Welcome, Guest. Please login or register.
December 10, 2016, 09:54:45 PM

Login with username, password and session length

  • Total Members: 29699
  • Latest: mat882
  • Total Posts: 704781
  • Total Topics: 56109
  • Online Today: 271
  • Online Ever: 1421
  • (August 13, 2016, 05:18:44 AM)
Users Online
Users: 3
Guests: 94
Total: 97


Welcome to the POZ Community Forums, a round-the-clock discussion area for people with HIV/AIDS, their friends/family/caregivers, and others concerned about HIV/AIDS.  Click on the links below to browse our various forums; scroll down for a glance at the most recent posts; or join in the conversation yourself by registering on the left side of this page.

Privacy Warning:  Please realize that these forums are open to all, and are fully searchable via Google and other search engines. If you are HIV positive and disclose this in our forums, then it is almost the same thing as telling the whole world (or at least the World Wide Web). If this concerns you, then do not use a username or avatar that are self-identifying in any way. We do not allow the deletion of anything you post in these forums, so think before you post.

  • The information shared in these forums, by moderators and members, is designed to complement, not replace, the relationship between an individual and his/her own physician.

  • All members of these forums are, by default, not considered to be licensed medical providers. If otherwise, users must clearly define themselves as such.

  • Forums members must behave at all times with respect and honesty. Posting guidelines, including time-out and banning policies, have been established by the moderators of these forums. Click here for “Am I Infected?” posting guidelines. Click here for posting guidelines pertaining to all other POZ community forums.

  • We ask all forums members to provide references for health/medical/scientific information they provide, when it is not a personal experience being discussed. Please provide hyperlinks with full URLs or full citations of published works not available via the Internet. Additionally, all forums members must post information which are true and correct to their knowledge.

  • Product advertisement—including links; banners; editorial content; and clinical trial, study or survey participation—is strictly prohibited by forums members unless permission has been secured from POZ.

To change forums navigation language settings, click here (members only), Register now

Para cambiar sus preferencias de los foros en español, haz clic aquí (sólo miembros), Regístrate ahora

Finished Reading This? You can collapse this or any other box on this page by clicking the symbol in each box.

Welcome to Am I Infected

Welcome to the "Am I Infected?" POZ forum.

New members -- those who have posted three or fewer messages -- are permitted to post questions and responses, free of charge (make them count!). Ongoing participation in the "Am I Infected?" forum -- posting more than three questions or responses -- requires a paid subscription.

A seven-day subscription is $9.99, a 30-day subscription is $14.99 and a 90-day subscription is $24.99.

Anyone who needs to post more than three messages in the "Am I Infected?" forum -- including past, present and future POZ Forums members -- will need to subscribe, with secure payments made via PayPal.

There will be no charge to continue reading threads in the "Am I Infected?" forum, nor will there be a charge for participating in any of the Main Forums; Meds, Mind, Body & Benefits; and Off Topic Forums. Similarly, all POZ pages, including our "HIV Transmission and Risks" and "Am I Infected? (A Guide to Testing for HIV)" basics, will remain accessible to all.

NOTE: HIV testing questions will still need to be posted in the "Am I Infected?" forum; attempts to post HIV symptoms or testing questions in any other forums will be considered violations of our rules of membership and subject to time-outs and permanent bans.

To learn how to upgrade your Forums account to participate beyond three posts in the "Am I Infected?" Forum, please click here.

Thank you for your understanding and future support of the best online support service for people living with, affected by and at risk for HIV.

Author Topic: Oral Sex / Frottage / Handjob  (Read 3511 times)

0 Members and 1 Guest are viewing this topic.

Offline cocaman

  • Member
  • Posts: 3
Oral Sex / Frottage / Handjob
« on: September 25, 2011, 01:03:07 PM »
Hi everyone,

I had unprotected oral sex (both receptive and giving).

This was followed by masturbating my partner till he cum on my hand and using that 'soiled' hand to JO on my dick and swallowing the cum.

We also did frottage (rubbing our penises tgt) and jo each other off too.

Am I at any risk and need testing?

