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Offline hamiltonc56

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Fingering someone's vaginal and getting sucked.
« on: June 24, 2011, 10:31:00 PM »
Tuesday June 21, I went to strip club, and one girl came to me and wanted for lap dance, but I wanted VIP prvate for blowjob, and we went to VIP and I paid for it. She gave me a blowjob, and she made me sucking her breast, only sucking breast, not vaginal. And so I fingered her vaginal. Only she gave me a blowjob, only I sucked her breast, and only I fingered her vaginal, that's it. Nothing else. Anf I went to home and I am very scared and having a panic that I might get HIV infected. I was stressed so badly! And wendesday morning I was still having panic attack that I am stressing out a lot. And now thursday I noticed that my lips came out to mouth sore, I was very scared to death! I am praying to God that I don't wanna get any HIV or AIDS. But I don't understand we didn't have sex with penis/vaginal pentrate or kissing. Just only getting sucked, sucked her breast, and fingered her vaginal that's all! Am I infected? Please help me!

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Re: Fingering someone's vaginal and getting sucked.
« Reply #1 on: June 24, 2011, 10:32:22 PM »
You never had an exposure.

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Re: Fingering someone's vaginal and getting sucked.
« Reply #2 on: June 24, 2011, 11:08:20 PM »
What do you mean "I never had an exposure"?

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Re: Fingering someone's vaginal and getting sucked.
« Reply #3 on: June 24, 2011, 11:11:15 PM »
Just what I said. Oral sex isn't a risk of HIV transmission. Fingering isn't a risk and sucking someone's tits isn't a risk.

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Re: Fingering someone's vaginal and getting sucked.
« Reply #4 on: June 24, 2011, 11:12:16 PM »
But I do not understand that I had a mouth sore?

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Re: Fingering someone's vaginal and getting sucked.
« Reply #5 on: June 24, 2011, 11:13:41 PM »
Doesn't matter if you had a sore in your mouth or not, it isn't a risk.

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Re: Fingering someone's vaginal and getting sucked.
« Reply #6 on: June 25, 2011, 09:44:45 AM »
Hamilton,

You absolutely did NOT have a risk for hiv infection.

Getting a blowjob is not a risk for hiv infection.

Fingering is not a risk for hiv infection.

Sucking breasts is not a risk for hiv infection.

Not one person has ever been infected by any of these activities and you are not going to be the first.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST OVER A BLOWJOB, FINGERING OR BREAST-SUCKING, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

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Offline hamiltonc56

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Re: Fingering someone's vaginal and getting sucked.
« Reply #7 on: June 25, 2011, 09:15:30 PM »
Oh thank you for helping! I felt better a little bit, but what about my mouth sore? I don't understand?

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Re: Fingering someone's vaginal and getting sucked.
« Reply #8 on: June 25, 2011, 09:17:58 PM »
What don't you understand about your mouth sore?

You didn't have a risk for HIV and your mouth sore has nothing to do with HIV. If it persists you should discuss it with your doctor. You are worrying needlessly about HIV. End of story.

Andy Velez

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Re: Fingering someone's vaginal and getting sucked.
« Reply #9 on: June 25, 2011, 09:25:28 PM »
Andy,

Ahh thanks for helping, I don't understand about my mouth sore, because after blowjob, fingering and breastsucking and in two days I got mouth sores I just got scared and checked up an internet for HIV symptoms it says mouth sores is early symptom of HIV, I just got scared to death. But you say I don't have a risk for HIV infected and so now I felt better! So now I am fighting my temptation off against devil! I am not going to have sex with anyone until I get married! So I am glad that you and Ann helped me about those... Thank you very much!

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Re: Fingering someone's vaginal and getting sucked.
« Reply #10 on: June 26, 2011, 01:45:21 AM »
But I was fingering inside her vaginal, I can feel her vaginal is wet as vaginal secretions that I am worrying, can it be infected through touching vaginal secretions? I read some on internet it says vaginal secretions can cause people to infected HIV? I am confused????

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Re: Fingering someone's vaginal and getting sucked.
« Reply #11 on: June 26, 2011, 04:06:32 AM »
■Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.

