September 19, 2011, 08:35:01 AM »
He can say what he did to you because nothing you did put you at risk for HIV. You used a condom for intercourse which is exactly what you are supposed to do. And being masturbated is not in anyway a risk for HIV transmission.

This is not an HIV situation. Period. Other STDs are easier to acquire than HIV so we do advise anyone who is sexually active to at least once a year have a full STD panel done.
Andy Velez

Offline m.s.temprory

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Re: am i infected
« Reply #9 on: September 19, 2011, 08:51:53 AM »
in my case what made me concern was that the changing of condom during sex may caused me infected.
it is clear that there is  some mucosa on the condom after penetration and when u are changing it your at risk.
or when they putt off my condom,their hand job may cause the mucosa reach the head of my cock and infection.

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Re: am i infected
« Reply #10 on: September 19, 2011, 08:57:49 AM »
HIV is a fragile virus. Once exposed to the air it quickly becomes non-viable.

Stop making the situation more complicated than it needs to be. It's having the head of your penis covered during intercourse that matters, not all this extra stuff you are throwing into the mix. 
Andy Velez

Offline m.s.temprory

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Re: am i infected
« Reply #11 on: September 19, 2011, 09:04:02 AM »
thanks the key that I was searching for was : "HIV is a fragile virus. Once exposed to the air it quickly becomes non-viable. "

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Re: am i infected
« Reply #12 on: September 19, 2011, 10:21:09 AM »
OK. On with your life now...
Andy Velez

Offline m.s.temprory

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Re: am i infected
« Reply #13 on: October 08, 2011, 03:33:15 AM »
Hi
After these all something strange is happening, my penis started to discharge something like semen with slightly burn and when I urinate it burn a little. Every time I look to my briefs I see that something like semen dried on it.
My pennies discharge continuously with burn and it is always wet and when it dries it sticks to my clothes.
I am really scared that if this is because of that sex then there would be possibility of HIV transfers as well.

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« Reply #14 on: October 08, 2011, 05:18:43 AM »
■Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.

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Re: am i infected
« Reply #15 on: October 08, 2011, 08:29:30 AM »
temp,

It sounds like you need to test for the other, much more easily transmitted sexually transmitted infections.

Whatever is going on had NOTHING to do with hiv. You have not had a risk for hiv.


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Re: am i infected
« Reply #16 on: October 08, 2011, 08:41:34 AM »
Your discharge is definitely not a symptom of ARS or HIV in any way. You need to see your doctor and find the source of the problem. As Ann has indicated other STDs are much easier to acquire than HIV.

This is NOT an HIV situation.
Andy Velez

Offline m.s.temprory

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« Reply #17 on: October 08, 2011, 10:01:17 AM »
thanks

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: am i infected
« Reply #18 on: October 08, 2011, 10:40:13 AM »
Good luck with getting that properly diagnosed and cleared up.
Andy Velez

 


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