Offline RapidRod

  • Member
  • Posts: 15,288
Re: Oral Sex and jo
« Reply #1 on: September 25, 2011, 03:03:23 PM »
At no time did you ever have a risk of contracting HIV from oral or from masturbation.

Offline cocaman

  • Member
  • Posts: 3
Oral Sex / Frottage / Handjob
« Reply #2 on: April 17, 2012, 08:51:44 AM »
Hi folks,

I have recently engaged in the following:

Frottage with a guy (penis touching penis / gland to gland / urethra to urethra) and pre-cum is evident and seen from his penis when doing the frottage act.

Unprotected Oral Sex (both giving and receiving / 69 )  and sucking around the groin area.

Giving each other a hand job.

What are the risk for me assuming both of us are ACTIVE in the sex scene and assuming both of us have got STDs (contracted before we even met) and proceeded with the above acts.

Should I get a test over the above incident?   Really worried to the extent that it's gonna affect my final university exams which will eventually affect my entire life :(

Please advise with appropriate reasoning? Thanks a billion!

Offline Ann

  • Administrator
  • Member
  • Posts: 28,140
  • It just is, OK?
    • Num is sum qui mentiar tibi?
Re: Oral Sex / Frottage / Handjob
« Reply #3 on: April 17, 2012, 09:33:47 AM »

I've merged your new thread into your original thread - where you should post all your additional thoughts or questions. It helps us to help you when you keep everything in one thread. It doesn't matter how long it has been since you last posted in your thread or if the subject matter is different.

If you need help finding your thread when you come here, click on the "Show own posts" link under your name in the left-hand column of any forum page.

Please also read through the Welcome Thread so you can familiarize yourself with our Forum Posting Guidelines. Thank you for your cooperation.

Once again you have not had a risk for hiv infection. Neither mutual masturbation nor frottage are risks. Oral isn't a risk either.

There have been three long-term studies of couples where one is positive and one is negative. In the couples who used condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, but no barrier for oral activities, not one of the negative partners became infected with hiv. Not one.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST SPECIFICALLY OVER MASTURBATION, FROTTAGE OR ORAL, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Condoms are a girl's best friend

Condom and Lube Info  

"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline Andy Velez

  • Global Moderator
  • Member
  • Posts: 29,945
Re: Oral Sex / Frottage / Handjob
« Reply #4 on: April 17, 2012, 09:35:39 AM »
The only confirmed risks for the sexual transmission of HIV are unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse. As long as condoms are always used for those activities you will be well protected.

Nothing you are reporting has put you at risk for HIV. However, other STDs are much easier to acquire than HIV, so we advise anyone who is sexually active to regularly have a full STD panel done. That means at least once a year.

As far as HIV is concerned you are worrying needlessly.
Andy Velez

Offline cocaman

  • Member
  • Posts: 3
Re: Oral Sex / Frottage / Handjob
« Reply #5 on: April 21, 2012, 09:17:25 AM »
Thank you folks for your prompt replies.

Just 2 more questions:

So I do not need any HIV testing at all. Furthermore, HIV testing is warranted if I engage in:

1. Unprotected vaginal and anal sex right?

2. No offense, but may I know how reliable is forums.poz in terms of credibility and the answers given to other forumers/me here .. ?       

Hope to hear from you soon! (:

Offline Andy Velez

  • Global Moderator
  • Member
  • Posts: 29,945
Re: Oral Sex / Frottage / Handjob
« Reply #6 on: April 21, 2012, 10:11:43 AM »
There is no need for specific HIV testing at this time. Because other STDs are much easier to acquire than HIV, we do advise anyone who is sexually active to at least annually have a full STD panel done.

As to our credibility, you should read our profiles to get some information about the respondants here. We're very careful in evaluating each situation individually and our responses are grounded in HIV science and years of experience in the epidemic. You can decide if we're reliable.
Andy Velez


Terms of Membership for these forums

© 2016 Smart + Strong. All Rights Reserved.   terms of use and your privacy
Smart + Strong® is a registered trademark of CDM Publishing, LLC.