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Re: Fingering someone's vaginal and getting sucked.
« Reply #12 on: June 26, 2011, 08:42:43 AM »
What don't you understand about your mouth sore?

You didn't have a risk for HIV and your mouth sore has nothing to do with HIV. If it persists you should discuss it with your doctor. You are worrying needlessly about HIV. End of story.



What you need to understand is that you did not have a risk and that if you continue to come back here about this non-risk incident you will find yourself getting a Time Out for at least 28 days from the site. Be glad and accept that HIV is not your problem. Period.
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Re: Fingering someone's vaginal and getting sucked.
« Reply #13 on: June 26, 2011, 09:21:17 AM »
Hamilton,

You can have as much sex before marriage as you like, as long as you use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse. Those two activities are the only sex acts that have been proven to transmit hiv.

Hiv can only infect a very few, very specific types of cells and these cells are not found on the surface of the skin or even in shallow cuts, scrapes, nicks, pimples, rashes or whatever on your skin. If hiv were that easily transmitted, everyone in the world would be hiv positive by now, just like everyone has had a cold or flu at some point in their life.

The cells that hiv CAN infect are found in the lining of the anus, vagina, urethra (where you pee/cum from) and on the inside part of the foreskin in uncircumcised men. That is why only unprotected intercourse is a true risk for hiv infection.

There have been long-term studies of couples where one is positive and one is negative. In the couples who used condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, but no barrier for oral activities, not one of the negative partners became infected with hiv. Not one. NOT ONE.

You did NOT have a risk for hiv infection.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. IT REALLY IS THAT SIMPLE!!!

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

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Re: Fingering someone's vaginal and getting sucked.
« Reply #14 on: July 01, 2011, 07:07:52 PM »
I noticed that I am starting to have a sore throat, now I am worrying and feeling panicked. Is that sore throat of HIV symptoms? I checked up on the internet.

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Re: Fingering someone's vaginal and getting sucked.
« Reply #15 on: July 01, 2011, 07:26:09 PM »
What part of you didn't have a risk is it you don't understand?

Offline hamiltonc56

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Re: Fingering someone's vaginal and getting sucked.
« Reply #16 on: July 01, 2011, 07:50:09 PM »
I noticed that I don't have a mouth sore anymore, it's gone! But I have a sore throat, does it mean I am at risk with HIV?

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Re: Fingering someone's vaginal and getting sucked.
« Reply #17 on: July 01, 2011, 08:01:35 PM »
■Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.

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Re: Fingering someone's vaginal and getting sucked.
« Reply #18 on: July 01, 2011, 08:26:55 PM »
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/2383.html

But I read this website above up.. See above? It says, "There is a theoretical risk of infection by fingering a woman, as vaginal fluids and menstrual blood can carry HIV." Is that true?

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Re: Fingering someone's vaginal and getting sucked.
« Reply #19 on: July 01, 2011, 10:49:44 PM »
You didn't have a risk.

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Re: Fingering someone's vaginal and getting sucked.
« Reply #20 on: July 02, 2011, 07:59:59 AM »
Hamilton,

It's also a "theoretical" risk that the next time you step outside, you'll be hit by a falling meteorite. Does that keep you in the house 24/7? It's also a theoretical risk that you'll step outside your front door tomorrow morning and find a winning lottery ticket worth millions lying on your doorstep. Does that mean you go out and max out your credit cards? They're both theoretical situations, but they're not going to happen.

While menstrual fluids and the thick mucus that covers and protects the cervix deep inside the vagina may carry hiv, fingering isn't a risk.

Hiv can only infect a very few, very specific types of cells and these cells are NOT found on the surface of the skin nor are they found in superficial cuts, scrapes, hangnails or whatever other little wounds you may have on your fingers.

The cells that hiv CAN infect are found in the lining of the anus and vagina, and in men, in the urethra and also the inside of the foreskin (the part that is hidden when the foreskin is pulled over the head). For this reason, the only sexual activities that have been proven to transmit hiv are unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse.

I've already given you this information - it's time you started applying to your life what you've learned here.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. IT REALLY IS THAT SIMPLE!!!

If you keep posting about this NO RISK situation, you WILL be given that Time Out Rodney warned you about. This is your LAST warning!!!

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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